Professional Woman Looking for Sex Friend

I am not desperate, not yet, but very frustrated. Let me explain, I am a 28 years old, professional woman, with good carrier, but unfortunately my love live is zero.   I am out of an almost 7+ years long relationship, which is the only one that I can call serious relationship.  It started in my late teen age, and lasted true university.

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I am very busy and have no time to romantic dinners and walk in the park, etc, but I need a man in my live few times a month, A man, a sex friend.

My carrier takes 16-18 hours a day, which is why I don’t have time for  romantic dating so I came to the conclusion that I really want to try this sex friend thing,  casual sex with a sex friend, nothing more, nothing less.

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I am suddenly curious about going into a nightclub and meeting someone just for sex.  And than if we can make happy each other, than maybe develop a  nsa  sex friend relationship.

I have been to various nightclubs before,  with friends and colleagues, but I have never seen/noticed that strangers randomly meet.

Are there specific clubs I need to go to, where there are other men – women who are looking for the same thing?

Or should I keep trying on websites like this?

What should I do? Anyone have any recommendations? Continue Reading…


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I came here for pretty much  the same reason and I can tell you its not easy, but easier than in any nightclub.

In the club you meet someone, and end of the night take him somewhere privet and you have a one night stand.  According to your photos  you are an interactive woman, so it wont be to hard.

However, to have nsa, with a man you just met  few hours earlier is a bad idea. You don’t know he is a rapist or criminal or who really is.

Here you can contact men and you can ask anything before you meet, that you would not ask face to face during your first meeting. The problem is, a lot of fake profiles are here. You need to filter them out.

I am sure you  will find someone here, just be smart… Continue Reading…

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Looks like all professional women comes here including myself for nsa sex partner.

I am member here more than 2 years and I always find what I am looking for, what is more than just get than and have penetrative sex.

One would ask, you are still here? Because, sex friend or not after few ties or few months, it gets boring, routine sex, so need to change.

Find someone at first was hard, but at one pint I figured out how to use this website and from that point it is a piece of cake… Continue Reading…


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The only place you can go and guarantee to find sex partner fast is a swingers  club or a erotic house party.

There is no guarantee you will find a nice man in any night club who will sleep with you after an hour of talking. If you are not picky in any bar you can find man for one night stand, but as it stated above, that is a big risk.

My advice is, browse this website local section, there is a lot of  casual sex related parties and get together listed. I am sure you will find swingers club, or erotic parties, that hosted in in your city. Continue Reading…

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Why would you try a threesome?

If someone would ask the above question from me, I would answer with an other question; Why not? Than I would ask; What kind of threesome is in your mind, with  two men or with two women?

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There are many kind of threesomes, so we should not get into, what kind of that imaginary threesome would be. Lets talk about “just” threesomes  at first, however I prefer threesomes with two men.

Imagine you and your partner, girlfriend – boyfriend or spouse and an extra person together in a sex play. It sound very kinky, isn’t it? You might have been in a relationship for years, living together or maybe even married. Your relationship status does not make any difference, if you imagine things like this.

One day you start to develop erotic fantasies, or your significant other does. These fantasies include you and someone else outside of your relationship as I stated at above, together in an erotic play. Now what? Should you tell this fantasy of yours to your significant other? If you tell, how will your spouse respond? So there is a lot of risk being  taken here by you… Maybe you will destroy your relationship, or never know, you might make it better and stronger.

Do you remember how great was sex when you and your partner get into the bed first time? It was great and satisfying every time. But since that first time, years past by and sex became routine. So what can you do?

There are 3 ways to go. The first is the simplest and the safest. Pop a porn DVD into your DVD player, turn your fantasy on and start to masturbate. If you want to get kinky, do it in the presence of your spouse. Masturbation provide satisfaction, and you wont get any STD via masturbation.

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The second is safe too: Educate yourself. Learn new love making techniques, new love making positions to enhance your love life. Take love making  to another level. Learn how to be a Sex God. There are millions of things can bring the spark back in your bedroom.

The third option is  dangerous, but it can be the best one. You have to take a walk to the wild site! You have to introduce a third person or even two persons a couple into your relationship. Of course, you have to go step by step.

