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I want her to go down on another woman

man48 — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 21:37:20 +0000

Am I a pervert? I want to see her muff diving…. Is there anything wrong with wanting to watch my fiance go down on another woman. She has never done it but really wants to. Part of me feels bad that I am encouraging her to do it but a large part of me is hoping that she finds someone quick…

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She shouldn’t do it if she really isn’t into the idea, no matter how much it would please you. But if she does
it because she wants to, then you have it made.

But could you handle seeing her with another man? Or what about, if she ask you to suck a guy’s cock front of her? Turn about is fair play.

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Does she really want to or is she going along with what she thinks you want so as to please you? It makes a huge difference.

Considering that many men enjoy watching two women make love, I don’t think it makes you a pervert, any more than any other common sexual practice makes those who enjoy it perverts. What may cause a problem here is whether or not your fiance (important word, look it up) is truly totally on board with the whole “going down on another woman” thing.

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No. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting and seeing your fiance to go down on another woman. The lines can be a little blurry tho if your actively encouraging her to do it. But hey, we are on a swingers sex site, and swingers are considered as perverts… so if it is true, then we are all pervert… According to your fiance’s photo on your profile, she is pervert too…

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Yes, you are pervert. Thank God you are and run with it. You could be addicted to Heroin right now, and being a perv is much better, more fun and you can remember it!!!!

And why not, if she want wants too. But we men all know already all women are curious about muff diving, not just lesbians… and have pillow fights in their underwear at every opportunity. I think is okay, as far as you are just watch her.

If you will start to masturbate during the show, then you will be extremely pervert…!

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You are not a pervert for me. But you might consider as a pervert for some church goer people. But if she does want to do it then I will help you guys. She can freely go down on me (pick me pick me) and I can direct her what to do down there… Just for return the favor, I might go down on her too, if she curious about, what an experienced muff lover woman can do down there… I promise you, I will make her climax, like she did before…

You can masturbate while watch us and I don’t think that will make you extremely pervert…!

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As long as she’s into it and you’re not pushing her it will probably be fun for everyone…. but maybe pervert a bit.

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As long as she wants to do it for herself and not because you pushed her into it. If it is her own desire offer to step out for the night while she enjoys her experience. That way she will know you want her to enjoy herself and not just be your entertainment.

If she enjoys it you will have plenty of time in the future to share together with another lady if she enjoys it.

I get the feeling that it’s more your desire for her to do this than hers.

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This is a swingers sex site, everyone of us on here is a little perverted in one way or another. If we were just looking for someone to date and have a relationship with we would be on one of those many sites that will find you a soul mate.

If you both agree by all means go for it.

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Do women really like big cocks for casual sex?

man48 — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 20:51:46 +0000

Do women really like the big cocks? What women like for sex?

Just wondering if other women out there l like I. I like big cocks or men who know what they are doing regardless of the size of the penis?

For me I want the emotional connection as well as the physical size and know how of how to use it.

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We all have our preferences. Some women like to teach complete buffoons how to screw them. Some women research the archives on cock size questions.

Some women are really busy with men who know how to use whatever brand of tool they bring to the party. We all have our preferences. I love the word “buffoon”, don’t you? Thank you for the opportunity of getting to use that word.

The definition of the buffoon is: One who acts in a silly or ridiculous fashion; a clown or fool;
An unintentionally ridiculous person; To behave like a buffoon

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I guess it has to do something with the woman body. Tall women with long hips love – need to have bigger cock to fulfill them. I am just 5’1 . If a cock is too big it’s uncomfortable for me to have sex with. About seven inches is my limit. If the cock is longer then 7 inches, then I can’t breath during intercourse.

But how thick is thick enough…? That is a different question…

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My cock is an average size which is 6 and the half. And I do not need bigger then this. I can make climax any women with my love making knowledge. The cock is just a toll in the process. I am sure a woman looks for sexual and emotional satisfaction in sex. Its more of clitoral stimulation that satisfies a woman’s sexual need.

What’s the point of having ten inches if you only last two minutes? Sorry, but size questions come along with regular monotony.Surely, a person, irrespective of size who knows how to use it would be more appealing.

At the end of the day, we guys have to accept what mother nature gave us but, I will say this, bigger isn’t always better, in more ways than one as I’m sure some women will testify.

