Casual Sex & Fetishes
Some people are open about their open minded lifestyle while others aren't. I
think some people are afraid to talk about casual no commitment sex openly because they worry about
what others think. Casual sex - no commitment sex is pretty much sex, that swingers
practice... Unfortunately in our today's society a lot of people think
that, swingers are a bunch of sex maniac idiots.
Okay, let's complicate it a bit. What about if someone is fetish and love to
have sex with multiply sex partners? Is this person, a swinger, a fetish or just
want to have recreational sex? If
your neighbours, think that, swingers are over sexed idiots, what they
think about fetishes?
Well maybe they think fetishes are sick or are weird.
Well, I have a bad news for your neighbourhood, no fetish is weird, unless it is
having sex with animal or dead body. Fetishes are normal and we all have them,
probably your neighbours too. They are what make sex interesting and fun.
What is fetish anyway?
A fetish is when we need something special to turn us on. It can be a thing,
can be an imagination, or a sexual activity. For example that special thought we
think while we are masturbating. It is what makes us really horny, not just
horny. There are all kind of fetishes out there. More than we can imagine.
Some fetishes will contain actual items, such as high heels. Some fetishes will
be about acts, for example acting like a prostitute, or house keeper, while having sex.
Some "hard core" fetishes might contain both actual items and acting, like
wearing a diaper and acting like a baby. I don't want to talk hard core
fetishes, like, domination, pain, plastic, golden shower or water sport. They
are a different category and have nothing to do with casual sex or swinging.
Some men, swingers and non swingers have fetishes and don't even know it. Are you
a breast lover? That is a fetish. A nice long female legs turn you on? Do you
like them in pantyhose? What about shaved and pierced genitals? That too is a
fetish. Don't run from them, they are what turn you on.
Voyeurism is the most popular fetish. People love to watch and be watched while
having sex. Also lot of people turn to be swingers because they love to watch their spouse in
sexual activity with others. This is why they swing. This is turn them on. Is this
swinging practice consider as fetish or casual sex? You tell me.
Other popular fetish that swingers and non swingers practice: Erotic, dirty language.
Lot of people enjoy saying things while having sex, because it turn them on.
Some people (usually women) can't have orgasm with out dirty words. For example a
lot of swingers women like to "order" their sex partners: "Fuck me harder whit
that hard big cock of yours!" She gets turned up by just thinking about big hard
cock (even if her sex partner's cock is not that big) and if somebody watches
it, that person probably will get horny too.
It is interesting how people who practice casual - no commitment sex and
swingers women deal with fetishes. For
example many swingers women wear for sex parties, crotch less pantyhose
and garden belt.
Many of them shaves their own pussy, because many men prefer shaved
pussy... but those ladies not just shave that pussy, their shaved pussy looks
like an artist's work, because the different designs... And that is fetish.
Women, swingers and non swingers obsess about shoes and spend a lot of money
on shoes. Also women often fantasizing with big cock and multiply
sex partners. Is this fetish? I think so.
A lot of people, swingers and non swingers love fetishes. Probably they don even
know what they love is fetish. They love it and they don't want to give it up
and they should not. If they and their sex partner enjoy it, just because it is
fetish it is not a crime!
You are a swinger or not a swinger, love fetish or don't it wont make any
different if you can not give enough quality sex for your female partner or
mate. In this case, your relationship, will be in very serious
trouble. You should find somebody to help you out, or you should
educate yourself, before she'll find some young stud to serve her sexual need.
You should visit the Ultimate Sex Guide.
You can learn there tons of sex games, erotic tips for foreplay, tips before and
after sex.
Should couples masturbate, should they give a hand job to each other? Is this
fetish or just plain fun? What about, if it is a fetish? I don't think,
because masturbation is a fetish, couples wont masturbate anymore. Masturbation and couples,
fetish not fetish, it sound good to me.
Related Topics:
Couples' Masturbation
Men's Masturbation
Women's Masturbation
Shave your genital's area or do not
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