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Posted on September 2, 2010 by man48

Submissive or dom..?

I have recently found out that I prefer to be dominated by men when it comes to sex.To be told to do things, to be put where I’m needed to go..etc. I love it…

But when it comes to women, I have a tendency to be dominant over them. I don’t understand this. I tell them what to do to me or what to do with my husband. I boss around our female sex partners pretty much, and I enjoy it…

I have never been this way. Any reason why I am now..? Continue Reading>>>

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I don’t know, but I love being dominated by both sexes, makes me feel real sexy and horny. Continue Reading>>>

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At this point in time, I’ve learned I am very flexible when it comes to being either dominant or submissive. I really have no preference. What is important to me is the quality of the sexual experience. I am very particular in terms of whom I let into my bed, so my experience is rather limited. However, I have played both roles successfully.

As far as your situation is concerned, you are part of a couple and you probably have been part of this couple for a while. I suspect that, because you as a couple seek out women, you prefer to assume the dominant role with these women so that you can be in charge of the situation.

Maybe it also makes you feel more secure or it turns you on more to be the dom when it comes to women. If I let a woman into my bed with a man, I would want to be in control so that the situation did not get out of hand.

Of course, at the same time, I wouldn’t ask a woman to do something with which she is not comfortable. Continue Reading>>>

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You have discovered the delights of being a switch. I am a submissive to both men and women but a friend is a switch with both sexes and loves it. Says she gets the best of both worlds.

So who is switch in sex?

The person is switch who can be dominant and submissive too, and may alternate between the two. Other name is versatile. Switch may switch roles based on mood, desire, or to allow each partner to experience their preferred activity.

It is also common for people to switch with different partners, such as when a person play with males or play with females. You are like this… Continue Reading>>>

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It’s not uncommon for people to switch roles in the bedroom. You have a preference for each sex… Not too big of a surprise and not abnormal either in my opinion. Continue Reading>>>

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You wouldn’t think if you look at me… but I like rough sex.

I like it gentle and slow sometimes from my husband, but what I really like is when he gives me detailed instructions of where and how to kiss and suck, how to move.

Really, though, I like to get it hard from anyone who wants to take control, male or female. I like to play the slut. I guess you could say I’m submissive in the bedroom. So what? It is the way how I love it.

My hubby’s often reluctant to play rough or let an extra woman (or two!) into our bedroom, but I’ve gradually convinced him to get more dominant, and to accept the occasional male “guest” too.

So you asked why I am now? Does it matter? If you enjoy being submissive to men and dominant towards women, then that is what works for you! So why ask why? Just have fun! Continue Reading>>>

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Posted on August 30, 2010 by man48

Screening for open minded couples and for well hung single men.

Okay, I am now officially part of a couple. Didn’t expect, this ever will happen with me… and it did. And – he is more than willing to invite other people into the bedroom. Didn’t expect that one either, but I like the idea. In fact I like it very much…

So here we are, ready to invite another couple or a single man into our erotic play. I’m not interested in other women. I’m not quite sure how this is supposed to work, but I know I will play with well hung guys only!

I used to be single… and as a single woman, I know exactly what I am looking for in a sex partner, or if when I wanted to get kinky in partners. I know the warning signs and when to cut them off at the knees. But I have never done this sharing – swinging marathon sex before.

One horror story I read involved leaving the woman alone with the new guy. Basically, he treated her like a prostitute and then left because he didn’t know what to do. I think I can screen those types out.

However, what should we be careful of? What are some warning signs? What are some lessons learned that you went through the hard way? Read More>>>>

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It really is an interesting experience… Erotic dating with your hubby… or hunt for a hunk with the hubby.

First (and pretty obviously) both of you need to feel comfortable with him or them, and they with both of you. Having that many more preferences, and personalities involved, tends to thin out the crowd pretty quick.

Some people swear by having a no rules, no holds barred, free for all, but that wasn’t for us. We found discussing ahead of time, both what we wanted, and what was off limits, was imperative. Honesty is imperative.

I found with single men, that many of them included mfm on their profile, simply to increase their chances of getting laid, and not because that was an experience they really were interested in. Good idea to go with men who already have had experience, or who when sharing fantasies doesn’t just talk one on one. Read More>>>>

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What should we be careful of?

Men who are overly aggressive, those that have no respect for the male partner, and those that take liberties ignoring the boundaries you set.

What are some warning signs?

Pushy on meeting etc, those that will not meet the guy prior, those that demand they want this or that. Hey this profile still has the confirm number…

What are some lessons learned that you went through the hard way?