You need to mention threesome related things, you might look threesome related DVDs together with your partner.  You have to figure out your partner’s  respond. Dos she / he like it? If doesn’t try again and again, or just drop the subject.

But if you think your partner really get into it, or even get turned on by those threesome DVDs than might take the next step,  might go to an erotic party. You don’t need to do anything there, just keep your eyes and mid open. If both of you like what you see, than go again. Than you need to talk a lot about it and maybe find a couple to have first hand info from them,  a couple, who been there done that.

Find a willing couple who can explain how they did it, and what they felt after and how was it.  You can try with a single person, but experienced people believe, the first threesome better with couple. If you made it happen with a couple, there are possibility to try all scenario, mfm, fmf, or any kind if  bi sexual play, if you are into something like that.

To find willing partner fairly easy these days. There are millions of men and women looking for no commitment sex partners, who are into threesomes. Probably even in your neighborhood too. Take a quick look at our sex ads and you will see what I talking about.


Seriously, just think about it, what would happen if you meet a single guy or girl that you both really like? What about a great couple? What if you introduce them into your bed? What if you share with them your loving relationship? Would it spice  your sexual activity up? I guess you never know, if you won’t try…

However there are a lot of things that you need to know, before you get down to the erotic action. You do not looking for permanent relationship, you looking for casual sex partner – to share – and to spice your sex life up. You and your spouse run the show. You ask your new friend to join in and when it’s time to move on, you have to know when and how to kiss them good-bye. Because if your relationship is to survive there has to be an exit strategy to be agreed on before your even start.

There are many reasons why a couple will invite another in to their relationship. For example boring routine spousal sex, differences in sex drive erotic fantasies, role plays, hotwifing etc. The number one reason always is  excitement, the feeling of freedom in the spousal relationship and extra intensity of the sex which ends in deep satisfaction all the times. Almost every person who tried it felt like a teenager again…

Is it worth to try? You decide… but if you try, make sure you do it right, because there is no way to make it look like it did not happen.

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Casual Sex | Masturbation | Swinging

There are a lot of women, couples and men are into no string attached casual sex and swinging. Casual sex or swinging does not always mean penetrative sex with others.  Some people looking for different kind of sexual activities.

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People into nsa sex for different reasons and do it in different ways. Some of them practice “soft swinging”, some others looking for one night stand, or couples into partner swap.

And some others love to masturbate. They masturbate while others watch them, or they perform masturbation on others. If women do on man, it might call hand job…

Anyone can reach the target with masturbation, if the target is orgasm.  There are one thing that is in these people mind.  We hear a lot about safe sex and AIDS a loot of  these days. People masturbate with others than their primary partner, or front of others, because masturbation is the safest form of sex.  with. No-one can get STD from masturbation alone, no one ever got infected with HIV, because of masturbation.

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I am talking about heterosexual people, therefore the best  form of masturbation is, when men and women, masturbate front of each other.

Did you ever participated in a masturbation party? I did just recently, and in fact I visited a masturbation club last year and I can tell both was a lot of fun. Actually a real fun happened in my hotel room, after club hours, and I mean that was real fun, but the masturbation got me and my partner(s) into the I  want more mood…

How can you start your masturbation session… Set the mood as you set it for having intercourse. If everyone loves porno movies then watch them. Use soft music and soft lighting. Scent candles are the best for this.  Everyone should get the “do it” attitude from the movie. The guys should undress nice and slowly while the sexual act in the movie still going on.  They can be nude. The ladies should wear minimal sexy clothing. If someone is not into masturbating mood yet, dance slow, dance naked. It will work to into the mood anyone.

You should explore your secret erotic fantasies while masturbating. You can fantasize about erotic encounters with anyone. Make love in your fantasy with a person you cannot have. For some women fantasizing about a  romantic story while masturbating works very well.

Most men fantasize about women’s genitals or titties, maybe threesomes or double penetration while masturbate. Also people can get really kinky in their fantasy, they   fantasies kinky sexual activities, such as group sex, S&M, bondage or even rape. Sex therapists say, this kind of fantasy is harmless if they never become compulsive and obsessive. These fantasies have nothing to do with the crime of rape and should not even be called rape. If the couples love talking erotic to each other, do it.

