Swingers are everywhere. Even in your town. You do not believe me? Join now, get a free membership and check them out yourself!
First of all, it is important to understand what swinging is before deciding to participate in. If you are a single guy looking for a sex or orgy club you have to know that is not the same thing as swinging. Swinging is a lifestyle, not just having sex. If you really want to get into this lifestyle, you need to know what it’s about. If you don’t understand it, nobody will take you seriously in the swingers world. It is not about screwing anyone wife. It is not sex clubs and not a escort service either. If you looking for sex only, hire a escort. In this case swinging is not for you.
Single men often wonder why it is so hard for them to get into the swinging scene. This may help to understand why… 95% of swingers are couples. Most of them married. They are usually secure people not looking for any emotional attachment. Just fun recreational sex as an enhancement to an already healthy primary relationship. For most of them friendship is very important. They are very selective about who they chose to be with or even meet.
Bisexual Female Swingers
A high percentage of female swingers are bisexual. Fewer men are openly bisexual but that is gradually changing. Couples generally seek other couples. Couples with a bi female often seek another couple with a bi female, or a single female. This benefits both the man & the woman. Therefore, fewer couples seek to add a second male unless it’s something the woman wants or they are seeking a bi male. As far as married men playing discreetly without the wife, very, very few couples will accept that. Cheating is something that is very contrary to the concept of swinging.
Probably you already know that, not to many couples looking for single men, and in fact not to many club let single men in to their dances. Some couples seek extra men. Some couples interest in three or more some, gang bang or the husband just like to watch his wife in sexual act and maybe he’ll later participate in too. So do you want to be part of their life? It wont be easy but the next few sentence may give some basic idea.
Probably you already heard that, “Looking for couples and select single men”. Select means that you must be clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered. If you’re not all of these things this is not for you.
Remember most of the swingers club are members only club. Of course most of the club let guests in. If you are a single male the easiest way to get in with a member couple. You have to understand that discretion and privacy very important for every swingers. You really have to behave, your character is under continual scrutiny… That means that just because you are in the club today, does not mean that you can be in tomorrow too. If you misbehave, act badly or disruptive then your will be ask to leave immediately and you will be permanently bared from ever returning to that club again.
Club members know each other. This also means that if you insult or offend one couple, word will spread very quickly to the other members. By the same token if you are pleasant to a couple and they enjoy your company, they will be eager to introduce you to other couples and ladies so that they can enjoy your company too. Just like close friends love to recommend a good movie or a good restaurant to their friends… Swingers like to recommend people with to their friends!
Dress nice, like you’re going on a date. You want to pick up a women and for extra you need for this her husband approval too!
Leave the creative pickup lines at home. Swinger ladies are adults and are not into head-games. They have heard every line in the book and it wont work.
When eye contact has been established, and you wander over don’t blow it by a cheesy chat up line. They simply don’t work these days. They’ve been tried before you and failed so don’t fall into the trap and think you’re different – you aren’t at all. Thee best opening words in the world that work 99% of the time a “Hello, this is my first time here and I noticed you and I would like to introduce myself to you, My name is Leo”. Introduce yourself to both the husband and his wife. Never wait until he goes to get a drink and sneak up to meet her without him present, or wait to ambush her as she heads to the ladies room.
If you want a 100% sure thing then go to a whorehouse or call an escort. Most of the swinger ladies are wives and girlfriends and above all, they are ladies, not escorts. Treat them like ladies.