Actually our first and so far only MFM was fine: but I spent a lot of time talking to guys until I found one that matched my lover in his personality and respected my lover as the male lead and us as a couple. I also talked a lot to my lover discussing various issues that were brought up here on the Erotic Dating Advice Line.

The only iffy subject that arose was how my lover would feel later since the both of us were having some serious feelings. And it worked out great because we are still lovers, and playing together, more then 3 years now. Read More>>>>

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Same room sex is the best sex , that a couple can have with other couple. Big turn on, just to see your hubby having erotic fun with other woman…

One thing we do is to agree, we always play in the same room, if we play with couples… or if is a threesome he never leave the room.

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Safe sex or no sex! All you can do is insist on safe(r) sex practices, and keep your eyes open for anything that looks suspicious.

Even a complete health screening is no guarantee as it only shows that they were clean up until the blood tests. It says nothing about the period of time until they got their results or decided to get into bed with you. I know there is no safe sex today, but there are condoms… so no condom, no sex! Read More>>>>
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Sex is like good wine, getting better with age

Posted on August 28, 2010 by man48

Is it? Is sex really better as you are – we are getting older? Better sex now, or then?

Many of us here are mature adults now. Or should be. Was sex better in our younger age, or just more abundant? Does better sex come with age?

Or sex is hard work as you are getting older.

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I say it’s better now that it ever has been!!

My husband would tell you it was more exciting, and much better, when he was younger….

You kind of have 2 different thoughts from this couple!

Oh, and for plus, I get fucked alot more today than I ever did before. And I like it much more this days, then I did in my younger age.

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Sex is as available now as it was back then. The best sex has always been with people with the right attitude, young or old, now or then.

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Honestly, I think a part of me liked it better when I was younger, in my mid 20′s. Back than, it was all new for me. So it was a delightful and very enjoyable learning experience. Felt very innocent and exciting. It was all new territory for me and I liked it.

Now in my more adult years I feel sex has become all complicated and shit with the whole, gotta make that mental connection first and what not. Of course I like it very much, but doesnt feel so simple as it did back than.

Yeah, I’m just speaking of my own experience, and my experience only…

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It keeps getting better when shared with a lover or partner who is as interested in keeping the doors of exploration open as I am. Learning subtle little things that are woven into a larger tapestry of knowledge, technique and experience is what I mean by this.

One need not necessarily explore to the very limits of each others tolerances, limits, morals or objections to find that love-making can and does keep getting better and better.

It has always been, at least for me and my lovers and for my sex friends , a matter of taking the time to listen to each others bodies. A thousand clues or signals of meaning are sent with every glance, sigh, moan or involuntary reaction, not to mention what is said or done at the conscious level as well.

Real love-making, isn’t about getting off, it’s about caring enough to keep seeking new and newer combinations of love making technique that will bring ever greater satisfaction to each other… and it is about making adjustments and compromises outside of the bedroom so that we can find the time to spend in the bedroom seeking each others desires fulfillment.

However doesn’t matter how old are you… but with out knowledge and love making skill, you just will get get off, maybe your partner will have orgasm too, but that wont be sexual satisfaction.

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There are many things that contribute to better sex. As a woman there have been pluses and minuses over time.

Experience has given me confidence in my skills, but my body confidence has plummeted. Yes sex was more abundant, but now it’s quality over quantity…. and the quality is fantastic. I am definitely more honest about what I want, and what I don’t.

I think sex is better better now. Another case of youth being wasted on the young. Older people don’t rush. They take their time and good job need time…

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Sex in middle age is different than in your twenties and in older age is better. Better in some ways, not as good in others.

At 25, my record was seven orgasms in one night. At 59, two is a very good night.

At 25, sex was simple, mainly intercourse, which rarely results in simultaneous orgasms. Some oral sex, not a lot of what might be called kinky things. At 59, I have found it more enjoyable to engage in serial, marathon sex plays : I please her orally and then she reciprocates. I have learned to be patient, to key into her reaction, to stroke the G spot, to lick her pussy with long strokes, alternating with sucking and licking her clit, and seeing after her first orgasm if I should keep sucking, lightly at first, to give her a second orgasm, which builds on the base of the first to a much higher and more intense orgasm.

I have learned to teach them to enjoy anal sex and have learned to do nice and very slow, so that it causes little or no pain, despite my size. I have learned the importance of cuddling and slow foreplay, and most of all, the need of women for talking in bed.

I learned the majority of these things on LoveCentria. I recommend it to any men, who can not gove an orgasm to their female sex partner at all the time.

It took me decades to become a better lover, and the result is that my lovers and sex friends are better lovers to me too. They are willing and interested in different positions, things that others might consider kinky. Their orgasms and mine are more intense than when we were young.

