I’ve got to come out here as a wife and say, that I have never seen the draw or sometimes obsession with anal sex as I experienced with some men recently. I mean I did not experience anal sex with men but I experienced other’s fascination to anal sex, even when we just talked about it.
Let me explain it. We got together with few friends in a bar at the past weekend to finalize our coming up Halloween party details. It will be an erotic Halloween party in a hotel set up. As a good party organizers as we too, talked about all details, when the subject of anal sex came up.
So here we go… I have tried anal sex and didn’t enjoy it at all, to be honest neither did my husband. We thought we would and anal penetration would be as enjoyable as vaginal penetration but it did not make anything “special” other than disappointment for hubby and pain for me. We tried again few weeks after that, same results, ad than that is all our anal sex experience.
I can tell, based on the above experiences, anal sex is not for us and anal sex is something that we’ve not try in 5 years. Than on that our party organizing get together, when the subject of anal sex came up, every men eyes turned to be wild. It was crystal clean, those guys ready to penetrate any woman’s anal, opening… Why they get so excited just from talking about it?
Is anal sex something we feel we have to experience because of Halloween sex party, and there are monsters, therefore its a really good time to sexually “torture” someone. Or anal sex, anal penetration is something “I have to do it”, because its exposure in porn, or in a slightly more darker vein.
I think it more likely Halloween and sexual torture… Can anal sex be seen as an act of dominance and possession if you have performed anal sex on a partner?
What percentage of heterosexual encounters include a period of anal sex?
I’ve never really understood the draw and the attraction of anal sex between straight people. Do I miss something extra pleasurable erotic thing here? Continue Reading…
I am sure anal sex is not for everyone, but it is no longer a taboo. A lot of people into anal sex, because they like it, not because of Halloween. In fact I don’t think
Halloween have anything to do with it.
Anal sex has been around since time immemorial, even before internet boom. Internet porn just popularized it to some degree. There may be a dominance component to the act with some people, but for me does not do to much.
As you, as I too, enjoy vaginal penetration more than anal sex. However I have no problem being on the “giving” end if female partner ask me to.
Anal penetration provide a slightly different sensation, because the anus is very tight. From what I’ve heard, women who like it, they claim it gives the best orgasms when done right. Continue Reading…
I like to be anally teased mostly… I like when my man try to get it in there, than after a lot of anal teasing he penetrates, but not to deep anal penetration.
I must say, on this way I’ve had some very pleasurable experiences via anal play… They are far and few in between. Continue Reading…
We both love anal sex. It is like any other sexual act, if you enjoy it and feel comfortable with it, then go for it!
Just for my two cents… Halloween Sex party or not, if you don’t enjoy anal play, it’s not “required” just because other people dressed up, like monsters.
Some people enjoy oral sex and some don’t, and it is the same with anal sex, men and women and their preferences are different. Just my thought on the subject! Continue Reading…
We both enjoy anal sex at anytime, give and receive too, and not just around Halloween. You really need to trust your partner, before you let him in the backdoor and you have to be relaxed. If you not trust him, you are not relaxed. It is fact, you really have to be relaxed to be at the receiving end to enjoy it. If your not relaxed it can be painful.
I, myself can cum over and over during anal sex, and those orgasms are very intensive… Continue Reading…