There are a lot of women, couples and men are into no string attached casual sex and swinging. Casual sex or swinging does not always mean penetrative sex with others. Some people looking for different kind of sexual activities.
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People into nsa sex for different reasons and do it in different ways. Some of them practice “soft swinging”, some others looking for one night stand, or couples into partner swap.
And some others love to masturbate. They masturbate while others watch them, or they perform masturbation on others. If women do on man, it might call hand job…
Anyone can reach the target with masturbation, if the target is orgasm. There are one thing that is in these people mind. We hear a lot about safe sex and AIDS a loot of these days. People masturbate with others than their primary partner, or front of others, because masturbation is the safest form of sex. with. No-one can get STD from masturbation alone, no one ever got infected with HIV, because of masturbation.
I am talking about heterosexual people, therefore the best form of masturbation is, when men and women, masturbate front of each other.
Did you ever participated in a masturbation party? I did just recently, and in fact I visited a masturbation club last year and I can tell both was a lot of fun. Actually a real fun happened in my hotel room, after club hours, and I mean that was real fun, but the masturbation got me and my partner(s) into the I want more mood…
How can you start your masturbation session… Set the mood as you set it for having intercourse. If everyone loves porno movies then watch them. Use soft music and soft lighting. Scent candles are the best for this. Everyone should get the “do it” attitude from the movie. The guys should undress nice and slowly while the sexual act in the movie still going on. They can be nude. The ladies should wear minimal sexy clothing. If someone is not into masturbating mood yet, dance slow, dance naked. It will work to into the mood anyone.
You should explore your secret erotic fantasies while masturbating. You can fantasize about erotic encounters with anyone. Make love in your fantasy with a person you cannot have. For some women fantasizing about a romantic story while masturbating works very well.
Most men fantasize about women’s genitals or titties, maybe threesomes or double penetration while masturbate. Also people can get really kinky in their fantasy, they fantasies kinky sexual activities, such as group sex, S&M, bondage or even rape. Sex therapists say, this kind of fantasy is harmless if they never become compulsive and obsessive. These fantasies have nothing to do with the crime of rape and should not even be called rape. If the couples love talking erotic to each other, do it.
The goal is orgasm
For ladies to reach the goal sometimes is more difficult than for men. A masturbating woman should know her own body very well. She should know where her pleasure points are and she should touch them softly until getting excited.
Touch your breast, inner thighs and belly with arousing touches. For some women the clitoris simulation is enough to reach the orgasm. However we are talking about couples masturbation and everyone should think about their partner too. Run your finger along the clitoris. Massage it lightly. Finger yourself. If necessary use moisturizer or suck your finger. For men to see a masturbating woman as she sucks her finger is very erotic.
Some women’s bodies are not shaped for their own finger penetration and some others arms are not long enough. If you can not finger yourself and need something inside you, use a vibrator. If you do not have one, you can use almost anything if it is properly cleaned. However, you should not use small things that might lost inside. Certain types of fruits or vegetables might do an excellent job. Insert and withdraw it several times. Then leave it in and squeeze your vaginal muscles. Feel that thing in your vagina. With one of your hands rub and massage your clitoris. With the other, play with your nipples. The more sexual simulation the better. Use your deepest erotic feelings. Fantasize with the world’s best looking man. Repeat and try to breathe deeply. I guarantee you, sooner or later you will reach your goal.
The masturbating lady’s position is very important. She should choose a position, that lets her male partner see as much as possible. Remember men fantasize about women’s genitals, butt and boobs. If a man watches a masturbating woman he will reach his goal in no time…
Also partners can help each other. You can kiss and touch hold or even masturbate each other. Everything is allowed that feels good and everyone is comfortable with.
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How should men masturbate?
99% of the men masturbate. The other 1% masturbate too, but they lie about it, therefore every men know how to masturbate. If you never masturbated before we can give you some basic ideas. Watching a masturbating woman is very erotic for a man.
If you are lucky enough and you masturbate and watch a masturbating you should use minimal pressure on your penis and should stop periodically to delay the erection.
You do not want to shoot all your bullet immediately. The best way to do this. Sit on a chair or on the sofa with slightly open legs. Rub a small amount of saliva or lubricant, for example K-Y jelly into your palm and fingertips. Take your penis into your hand, stroke slowly up and down the shaft. Vary the pressure. Turn your fantasy on and keep your eyes on that masturbating lady.
If you think your penis is not hard enough stroke up and down faster. If it doesn’t work, form a ring with your thumb and index finger of both hands. Place both rings on your penis as close to the base as close as you can. Hold one ring on the base and move the other up to the head of your penis and stretch your penis with the movement. Repeat it several times in a speedy rhythm until you are hard. It works for most men.
When you are hard you should start to play with your balls with your other hand. Massage them gently. If you like rough sex, you should try to pull the balls away from the body. If you think you will cum, slow down. You don’t want to reach the no return point. If you delay your orgasm several times the joy will be bigger and better when you reach it.
Men who masturbate often and learned how to delay their orgasm in masturbation, will learn very easily how to delay his orgasm in intercourse too.
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