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Age difference & wild sex

By man48 on 09 March 2010 under Erotic Blog

The question is; Can age difference make sex so unexpected and wild?

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Well… I think so! I prefer my men younger…and it makes a huge difference, pun intended… of course I talk about no commitment sex

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Hmmm, I like my men older. The best lover I have ever had was 10 years older than me. He always made sure I was well taken care before he was. He was very skilled and taught me things about my own body I did not even know. Being with him did make for some wild nights. And everything with him was always so unexpected. I loved it.

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Oh yes, older men. Many of them (over 45) are awesome good lovers.

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That is a good one. You’re saying old men can’t get it up! lol! So why older women attracted to younger men? Read the profiles, why so many older women want to find younger men for sex partner…?

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Dude my best lover was 45, (I am 29) and could last all night. Rock hard multiple orgasms with out cumming. So yes some men that are older can get it up. And he did it with out Viagra.

O my God! I loved to HAVE SEX with that man! lol!

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At our age (around 40) I don’t think age differences make that big a deal unless you start talking about 20 years or so. I find myself perfectly at home with people from 30 to 50 without even thinking about it.

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As a general rule I’m with younger women. It’s not set in stone, but my son’s mom was 23 and I was 37 when
he was conceived. I was recently seeing a 27 year-old, and before that a 32 year-old. I found both of them here on SwingersCouple.net

I suspect my physical condition has a lot to do with it being so easy for me to find and attract younger
women. But when I was in my mid-20’s I preferred older, experienced women. I guess it depends on which side of the fence you’re on and what do you looking for.

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If you like to teach women, younger women better, but if you like to learn in the bed, then older women are perfect sex partners. What ever you are looking for, younger women or older women, I am sure you can find them here.

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Age is just a number… so it can be all over the map. Sometimes he is with women in their early 20’s and older than 50, I have been with few years younger men – to 10 years older then me. And I do have to say, the older guys are much more better sex partners. They take their time. Younger guys rush things.

However as I wrote above, age is just a number. When we select sex partner, the age is not an issue. We (My hubby and I) base it all on instant compatibility since it’s just for fun.

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I have had younger sex partners and I didn’t enjoy them as much….But the older guys O my! O my! I learned a lot of things from them and they taught my man a lot too. They did show to my man how to tread a horny woman. I am 39 years old and my best sex partner is 54.

When ever we get together we have the wildest and kinkiest sex so for me; I say the older is much better. Maybe because older men have more experience and experience in sex does count a lot!

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Older people should be better at sex than younger people. Experience is everything. They have done it a lot more and that goes with pretty much everything, including casual sex.

I personally enjoy sex with older partners. A lot of younger men that I had sex with was uncomfortable with their bodies. Or they are very unaware of how to make a woman cum. I am not saying all younger guys have this problem but it is more common then not.

I love older men. But I guess that strong individuality, self confidence, and comfort level comes with age.

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Older is always better! So many young ones do not know what they are doing.

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The age gap can make things so much more unexpected and wild than sex with your age group can, but then again so can a different nationality and different background.

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Swingers Clubs

By man48 on 03 March 2010 under Erotic Blog

This question is not asked to attack. I have very close long standing friends that have been swingers for many years. They for as long as I can remember belong to a swinger club. They meet in a variety of places from Cancun to Canada semi annually.

Also at a private nudist swinger location every summer. RV road trips and vacation spots all over. They have steady partners that require stricter rules to be involved.

Such as proof of marriage, proof of medical records which the doctors are also swingers doing the testing.
Financial standings and a strong membership fees, etc.

The screening process is very firm and regulated. They told me they have never had an adverse experience. When I mentioned Swingerscouple.net, they response to me was “Too easy, no need to put to much effort in to get laid, and easy things aren’t fun“!

Those of you who swing as couples. What is your feelings about these types of clubs. Are you acquainted
with such organizations? I ask because I hear a lot of bad experiences from couples, who are complaining about issues with cheaters and men who can not even get hard, etc.

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There are different levels of swing clubs. The one you described is very strict apparently. There are others with lesser rules and regulations. Couples need to find the one that works for them, but for us Swingerscouples.net works perfectly.

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I have never heard of a group like that, with so many rules and regulations. I have a friend that is in a group,
10-12 couples that get together on a regular basis, but they are all friends, nothing like what you mentioned. They met here on Swingerscouples.net

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If you are going to be a swinger you need to consider your venues just as anyone else looking for a venue for bumping genitals.

Swingerscouples.net is as good or bad as you make it. It doesn’t matter if you are looking to swing or just looking for nookie. The same things apply.

If I were looking at single people’s venues for club type sex or anything else, I would say you had run into a bunch of the most uptight people I have ever seen.

It’s not that I shy away from playing safe. I shy away from paranoia. I don’t like regulated groups. At least not that tightly regulated. I can take care of myself on my own. What worries you? Disease? There are preventions for that. Not perfect but this is not a perfect world.

Physical danger? I carry a Glock in my handbag with appropriate permits and training.

Swinging doctors????? For STD test? Now there is something I would be afraid of.

