Sex Tips For Men
Married people make love with their spouse, therefore they do do not plan to have sex with them. Love making just supposed to happen. Put the kids in bed, sit around a little, watch TV and spontaneously make love. How nice it is to even talk about it...
But if you would like to have fun with somebody else other than your spouse, you need to plan everything. You can play alone or as a couple, but you still have to have some kind of plan. For example you have to know, how far you will go. For example, you are a single man and there is a woman. You see her full around with guys, and you think she flirting with you and you want to take her flirting the the next step.
You Want To Have Sex With Her
You have made the decision. You chat her, maybe even danced with her or spend an afternoon her and had a good time. You know you have a chance, you would like to have sex with her. You prepared, you have a room, condoms, candles and you are ready to go. Unfortunately this is just 50% of your plan. The other 50% is up to her.
To make your 50% to 100% you have to make her accept your plan. But how? There are many ways, one of them is ask her; Do you mind if I do this or that? She might say yes, or might say no. This is not the best way to go, there is an option to say no. Even if your future sex partner is an open minded woman, maybe she is into no string attached sex or just somebody who love to have sex, you should not take her for granted. No any woman granted.
It is like a catch me if you can, or Adam and Eva in the paradise... To get the forbidden fruit, you have to work on her. You have to seduce her. Every lady love to be seduced, even your wife if you have one. Women love to be feel wanted. Use your charm to persuade her. Make her feel very sexy and beautiful. It will turn her on.
You should start to seduce her, as soon you met with her, women need more time than men.
To have sex with a woman, needs more work than just get her naked lets do it baby... That is not enough. First you have to turn her on, and then get naked. You have to talk to her. Tell her how beautiful she is, how nice her boobs or legs are, how sexy is her buttocks. How silky is her pubic hair (if she has any). Tell her what you want to do with her. Probably it will turn her on and must likely will turn you on too. If this happens, let her know how you feel.
Take Your Time & Turn Her On
Remember, a woman need more time to get into the mood, to get fully sexually aroused. Just because you try to get her horny and you get yourself very horny, it doesn't mean that she is ready to go. You have to pay attention to her body. It will tell you when she is ready. Are her nipples hard? Maybe some goose bumps have developed on her. Is she breathing faster? Is she moving, pushing her hips toward you? When she is ready she wants part of you inside herself and that part is not your finger. You should not poke your finger into her as a fork in to the steak to check: Is it ready? Is she wet enough? No she is dry, I will lick her boobs for a few minutes and check again. It wont work this way. You must to be sure her juice is running, before you finger her.
Respect her body and honour her willingness to allow you to play with her. When she is ready enter her. She want to feel you cock inside her. She needs to adjust her body to your cock and of course you want to feel her inside. Go slowly and enjoy yourself. Take deep breaths in rhythm, it will help you control you to hit your no return point stop. Take a break, change position and talk with her. Then go again. Don't tense your buttocks. It will cause more pleasure and you will hit sooner the no return point. Take it easy, relax, specially your butt's muscles and enjoy the pleasure. Try to give her as much pleasure as much possible. If she doesn't have a good time with you, she wants it to be over fast. If she is a experienced lover she will fix you in a short time. You don't want it to happen. You don't want to get out from there in a hurry. The longer it takes, your and her sexual experience will be more satisfying.
Performance Issues in Leisure No String Attached Sex
Sometimes, no matter how hard you try to have sex with new partner, it just doesn't work. It usually happens with first timer sex partners, even with first swingers, but it can happen with any man. Nervousness, jealousness, alcohol and or pushy partner cause performance pressure. Performance pressure might cause performance failure. Some men can not get hard with the wrong partner. Communication will help. Relax and try again, learn from you mistakes and you will be a good sex partner.