I miss the ability get diamond hard cock in the matter of minutes between two orgasm… In my youth I could get hard at anytime. But I think sex is a lot more fulfilling, much more satisfying now. Penis enhancement herbs and healthy lifestyle helps. In short, better sex does come with age.

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Sex is much much better now! I can be me and I am such a naughty naughty girl. I learned what I want and learned how to let my partner know what I want. I think the secret of the good sex is skills and communication.

Women talk about casual sex with married men

Posted on August 25, 2010 by man48

I know I’m guilty of bouncing up on a few married men in my day from SwingersCouple.net… Just curious to know who else has hooked up with married men on here?

And if you happened to be a married man why are you on here?

Oh and before I get any rude comments: Remember and look at what site we are on! None of us have room to judge! Plus how would you know you haven’t been with a married man or with a married woman?

Unfortunately there are a lot of lying looser on here too! Read More>>>>

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I’m a married man and I have had sex with a few married women in the past and we both just loved it.

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Monique, I’ve only been involved in 3 sex relationship on SwingersCouple.net in 2 1/2 years, and none of them were with married man. One of them was separated….

If 95% of men that I’ve met post old pictures, and don’t even closely resemble their pictures when you meet them; then they try to hide something. They don’t want anyone recognize them… so most likely they are married.

I’m quite sure that I’ve met some married men… and my girlfriend does not have any problem to get laid by married men

Girl, being 6′ tall, you could whip ANY married man’s ass…

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I think you are defining ‘married men’ as those who don’t say they are, as in an open marriage, swinging, or otherwise upfront with that?

As in lying and cheating with not enough balls or desire to just leave a sucky marriage, looking for a little booty on the side but otherwise not commit?

If that’s what you mean then a lying married man is here to try and get laid on the side and on the sly and has no other intentions? So yes that’s scummy.

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Just curious to know who else has hooked up with married men on here? I think that is far more common in the dark than will be said in the open mostly from fear of getting slammed.

And if you happened to be a married man why are you on here? I am going out on a limb here and gather they are on here for the same reason most people are: for casual sex.

And the answer is in the word, “casual sex“. How can you have casual sex with your husband or wife?

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The site we are on is called SwingersCouple.net It’s very name suggest that the individuals here carry themselves as such! I understand that other sites also submit questions to this site.

You however state that you are a member on the same site as I, therefore your behavior is not one that I condone or
respect.If you choose to interact with someone else’s spouse then you are willingly participating in a betrayal. Someone is the VICTIM, that person is the one whom cannot defend themselves here.

She is at home, perhaps with their children, or worse alone, wondering where her spouse is. She is either aware of the marital issues or blinded by the lies told, either way, she surely is the victim.

With the rise of STDs, the Human papiloma virus that can be transmitted even with the use of condoms, and causes cervical cancer.

She is the victim! Let alone the multitude of others that the cheating spouse can bring home. The money spent, not on her or the children, is a waste of precious resources in a time of rising cost in the home. Monies denied to the family for school, food, or a day of indulgence and reward for fulfilling her part of the commitment.

Why is this permitted, because clearly some people allow themselves to overlook the victims in their own search for sexual fulfillment.

You only know his version of the truth, his twisted version of reality, his version that paints himself as the one who remains married in a loveless relationship, a sexless one.

He lies, because it works, he lies because that’s what some women need to hear to justify their involvement in his scheme.

Now ask yourself, would it still be okay, if you were his wife? If you want tom play fair game girl, play only in the presence of his wife.

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I have dealt with married men before in the past. I have had a few regrets. I get a lot of guys of saying the same old thing…

Well my wife doesn’t fuck me anymore, or she works a lot, because her sex drive just disappeared, or we are still together for the kids. Some of the regrets was when the wife finds out, which leads to a lot of drama (who wants that).

To your comment as far as single guys stating they are truly single and finding out they are married, those are the guys I am always cautious about. What else are they hiding.

However, remember, this is a swingers dating site, and there is a reason, why married men are here. And maybe their wife have something to do with that reason… She should fuck their brain out, and then they would not have any energy to fuck girl like you…

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Don’t forget the married women on here too. If your gonna dish down on married men better start on the married women to. What good for the goose is good for the gander too baby-girl…

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I’m with you EbonyBabydoll22.

I believe that Jesus was real, but he wasn’t some god figure or even someone worthy of following. He was just a dude that thought everyone should try being nice to each other and not try to screw people over. So, judge no one, because you will be judged too.

Some people regard oral sex as wrong. Some believe that sex should only happen within marriage and only for the purpose of procreation. So by their standards, almost everyone on this site is a scumbag that will burn in the pits of hell for eternity.