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There are a lot of people who live in gated communities with home owners associations, private security and maybe even plumbers on call. Good for them.

I am a woman, and live in a rural property, with elbow room from my neighbors in a natural, desert surrounding. I do my own plumbing and as mentioned, security.

I am here on this site and I have met many nice single guys here. I am selective. I screen them as best I can. Then I meet them first in a public place. I don’t fuck each and every one of them. There is a judgment call involved. But I think I am doing better than hauling some cowboy out of a bar with the puke still on his boots.

In short, what you stated there? Nah.

I will stick with the wild and woolly Swingerscouples.net

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Not my kind of club……..Who needs all those rules and regulations. I’m very capable of finding sex partners here on Swingerscouple.net, partners who are safe, fun to be with both in and out of bed.

Your club is sound like a fantasy club or like a damn group suffering from paranoia!

Swinging doctors doing the STD testing???? Priceless.

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We’ve been swinging for over 20 years. We have enjoyed playing in small groups, are members at clubs, and also host our own parties. We found a lot of swinging partners here on Swingerscouple.net.

Our screening process is basic in that we ask our playmates to adhere to the rules, guidelines, and etiquette, which are pretty standard nationally and internationally.

Safe sex is always a must! Beyond that, we screen for compatibility.

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Older experienced men or younger guys for casual sex?

By man48 on 01 March 2010 under Erotic Blog

I have been on this site for a week or so, and as yet have not really made any realistic firm or contacts with any ladies on here.

I was on here some time ago and met up with a few ladies….and it was very very good. I’m in my mid 50s, a reasonable good shape for my age, plenty of stamina, well endowed and very sexually aware of what my partner would want from me. I’m a genuine confident and good mannered person.

Well, I am just just wondering what ladies on this site might think about the older, more experienced man over the younger man?

I do not want to advertise myself, but I think you ladies need to know that, I have plenty of stamina, and I can making love, keep going for a few hours, no problems.

I know older women younger men is very popular scenario these days, but what about guys like me…? As I browsed the site I realized that older women, younger men thing is very real, because all older women on this site prefer younger, maybe less experienced guys over that of an older more sexually aware and experienced guy?

So do I have any real change to find willing a willing lady to have some real erotic fun with me?

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Age is just a number, It’s not so much the age…it’s the man. Personally, I don’t like much younger men. They usually just worry about their own sexual fulfillment… You wrote it you can keep going for a few hours? Come on man, it sound really fishy…

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I think it’s more of a control issue. Older women love to control everything, even sex. They expect to be in-charge with the younger guys. Besides, it’s trendy & many people follow trends blindly without much thought of consequences.

On the positive side, must come back to find men to close to their age after sampling, and being disappointed by the youth.

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Older and mature guys absolutely have their charms and attractions, just as the younger ones do, but they are different from one another. Perhaps it’s where you live in? Maybe there aren’t that many women in your area who are here on this site? Did you check out your local erotic personal ads?

Did you check you local adult establishment, swingers club or erotic party list? If you didn’t, to do so would be an older man’s wise move…

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I prefer older men, but isn’t just with short profile. I would not mind to to see a short video or list a photo of you, and not just the head of a dick. I am not even sure that dick is your dick. However if your photo or video would catch my attention, I will even consider to travel few hours to try your hours long banging…

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A few hours strait sex! Then you should be a porn star! You would make serious money with your aging dick! I mean few hours intercourse sound really unbelievable. How many hours do you spend from that few to perform oral sex on her?

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A lot of women and myself too prefer men who are older. Men who are close to or younger than my own kids just are not my thing.

So don’t worry about whether there are women out there who like older men. There are plenty. Browse the member’s list and you will see yourself!

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I don’t see anything wrong with older, mature guys on this site. This is a casual sex dating website and it don’t have maximum age limits. I am like this website, I have no upper age range limits either. I won’t meet a guy for sex who is more then 2 years younger than me, guy like that would not be a matching sex partner for me.

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Why you are having problems meeting women now as opposed to a few years ago here could be for many reasons. One is you have lost your sense of patience.

You have been back on for a few weeks? It wont happen over night you know that, but if you make your moves, it can happen at anytime…

Also, what about your profile and your profile pic? Are they very much the same as they were before when you were successful?

Are you putting as much effort into reading and understanding the profiles of the women you contact? Are you writing the same initial emails you used to? Are your searches as good? Do you contact as many as you used to just to meet one?

Did you think about couples? Younger couples usually want to find an experienced, older man to show them the “ropes”. Check out the site’s erotic dating personals from couples.

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Advice on anal penetration. Anal sex

By man48 on 22 February 2010 under Erotic Blog

The today’s question is (on our partner erotic dating advice line) came from a lady:

Which one is better? Anal or vaginal penetration? How is anal penetration different from vaginal penetration?

And the responds are:

This one posted by a man:

“Her golden hole is tighter and I find that my orgasms are twice or three times as powerful. The first time I did it was because I kept screwing this woman in her pussy for about thirty minutes and I just could NOT cum. And I really wanted to cum, so I reluctantly begged her for anal sex. She said “yes”. I lubed her butt hole up, entered her and came in about 15 seconds.”

