Single Men And The Swinging Lifestyle

Are You A Single Guy And Want To Be A Swinger...

First of all, it is important to understand what swinging is before deciding to participate in. If you are a single guy looking for a sex or orgy club you have to know that is not the same thing as swinging. Swinging is a lifestyle, not just having sex. If you really want to get into this lifestyle, you need to know what it's about. If you don't understand it, nobody will take you seriously in the swingers world. It is not about screwing anyone's wife. It is not sex clubs and not a escort service either. If you looking for sex only, hire a escort. In this case swinging is not for you.

Single men often wonder why it is so hard for them to get into the swinging scene. This may help to understand why... 95% of swingers are couples. Most of them married. They are usually secure people not looking for any emotional attachment. Just fun recreational sex as an enhancement to an already healthy primary relationship. For most of them friendship is very important. They are very selective about who they chose to be with or even meet.

Bisexual Female Swingers

A high percentage of female swingers are bisexual. Fewer men are openly bisexual but that is gradually changing. Couples generally seek other couples. Couples with a bi female often seek another couple with a bi female, or a single female. This benefits both the man & the woman. Therefore, fewer couples seek to add a second male unless it's something the woman wants or they are seeking a bi male. As far as married men playing discreetly without the wife, very, very few couples will accept that. Cheating is something that is very contrary to the concept of swinging.

Probably you already know that, not to many couples looking for single men, and in fact not to many club let single men in to their dances. Some couples seek extra men. Some couples interest in three or more some, gang bang or the husband just like to watch his wife in sexual act and maybe he'll later participate in too.

So do you want to be part of their life? It wont be easy but the next few sentences may give some basic idea.

Probably you already heard that, "Looking for couples and select single men". Select means that you must be clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered. If you’re not all of these things this is not for you.

How Can swing a single man? Real swinger lady advice for curious men!

Swingers Clubs

Remember most of the swingers clubs are members only clubs. Of course most of the clubs let guests in. If you are a single male the easiest way to get in with a member couple. You have to understand that discretion and privacy very important for every swingers. You really have to behave, your character is under continual scrutiny... That means that just because you are in the club today, does not mean that you can be in tomorrow too. If you misbehave, act badly or disruptive then your will be ask to leave immediately and you will be permanently bared from ever returning to that club again.

Club members know each other. This also means that if you insult or offend one couple, word will spread very quickly to the other members. By the same token if you are pleasant to a couple and they enjoy your company, they will be eager to introduce you to other couples and ladies so that they can enjoy your company too. Just like close friends love to recommend a good movie or a good restaurant to their friends... Swingers like to recommend people with to their friends!

How To Pick Up Married Swinger Lady

You can have a great time if you leave your punk attitude at the door (if you have). Be yourself, be real and socialize, ask a lady to dance and have fun. Maybe even ask her husband for permission to ask his wife to dance. Talk to her husband and be friends with him too, remember, if he doesn’t like you then you’re not getting anywhere with her. Take your time and don’t be in a hurry.

One important thing to understand about couples (and women) who are in this lifestyle, is that every couple plays for this a reason. It is their own personal enjoyment, not yours. Some are interested only in other couples, some only in women, some do nothing, they just like the atmosphere, and some are interested in playing with single men, (this is where you might come in).

All couples have a set of rules by which they play, and vary little from those rules. Don’t try to change them, it won’t work and you will appear pushy.

Be a gentleman & a classy guy. Just because a woman likes sex, doesn’t mean she appreciates vulgar language or suggestive remarks. Good manners and social skills are more important here than anywhere else.

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