So who do you think you are to judge what others do?

I personally believe that cheating is not about the sex, it’s about going behind your significant other’s back. It has nothing to do with the 3rd party involved, and it’s not their, or your place to judge. You don’t know the full details, so you should keep out of it.

Nobody has a right to force their ideals onto anyone else, you only have a right to control your own actions. If your own ideals prohibit you from fucking someone that is married, then that’s your choice. But you don’t have the right to prohibit or punish someone else from making a different choice.

I never cheated on my ex-wife. During our relationship, I never slept with another person even when my ex-wife refused to do anything for 2 years. This was only because she wasn’t OK with it.

Horny married women and routine sex

Posted on August 23, 2010 by man48

Discussion about horny married women and routine sex

I heard women desire sex less. Who ever is figured this out… did not meet me, not yet.

Anyways, I was listening to a radio talk show and the discussion was sex before getting serious and sex after getting serious. An author was the guest and she said that it’s a “proven” fact, that women desire sex less, once they are in a stable relationship (whether it’s marriage or just a living together).

I found that hard to believe as did 99% of the female callers. However, 99% of the male callers agreed with the statement! If that’s true, maybe that’s the reason there are married guys looking for sex here and on other sites like this.

Do you all think it’s true that women desire sex less once the relationship is serious?

I couldn’t vouch for the percent but it has definitely held true in my relationship. My wife wants and wanted far less sex than after we were committed then when just dating.

I have been told by a female therapist who was helping my wife with other issues that it is completely normal to become less interested as time passes. Too bad for me I still have such a bad case of the hots for her. I guess.
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I think what has happened is that some men get too complacent in their approach and technique to love-making, and a woman is potentially bored with routine sex.

Routine sex that hardly addresses her real inner needs, as opposed to the mutually pleasurable dance of sexual discovery that marks most courtships right up to the moment of commitments being made.

My lovers have never said anything like wanting sex less often, and I do my utmost to keep love-making exciting and romance alive. One lover commented that after 4 years, our love-making was still better each time than before. A couple have to work at this and not let things slip into complacency and routine…

Trouble is, most people find that life gives them less and less time to focus on what made their courtship so special and amorously exciting. Effort becomes routine, desire something only partly fulfilled and lingering wants’ haunt the atmosphere of daily efforts to keep things like paying the bills and home-repairs and job-requirements in balance.

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I think routine sex is one thing, and very bad for any relationship… but some married men attitudes are worst then routine sex. Just because they are married, they think, their wife pussy is their personal property. They think they do have unlimited access to her vagina… They just try to push her on her back and hump them. No foreplay, no romance, no any effort… There is no any women, who want to have sex like this…

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Thats true… I am 100% agree with the above post. But you as a man, you can keep and you should keep the flame burning, or someone else will. You have to use your imagination, and you have to make sex nice and good and interesting and then she will want to have sex…

If you wont do it… sooner or later some young stud from the neighborhood will…

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There are some interesting studies out there about the chemical’s that influence our sexuality both mentally and physically, and there may be some that flatten out once a relationship is secured.

But that does not mean women desire sex less, just less of an mental issue when the hunt is over.

As for the callers: you cannot go on those percentages. It is only logical more people when unhappy will speak up than when content. Same can be said when you question a group of people of course they will support themselves.

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I am single, but I’ve met a lot of married chaps. Allow me to answer on behalf of some of them. Some Men take women for granted when they get into serious relationships. That’s how the fun, the romance, the usual flirting before marriage tends to diminish.

Those who are wise, have known to spice their married life by not changing themselves; i.e. they kept doing what their wives love before marriage and that is keeping her happy!!

Let’s not forget, a happy wife keeps her man always happy.

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I’ve been in relationship for long and my sex drive has never gotten any lower than it has always been. So I would have to say this statement is untrue.

Unless it’s the men turning their wives off of sex with them..hmmmm that i could see. Not to mention that with marriage usually comes kids, commitments, bills to be paid, work to be done, housework, etc., etc., so i wouldn’t say it was for a lack of desire, but rather, a lack of energy for most women. Special for those who is husband don’t help them in the house work.

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The only time I want less is when the sex gets predictable. If he does the same things every time and never does anything to spice sex up, I get bored.

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I think when your married and settled but so busy with kids sex can be pushed aside for rest. But for me as the kids got older and needed less, which happened around 35 to 40 for me my sex drive went crazy! Hubby says DAMN, why couldn’t of have been a few years sooner.

Honestly, my hubby learned if he helped more he got more because my mind was not on all the other things I needed to do. Sex in exchange for housework… worked for us!

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