Are you into kinky sex?

I mean real kinky, like whips and chains, pain and ropes and pleasure…

Kinky means something that society or religion teaches against. Something like pain and pleasure, or BDSM, or hard core fetish, maybe ass worship, spanking SM, whips, ropes and chains. The list is almost endless.

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I’m not 100% sure what is kinky in sex these days. Pretty much  everything we can think of, if our minds turn on different way when the subject of sex comes up. There are still more then few things that vanilla sex lover’s people consider taboo kinky sex in bed. Usually these are the things that make kinky sex lovers so horny that they can’t have enough enjoyment…

I think that is why kinky sex lovers enjoy doing such kinky things. I can be very kinky and I love to be kinky every now and than…

There is a rush involved when doing something that you know is wrong. It is the same feeling a thief probably gets when he steals something. In this day on this website, very few things are off limits, so there is no rush necessary here. Just take your time.

Actually it probably depends on where you live in. If you live in North America or in Europe, people tend to be more open minded, more liberal. They don’t care about others sexual practice. If you and your partner open minded enough and want to be painfully kinky, everything, and I mean anything can go. The limit depends on how far you would like to go.

If you live somewhere in Asia or in some country where you can see sand as far as the eye can see, chances are you live in more of a conservative area. Being kinky and practice Kinky sex over there against the law and might punished buy death.

Sentence to death by public stoning. It is brutal and inhuman.   So you be very carefully with your kinkiness  if you live in one of those conservative country.

I’ve never understood this really. Why in those countries  willing erotic   sex play, that people enjoy and do behind close doors consider as crime…  That’s right, some in the world, in some area at the world, still view anal sex, threesome, or sex with others than spouse as taboo sex and crime. There is a lot of stigma placed on anal sex or sex outside of marriage. That is like the restricted apple.

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However even over there most of the men view kinky sex as the next best thing since sliced bread, but their law has a very different view on it.

I think some women want to be kinky there too. They are wondering too… They want to know how it would be, and how it would feel like. Sex and pain and whips and chains and sex with multiply partners.

Oral sex is one of their taboo kinky sexual activity too. I don’t know what they think about bloody oral pleasure. Oral sex while a woman is on her period is still thought as taboo even in West Countries. Actually I think this is not kinky, I think this is more disgusting than kinky.

I have talked to men that claim, performing oral sex with a woman on her period is very enjoyable. They said, the women’s vagina more sensitive on those reg tag days and if she use tampon,  then there is no bloody mess.

Some women enjoy receiving oral sex while on their period. Some claim that it helps relieve the pain and makes them feel less stressed out.

I don’t know, this is a bit taboo for me,  I  think this is a way more kinkier, than I am… When the monthly “red tag” days comes around, I am recuperating and getting ready for plays when my period is over.

Groups Sex

Nothing can get kinkier than a kinky group sex. Having sex in a room filled with people, they watching and being watched, some of them masturbating and  moaning and groaning is the ideal thing for some people.  Special if she is tied up and blindfolded… That is very kinky. Nothing is more of a turn on than to see a hot babe getting drilled buy two or three large cocks.sex parties

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Want to take the next step? Introduce her, the handcuffs, shackles, straight jackets and more… She is handcuffed, and her legs are shackled to wide open and the men are total control of her. It is much more better than watching porn.

Peeping Tom,  Voyeurism, Cuckold is kinky sexual practice too. He get punished, because he can not make his female sex partner orgasm. He wont have access to her genital, just to clean up, after other men… and he have to watch it. Some people get turned on when they know someone is watching them while they having sex, some other get turned on by watching others have sex. The idea of it will make them harder than a glass dildo.

A lot of people enjoy this, I mean enjoy a double headed glass dildo, while others watch them.  There are many safe and fun ways to enjoy a dildo… and even more ways to enjoy kinky sex as long as you and your partner both agree to it, there is nothing wrong with it.

MAKE SURE that your partner is fully aware and agrees with what you end up doing.

There are a lot of ways to have kinky sex. For example, master (mistress) & slave. The master or the mistress order and the slave with out hesitation fallows the order. If something wrong with the slave’s “attitude” the master or the mistress will punish the slave.

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Restraints – Punishment & Spanking

The slave might be restrained and as punishment, will get spanked… as hard as a slave deserve it.

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I as told that people use speculums for anal play. I understand the feeling of something of varying sizes going in and out, like a knuckle, a butt plug, or the rim of a cock. But what does a speculum offer sensation wise other than the initial penetration?

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The purpose of this tool is to hold open the vaginal opening so the doctor can insert the necessary instruments for an exam. So if people are holding their anus’s open, what are they putting inside themselves? It has to be something that can’t be inserted by just pushing it inside on its own. Something soft? Something that can’t hold its own shape?

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I love anal sex and always loved anal sex. I had anal sex before I lost my virginity… but I am not an anal sex expert.

However in my “younger” age, sometimes in my early teen’s, I used to have a boyfriend, his cock was very thick and I could not let him in true the back door.  He was a medical student and he used a speculum on me to enlarge temporary my anal opening. He told me, I should not do it myself or with an amateur, because it can cause permanent damage… That mean surgery or diaper…

After his warning, I never used it again and he never had anal sex with me again. If someone cock is to thick, then he wont have anal sex with me… I suggest you stay a way to that thing too. Continue Reading…

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I love and my hubby loves anal sex too, even receive it with a dildo… I heard about  Speculum from a playmate cpl. I think it is a fetish, I mean to use it for sex.