However at above the petite lady said, it depends on the woman’;s body and on her preferences. Actually I think it have to do something with, penis size and vagina’s relationship.

And for plus, there is that penis pill ad at the top. and I think it is true. If your lady have a choice between big or average, (of course in your body) which one of you she will choose…? Probably she will go for big…!

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I am a married women. I do have an average size cock in between in my husband legs… So why would I swap that cock for a smaller one or for the same size? If we swap, it have to be big. Bigger is better, even if not fit all in. Size and the knowledge – both are very important and either of then enough separately. I like both – together. A good sex partner with big and thick cock… my gos I am getting wet just thinking about it…!

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Your question is an either or and many of us could not give that sort of answer. Do I love big cocks?

- YES. Do I love a man who knows what they are doing regardless of the size of his penis?
- YES. Do I want an emotional connection?
- Again, yes. But in a perfect world…….. I want all three!!!!!!!!!

Nothing is better then a good sex partner who can create chemistry and if his penis is big… then my dream just got true…

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Stick it into me and pound my pussy

man48 — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 22:12:29 +0000

Ladies, seems to me, guys seem to think they just need to stick their cock into me and pound my pussy. Is it asking too much for a bit more?

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If you let them get away with it what do you expect? Try talking to the guy before jumping in the sack with him. If you communicate your needs to him then maybe things will be different. You may find that your generalization is wrong.

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I think with some guys unfortunately yes, you are right. But mainly younger guys are loosing their coolness when they get a chance to have sex with a real women…

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When i was younger, this may have applied to me. However, I’m a quick learner and realized that, sex and love making is not an Olympic sport, sex isn’t a 100 meter sprint. it id more close to Marathon…

I also discovered that the longer I stayed hard, the more I enjoyed it, and consequently, she did as well.

They say sex comes naturally but good sex need to be learned and it has to be worked on… I mean on the love making technique technique. It needs knowledge and experience.

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Perhaps he believes everything he’s seen in the porn flicks, perhaps he only cares about getting himself off… Maybe he does not have to much experience. Who knows??? Why don’t you ask him?

Ultimately, it’s your body he’s pounding and if you don’t enjoy it, stop him! Tell him what you want. I assure you, not all guys are like that.

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First, seek men who at least seem to understand the subtleties of making love, and second, communicate your needs and desires vocally so they understand…

Men are not mind readers and every man starts off sexually illiterate to begin with. A partner should be able to educate his or her lover to some extent by talking, giving bodily signals, etc…

So if you just lay down and open your legs wide open, you wont get to much other then pussy pounding.

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I think the message at above hit the nail on the head. Maybe because some women are so unresponsive….. They just lay there and take it instead of taking the initiate to change the “beat”.

I think you can not complain about anything, if you are participate in…

I have not been with a “stick it in and bang” type of guy since I learned to be an active participant verses a hole to plug.

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Men (or women for that matter), don’t deserve that generalization. Some are into their lovers, and sex partners, some are selfish. I told one of my lovers that he was so giving! He said that he learned at a price, but the reward was beyond imagination.

The more you give, the more you receive in return. I found that so true, time and time again.

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LOL! I think SOME guys need to pound cause it is the only way they stay hard! Seriously though if you are not enjoying what they are doing then tell them… or guide them to another position to switch it up.

If you get just a pounding all the time then it is your fault for letting it go on like that.

Wonders why it is easy to hop into bed with a man but not easy to tell him what you want?

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I don’t think all guys are like that. My wife has been with men who prefer the physical activity but she has also been with men who are far more giving of themselves.

Having said that she too has times, when she wants one or the other and sometimes a bit of both. So I guess it depends on both individual needs too. Just my thoughts and what I have observed.

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How old are these guys? I find the younger ones (30′s) tend to operate on that theory, while the older ones have had more experience and have a much better idea how to treat a woman.

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Some men think this is all it takes for HER…wrong!!! For me, if a man cannot pass just the ‘basics’ which doesn’t include sex, then that’s it…it’s over, at that moment…period!

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I don’t think it’s too much to ask to have some satisfaction ourselves! I don’t understand how a man can feel good about Himself knowing that the female (us) need and want an orgasm too. Would not they think, that is why we are here?