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The next respond posted by a woman member:

“Well, for one thing, if you don’t relax and use a lot of lube, it can hurt like hell. Sometimes even if you do everything right, you’ll sit gently on your but for several days after you do it. Find a partner who knows the technique and go slowly, because it’s not something you want to just rush into.

Some women (like me) really enjoy anal sex and some don’t. I guess you won’t know until you try it.”

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“Anal penetration is much different, much better. Tighter feel. With the right woman who has learned to prepare for, and truly enjoys it, the net results will be better for both. Kinda like a REALLY good dessert that you can split to finish with.”

I don’t think I have to say that, the above respond came from a man.

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The next one is a man opinion too.

“Really no comparison… don’t get me wrong I enjoy both. There is the psychological [taboo] and the physical
[tighter, hotter] but both partners need to talk about it and take some extra time. If someone says stop STOP!

Depending on the action it can be painful for either party. Also, explore. There is more fun to be had other than just anal penetration.”

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A lady wrote it:

“My trainer turned me on to anal back in Oct ‘09 and I am proud to say I am his little Anal Princess. He has shown me more pleasures than I can count involving both my asshole & his.

Lick it, finger it, fuck it with you cock, stuff me full of toys or whatever, but I’ll be dammed if I’ll ever
go without anal sex again.

Every man I am with for the rest of my life should thank my trainer for showing me the light. I am his delicious anal sex lover angel.

Anyone who doesn’t like, enjoy anal sex is just scared and needs to relax. My best orgasms come from getting
my golden hole pleasured!!! Oh yeah, I am getting wet, just to think about it… I think I need to find a man, or my toy…”

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As you can see and read at above, there are many different opinion about anal sex. Some women likes it, and some men loves it (of course only when they are on the giving end). At once one of my lady friend told me, if you ever want to find out how anal sex fill like, why don’t you take a cock into your ass… Well I don’t think I want to find out. Actually I don’t want to be at either end, not on the giving and definitely not at the receiving end either… So this is the reason, why the next respond is my favorite:

“Depends on her butt. Some guys just wanna fuck that butt .. I would rather hold it all night.”

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Friendship with erotic benefits

By man48 on 17 February 2010 under Erotic Blog

Our partners today’s erotic dating subject. A woman wrote it:

It seems I keep turning guys away from me. I don’t do it purposely, but I think I may have figured out why.

A short version is I’m shy sexually, need to be comfortable with the guy before having sex, never had an orgasm, etc. If you want more details please check out my latest erotic dating blog entry, it explains a lot more.

Anyway, it’s rare I find a guy on here I’m interested enough to meet with. Usually picture and/or profile/lack
of profile is enough to turn me off. Sometimes after an e-mail or two I become uninterested, but once in awhile I find one that I think we’d do well and is worth meeting.

I always thought I should tell the guy pretty soon after talking about my sexual hangups. I don’t want to meet up and then have wasted either of our times once I tell him. But lately when I’ve told the guy, I stop hearing from them when they seemed so interested.

I just want to make clear if I reach the comfort level I need with a guy for sewhich is why I can’t do anything less than fwb. I become less shy and the hangups do start to go away.

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I am not sure I understand you right… Fwb stand for friendship with benefits….if one or both is married, then its pretty much cheating innit? Or if you are single it’s a way of saying you don’t want anything serious but you do want sex, a lot of sex. That would be the benefits.

So what is your problem? If you are looking for sex, then you can find almost unlimited sex partners here, in any age any sex, and any scenarios, even with any sexual preferences. If you are looking for friendship, and maybe sex months after your friendship started…then you are definitely at the wrong place.

If you want a fwb, with out the benefits why would you be looking here? Yes, you can find them and usually it is by trial and error. The way my women friends have told me it works is that you might meet with someone and sometimes there are repeats and other times there isn’t.

But, to require that up front, you just don’t know if it is going to work out that way. Not only that, sometimes you do develop a friendship, but people come here mainly for the erotic benefits.

What happens when that sex friends no longer is interested in. That happens all the time on this site. I can tell you a lot of men treat women pretty shitty when that happens.

Most just walk, disappear or ignore you. Yet you are treating this as some sort of emotional crutch to get over your shyness. That is a lot to put on someone … especially from someone from an erotic dating or casual sex site.

I think the reasons you are turned off by these men after a couple of e-mails is because your instincts are telling you these men are not right for you and can not give you what you want.

You should trust your instincts. If you are looking for an emotional connection, you should probably look elsewhere.

Am I telling them too soon? What’s the right time to bring that conversation up here, on an erotic dating website? People, men, women and couples come here, because they are looking for sex… Didn’t you know this?

And if you never had an orgasm before, then definitely something is wrong with you, or with all of your previous sex partners. Maybe you should watch a little porn and start masturbating. Bringing yourself to orgasm should be your first priority, if you don’t know what will work, your sex partner or lover certainly wont know either.

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