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Masturbating Women

The goal is orgasm

For ladies to reach the goal sometimes is more difficult than for men. A masturbating woman should know her own body very well. She should know where her pleasure points are and she should touch them softly until getting excited.

Touch your breast, inner thighs and belly with arousing touches. For some women the clitoris simulation is enough to reach the orgasm. However we are talking about couples masturbation and everyone should think about their partner too. Run your finger along the clitoris. Massage it lightly. Finger yourself. If necessary use moisturizer or suck your finger. For men to see a masturbating woman as  she sucks her finger is  very  erotic.

Some women’s bodies are not shaped for their own finger penetration and some others arms are not long enough. If you can not finger yourself and need something inside you, use a vibrator. If you do not have one, you can use almost anything if it is properly cleaned. However, you should not use small things that might lost inside. Certain types of fruits or vegetables might do an excellent job. Insert and withdraw it several times. Then leave it in  and squeeze your vaginal muscles. Feel that thing in your vagina. With one of your hands rub and massage your clitoris. With the other, play with your nipples. The more sexual simulation the better. Use your deepest erotic feelings. Fantasize with the world’s best looking man. Repeat and try to breathe deeply.  I guarantee you, sooner or later you will reach your goal.

The masturbating lady’s  position is very important. She should choose a position, that lets her male partner see as much as possible. Remember men fantasize about women’s genitals,  butt and boobs. If a man watches a masturbating woman he will reach his goal in no time…

Also partners can help  each other. You can kiss and touch hold or even masturbate  each other. Everything is allowed that feels good and everyone is comfortable with.

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How should men masturbate?

99% of the men masturbate. The other 1% masturbate too, but they lie about it, therefore every men know how to masturbate. If you never masturbated before we can give you some basic ideas. Watching a masturbating woman is very erotic for a man.

If you are lucky enough and you masturbate and watch a masturbating you should use minimal pressure on your penis and should stop periodically to delay the erection.

You do not want to shoot all your bullet immediately. The best way to do this. Sit on a chair or on the sofa with slightly open legs. Rub a small amount of saliva or lubricant, for example K-Y jelly into your palm and fingertips. Take your penis into your hand, stroke slowly up and down the shaft. Vary the pressure. Turn your fantasy on and keep your eyes on that masturbating lady.

If you think your penis is not hard enough stroke up and down faster. If it doesn’t work, form a ring with your thumb and index finger of both hands. Place both rings on your penis as close to the base as close as you can. Hold one ring on the base and move the other up to the head of your penis and stretch your penis with the movement. Repeat it several times in a speedy rhythm until you are hard. It works for most men.

When you are hard you should start to play with your balls with your other hand. Massage them gently. If you like rough sex, you should try to pull the balls away from the body. If you think you will cum, slow down. You don’t want to reach the no return point. If you delay your orgasm several times the joy will be bigger and better when you reach it.

Men who masturbate often and learned how to delay their orgasm in masturbation, will learn very easily how to delay his orgasm in intercourse too.

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I want to watch my lady friend have sex with a man, or couple and masturbate during her sex session…

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Back to School Sex Party with Threesome

Have you ever think about to participate in a threesome? You, your loved one and an another guy or a girl? Every human fantasizes about threesomes, think about it every now and then, than drop the idea and don’t even mentioned it to anyone.

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Days past by, than you read something erotic or see something sexy, or just go in an adult store or watch porn and the threesome idea is back. Watching porn is the easiest way to make that threesome happen… Watching porn makes us imagine sex play more clearly, special if you watch porn with your partner during love making. Quality porn makes healthy people crazy and very horny. Porn watching with partner can make all kind of sexual fantasies reality.

However a threesome need three people. A couple and a extra person. Its not easy to get that extra person, if you never had a threesome before. You can not say, can’t ask you friend to come over and have sex with your partner. You need to do some preparation.

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The best thing is to find someone with “related” experience. If someone participated in threesomes (yes, you red it right threesomes, which is stand for more than one threesome) than that person will know how to start the play go.

Or, this is even better, you make it look accidental threesome. You just need to host a party, invite a couple with threesome experience. Six people is enough for your first threesome party. You and your partner, a couple with threesome experience and an other open minded couple. The second guest couple don’t have to know your plan… if they don’t like what happens, than they are free to walk. In my limited experience, usually they stay and watch.  The first and sometimes at the second time they don’t participate, just watch or play with their own partner, but if they don’t run a way, than sooner or later they will play.