They didn’t accomplish that! Sex with out orgasm is like a waste of time and energy for every females!

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Why are large cocks better

man48 — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 21:33:17 +0000

Why guys with large cocks are better sex partner?

I have been with some fairly large cocks. Most of the time the sex was great. However, the best sex I have had was with average size dicks. I have never came from fucking, and I am curious if a huge man would be able to finish me.

Also, why are very large men so much better. Looking forward to hearing your responses, and potentially some new playmates.

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I red your message and kind of mixed up…? You wrote it, you have been with some fairly large cock and the sex was great. Also you next sentence is, “I have never came from fucking, and I am curious if a huge man would be able to finish me”.

So how can be sex great if that large men did not finish you? Are you talking about large men, heavy weighted men or men with large cocks?

If large men did not finish you, why do you state it: Also, why are very large men so much better. I am confused… and why guys with large cocks are better sex partners.

I guess guys with large cocks are confident and a confident man is already turn on for many women.

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What do you define as average and what do you define as large? And would you rather have length or girth? Which one makes it more exciting more better? Good Question!

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Very large men aren’t any better. If you haven’t been able to cum with through intercourse with average or larger men, a monster cock won’t make a difference.

What you need is a partner that will play with your clit during intercourse or change the angle so your clit is stimulated.

However if you did not cum from a large cock, it is still better then if you did not cum from a small cock. List you have something to remember… But what can you remember for a small dick man if he did not give you an orgasm…?

Penis size and vagina closely related… That is to big form you, might be not big enough for me… because out body is different. So there is no way to say just like a big dick is better than an average… It depends on your size, on your hip size on your body. Long hip long deep pussy… Wight hip wight pussy… gave a birth to a child? Large pussy… So you decide why is a bigger cock is better cock.

But I found a really good article about it. You can read it. I think it is something like, penis size and vagina’s relationship.

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I think it really depends on the woman. Some positions really work for them and the size of the cock does not really matter, if that cock is not small.

I know from personal experience that some woman love the feeling of being filled up by a large cock. You also have the luxury of trying unusual positions with a large cock. What can you do with a small cock? Well stupid question. You can blow it, but what can a guy do with a small cock.. other then being shame about it. He should not anyway.

There are many ways to give an orgasm for a women and vaginal penetration just one and the hardest one.

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Some women simply don’t climax from just penetration, include myself… I don’t think the size of the cock would make any difference, if that cock is not smaller then average. So what is an average sized cock? Well according to the Internet and my limited experience an average size cock around 6 inches long … So if there is a six inches cock then everything is depend on the skill of the man it’s attached to.

Can he turn me on? Can me make me want to have sex with him? Can he make me dripping wet? If he can, probably I will cum, if his dick list an average size…

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Drop the subject of small cock. Small cock is not for casual sex… I think well endowed aren’t any better or worse than men with average endowments. Being a good lover a good sex partner takes alot of things into account. After all, it doesn’t matter the size of his cock if the woman’s dry as a bone while he’s fucking her.

Why is she dry? Maybe because he doesn’t turn her on. And if a woman touch a well endowed cock, it can be a big turn on for her… but he still have to prove he is a good lover…

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I love the feeling of being filled up. The tightness, thrusting and going as deep as possible will make me cream all over that well endowed man. I will take too large and just right, any day!

However just being 8 inches long is not enough to fill up a pussy. An 8 inches cock can be like a pencil… From my experience and all my girlfriends experience… the girls and I have been have said its usually a fat meaty cock that gets us cumming like crazy.

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Because chicks would rather have a big dick fucking them. Even if they don’t cum with a big dick they still get excited just for the fact that its big alone….

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Huge dicks mean nothing unless the guy knows how to work it. A man with an average dick knowing how to work it could very well be better than one with a huge dick who doesn’t.

But if a guy’s dick is small and he does not even know how to use it, then it is a catastrophe…

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A good lover listens, watches and then responds according to what you say, what noises you make, the tensions in your body and the expression on your face, among other things.

Then you have a responsibility to have an idea of what makes you cum and to express that. If you don’t know, you need to play with yourself (with toys or without) until you learn to relax and then find what gives you the most pleasure.