Originally Speculum is not made for use as a sex toy. Speculum is a medical instrument intended for the use of medical examination of the vagina or rectum, made of surgery tool quality stainless  steel,  in the shape of a duckbill.

Sex toys stores sell it the cheap version of Chinese, made from plastic. I guess it does what it supposed to do in sex, but I am not sure, I never tried to use it.

How they use it… They lubricate it and insert it in the rectum. After insertion, the “bill” is spread apart to open the anus or vagina.

It is commonly use in medical role playing, and they use it in BDSM play too for torturing… This form of play can be dangerous. Not for the novice. Continue Reading…

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It is for BDSM or for anal play. It not even that crazy… really isn’t any crazier than putting live sneak up your vagina or anus.

I’ve heard many stories of that being done. I guess some people just
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To use Speculum is not for beginners. To use it need a lot of knowledge… The reason to use it, psychological and physical. It physically stretch your vagina to its limit, if you use it to vaginal play,  and that’s cause  psychologically effect like, you are being fucked with an extra thick cock…

Pretty much the same effect in anal sex… Continue Reading…

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I was searching for a nice big speculum after watching a recent video by Roxy Raye.

It wasn’t easy to find… About 30 minutes of Goggle search I find one but nothing like the one she has. It looks like a normal  speculum, but obviously bigger. It have a screw on the bottom of the handle that stretches the opening even further.

I got so horny and wet just think about it, I just needed to buy it it. The feeling to use it is a big turn on, as someone said it above, it feels like you have sex with a large cock you never imagined to take it in before… But self play is a little uncomfortable as I’m not that flexible than those girls  from cirque de soleil… Continue Reading…

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Pity sex, sympathy sex & swingers sex

Our partner’s adult dating advice line’s most interesting subject was today pity sex. Pity sex is a form of sexual pleasure.  I guess I should make it clean what is sexual pleasure.

Sexual pleasure is the pleasure a person create from any kind of sexual activity.  Sexual pleasure  might end up in orgasm, but there are sexual pleasures with out orgasm.  However mainly sexual pleasure ends up in orgasm.  Sexual activities like,  masturbation,  sexual intercourse (including foreplay). Many people derive sexual pleasure from fetishismBDSM and swinging.

What about pity sex? Well pity sex,   is a sexual activity that ends up in orgasm.  The definition of pity sex is: Pity sex  (also called  sympathy sex) is sexual intercourse provided based solely on feelings of sympathy or pity that at least one partner feels for the other.

Let’s talk about that erotic dating advice line:  She wrote it:

I was wondering, how many have or would give pity sex? And if you know you are receiving pity sex, would you take it?

I have given pity sex in the past but haven’t this time around. I have no idea if I’ve received pity sex but I wouldn’t doubt it.

There are few responds, that I really like. The first one came from a woman. She wrote it:

Yes, I have given pity sex. I actually have a rather wild fantasy about it. I don’t know if I’ve ever received, and I don’t
think I want to! It would depend on the reason they felt pity in the first place.

If I understand it right, she does not have problem to go in the bed with a man, just for sympathy, but she dosen’t like the idea if somebody do the same thing with her.   Is it very close to casual sex?

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For example in the real life it can happen, like a real gorgeous woman  doing a incredible ugly fat man  a favor and screw  his brain out…. But if she is the fat women, she doesn’t want to have pity sex with a gorgeous man. Can it be true? Hard to believe it…

The other answer came from a man. It is very detailed. He wrote it:

I’ve given pity sex before. It sometimes comes back and bites you on the ass. I try not to by thinking about what
the repercussions of being with that particular person would be, especially if it is an ex that I know will flip out
later on thinking we are a couple only because we had sex. I would need more than sex to be in a long term relationship again with anyone. I didn’t give sex the last time around either.

I am grateful that I didn’t even though we slept in the same bed for a month last month. She asked for it. I knew she would start fighting again if we did. I don’t like to fight. Of course, it’s my fault. It always is no matter which way I go with or without. Some people just need a bad buy to feel good about themselves.

If I ever received pity sex no one told me that they did. I usually would get hurt knowing that people left me for a
check. It’s usually to use me for sex that people are attracted to me. It’s why I still have those people in my life. Friendship and sex unless I refuse it for good reason always. I don’t complain about it anymore.

I learned to accept it just like many women. I guess sometimes your sex is more interesting than how important you are to someone until your gone. It makes me feel good to know that I am important but I don’t let it happen again.
I can keep myself happy without depending on others now. It’s what I learned from being a good guy for a long time
being hurt until I turned hard like concrete.

Thanks for that question. It brought out some things I haven’t thought about in a long time or payed attention to for lately for sure. I know I give long answers but it’s who I am. People can just pass on reading my comments if they don’t like to read.

I have only one more thing to say. The real question to ask is whether or not pity sex turned out to be something that both partner enjoyed. If they did, than it  no longer qualified as pity sex. If that sex started because of sympathy and both partners enjoyed it, than it can be one night stand… or casual sex.

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