So you have two guest couples, one couples into threesome, you are into threesome, that is three person, and that is exactly the right amount of people that you need to have a threesome. When the play goes on, hopefully someone going to join in, and if this happen, than your idea was a success.

How can you make it happen?

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It’s the best time time to throw a back to school party for your friends. If your friends is not in school, than you can make a back to school role play party. Either way, you have to host a party. I know, in your mind is a back to school sex party, and if you are smart enough, you can turn your back to school role play party into a back to school sex party.

We host a back to school sex party at our house for several years now, and our friends love it. We love it too. Usually we plan a few sexy games, like strip poker, or spin the bottle, or blindfolded partner hunt, via dance etc. There are a lot of sex party ideas. You can find some of them here.

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However our first back to school sex party wasn’t planned to be a sex party. It just happened in a heat of the moment.

My boyfriend and I get invited to someone’s back to school party. There were about 8 people. First just talking, and somebody started to browse the TV channels and stopped on a porn channel. Than someone came up with a drinking game idea, which based on the truth or drink game.

This erotic game is an alcohol fueled version of the classic party game that everybody loves.  I know, casual sex and drinking does not go together, however a little alcohol help for first timers, to break the barrier…

The players had three options, to answer the question, have a shoot of liqueur, or take a piece their cloches off. I don’t need to tell you, those questions were extremely erotic, like do you like blow job, or ever had a threesome, are you you really bi sexual?

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What really turned me on… I will never forget. One of the ladies was asked did you ever had a threesome? Yes she said, with two men. Then the next question was from her: Did you ever get double penetrated? She said no, never, but I hope it will happen today… and my husband and her husband made her wish happen…



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Are You Thinking About Sex Party?

Sex Party in September

A sex party sounds silly and taboo for a lot of people at anytime, not just in September. I don’t think you are one of those people, or you would not read this.

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I am sure you are curious about sex parties and if you know a few things about them and if you know how to host a good one, and you decide to host one, you should make your home work, before you jump into hard core sex partying…

Anyways, you never know what will happens until you not try, but I can say it from experience, a good sex party can give you and your partner a sexual high at any month, not just in September…

What makes a sex party a good sex party?

The best sex parties have themes or role playing. Themes like pajama party, or roman orgy, or no underwear party, or wear limited clothes ( 2- 3 pieces) . Role playing sex parties, like erotic photography, or erotic move making, or techer and students, etc.

Does not matter if your party is a themed party or not, either way, you and your invited guests have to enjoy it. Its applies for any party, a party is a good party as long as the participating persons have a good time. If it is a sex party and you and your lover or partner enjoy it, and don’t cross your own intimate boundaries, than is no problem. In fact there is no harm in trying something new and sexually exciting.

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Adult parties and sex.

On the traditional world, sex is privet matter between two people.  However our world is not a traditional world and sex can be a privet matter between two or more people, even though your neighbors think that is wrong.

I am don’t worry about what others think, its my life  and my sex life. If you’re in a secure relationship with your partner, and both of you really love each other, don’t let anyone to set the boundaries for you on what’s right or what’s wrong.

So how to start?

At first you have to have, invite willing people. If you do not know anyone, browse the Internet. There are millions of men women and couples, virtually from or close to any city, who are like you – curious about sex party. Find them contact them and invite them.

The second option is faster and easier, get together with your friends and ask them to bring someone to party with. Ask them to find willing partner, then you just need to worry about your partner.

The best party is   happens if the number of people right… which is 6 – 8 people. If your living room, or a hotel room  is full with naked people, that is something that not a lot of people enjoys, except if they exhibitionist. A good sex party don’t need more than 3 or 4 couples.

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A sex party starts like any other party and does not have to end up with intercourse. There are many different kind of sex. If someone decide to have penetrative sex, than you should provide a “play room” except if they like to be  watched.

People at sex parties many times go somewhere privet to go all the way, and this is “totally” except able.

A good sex party  happens when the participating people are don’t scare a little voyeurism, they open minded. They should be clean should look sexy and healthy. If you partner have a terrible headache, well that is just kill the party mood.  Continue reading…


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