I came to sex later than most of my peers. In my 20′s, I could have clitoral O’s with my steady and reliable
partner. Life was good. As I grew older and wiser, I experimented with various people and techniques. I am multi- and virtually endlessly orgasmic now.

I’d take a solid 6 inch cock on a nice man who pays attention and wants to please me any day over a huge cock. Many men with huge dongs think size is enough and never bother to learn to use them.

Sorry guys, I do not go any lower then 6 inches. I would not fill anything…

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Single male in male female male threesome

man48 — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 22:08:11 +0000

I find the idea of male – female – male threesome (MFM 3sum) very hot and erotic. Seeing and participating
in extending a woman’s pleasure seems so obvious since women can go and orgasm multiple times.

From the couples point of view, what do you look for (besides the obvious physical attraction) in a single male that you consider inviting in for your pleasure?

Please tell me if your the male or female or both commenting.

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I am the female half of a married couple and I know that the most enjoyable MFM encounters I have had with my partner have been those where the additional male respects that he is just that…the addition.

One encounter, in particular, stands out in my mind where the single male actually moved me around so that I was facing my husband.

I tend to be conscious of my husband’s comfort level more when there are two of you and one of me. Having the single male being just as conscious is comforting for everyone involved… especially it you are with a couple that has never had the MFM experience.

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This is the male from a couple and we have not had a strictly MFM experience yet although have played that way with other couples during our MFMF experiences at times. So this may not be what you are looking for but will tell you what is important for us.

Comfort. Obviously attraction is a key, but we use attraction as the first line of weeding people out. If neither are attracted we move on. Once we have found a couple that we both have an attraction for we begin chatting via IM, phone, email and sometimes in person to get to know them.

Only after we are both comfortable do we move on. Generally if we are comfortable we have begun to build a great a sexual relationship, which in several cases turned to be into a great friendship with erotic benefits.

In the end, we both have to really be comfortable with the couple (in our case, both male and female) so that we can be ourselves with them and so that we don’t have to worry about each other being uncomfortable. If she is having fun, I can relax and have fun too.

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I am a male with many experiences with mfm in past, I have also had ffm (female – female – male threesome). Watching wife with me and another man was always the biggest turn on. A lot easier for a women to please
2 men than 1 man pleasing 2 women, I always said the best threesome is mfm. The fmf not bad either, there are a lot of things that 2 women can do with one man, but what can do one guy with two women…. Once he blow his load he needs recovery time.

The ffm threesomes are a lot of of fun, when the ladies are bi sexual or curious…

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I attempted to be the woman in a male female male threesome. I was the part of the couple and the other guy was the extra man. He wasn’t a great looking guy, but he was an excellent sex partner and his penis was much more bigger then my man’s penis. That man made me cum several times in a night and my man got so jealous of him, that it lead to our no longer being a couple.

He kept insisting that I see him because I crazy about his big dick… Well I love bigger dick, but I did not see that guy, then called me a liar and cheater and he thought I was seeing someone else.

So be careful, what you are getting into… if your relationship is not strong enough a MFM threesome can be the first step to the end…

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I am a woman from a couple. As a single male in MFM we’ve found that it works a lot better when you as a couple set the standards and the pace. Tell the the guy what is ok and what isn’t and he takes it or never even get into.

Also you have to be sure, you will have a “emergency” exit if he turn to be an idiot at the middle of the play… That is the reason why you should not take anyone home, before you are not 100% sure about that person.

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We look for a guy that isn’t shy about being in close to another guy with a hard on.

If you are a man from the couple and you doing mfm you have to enjoy the other guy have intercourse your wife and most likely, you will see see her give him a blow job, so you have to be able to handle this and actually have to enjoy it too.

Well what a single guy is take into a MFM threesome? Nothing… only his hard dick…

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Nothing beats seeing my wife being serviced by two cocks or maybe more if that is what she wants. Her excitement and the orgasms she gets from multiple cocks gave me pleasure by knowing how good she was feeling and enjoying herself.

The confidence about herself she was gaining from being able to turn these guys on, so much that they didn’t want to quit penetrate her.

When is two or more guys play with one woman, one of them always have some idea what to do with her, or she want to do something with one of the guy. The others might watch or play and it make him horny too, so it is like a magic circle… never ends. Someone always have hard on, someone always ready for sex… That is the beauty in a three or moresomes.

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