How to play in threesomes

A lot of man would be surprised if they find out how many women fantasize about have sex with two guys at the same time. For some of those women fantasy stay fantasy in all of their life. However some others make it reality if she brave enough to stand front of her man and tell him; “Honey I want to have sex with two guys at the same time“. It have to be a very secured relationship. Just a secured man able to except the fact, her loved one want an other cock…

anal sexThe female –  female – male threesomes (see the photo at left) are more common in the today’s open sexuality world, because the large number of bi sexual women. In ffm threesome she can have what ever she prefer, woman or man, or both in the same time.

Man – Man – Woman threesomes are different.  The men are bisexual, or list one of the man is bi. She wont get any pussy in mmf threesome, but she will have two hard cocks to play with. Also bi men plays  with each other, not just with her. There are a lot of question in her head before she finalize her decision.  This is normal, specially at the first time in a mmf three-way.

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male female male threesomeThe male – female – male scenario at left on the photo when both guys there to please her. The biggest question is who will be the third guy in the tried. She needs to find that guy attractive  plus the two guys have to get along well too, because if they want to make it successful and pleasant sexual experience, they going to have to work as a team.

A good friend is the best choice, however, it is very hard for married couples, because  they don’t want to advertise their personal sex life for their friends and they don’t want to invite friend into their sex life. It is a bit easier for boyfriend – girlfriend couples.

But if two people really want something to happen, they will make it happen and will find the right guy. If you did not find yet check out our erotic sex personals and you will find a lot of willing man there.

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Finally you found the right guy and you invited him to your home and or a hotel room. You have to be prepared if you want to make this scenario a great sexual experience.

Few tings would be handy, for example you favorite romantic music CD, some drink, maybe candles, maybe some erotic movies. Hopefully you going to need a lot of condom and lube, also you might need few wet baby wipes.

All three of you sit in the living room and your get together do not want to turn to be an erotic get together. Probably you already talked it trough why you guys are there, so all three of you know what should happen and either of you don’t know how to start and or all three of you scare to start.

You need to socialize a bit but not to much. You do not want to spend all night with chatting. You have more important things to do. So have few sip of drinks, it will clam the nerve down, talk a bit and go for it. She just should go to one of the guy and sit in his lap. According to the un-written no commitment swingers sex etiquette, it is very polite if she starts with guest guy. Just sit in his laps and start to touch and or kiss him. This first move will be the hardest, but from here everything should run nice and smooth.

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How To Begin The Erotic Play In Male Female Male Threesome

After few minutes touching and kissing, the permanent partner, or husband 🙂 should  get involved in the play too. He just should go there and for example start to kiss her neck and he should start to undress her. From this point mother nature should take it over. If mother nature wont do it, she has to do.

She can perform erotic dance to both guys, get naked all the way, get them naked too and push some body parts into the guys face, like boobs and butt and pussy. This will do…

She will be extremely horny and the guys should be hard by now too. Remember this was her fantasy and it is getting reality. She have four hands and two mouths over her body. She can play with two eager hard cocks. She can be eaten out by one guy and she can perform oral sex on the other guy. There are millions of things that two guys and a woman can do. There is no foreplay long enough, but at one point the actual intercourse has to begin.

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The double penetration sex position on the picture at left, the lady need to be very flexible. However with that position the guys are in 100%  control. They control the speed and the deepness of the penetration.

The easiest threesome position is the doggy style. In doggy style she can have vaginal penetration with one guy and the other can perform oral sex on her, or he can suck her boobs or she can perform oral sex on the guy.

On the picture at next is a doggy style anal – vaginal double penetration. The extra guy under her, perform vaginal penetration. The guy behind her, moved forward, he is almost top of her and he perform deep anal penetration.

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In threesome safe sex is a most. It is okay to see unprotected sexual intercourse, but it is not okay to perform it.

Also if there is to be anal play, you have to be sure you use latex gloves and change condoms to avoid cross contamination.  If anal penetration is desired, once again the best position is doggy style, but you have to be very careful with the lube. You should not let the lube drip from her but on to her vagina, because that lube going to transfer all kind of nasty bacteria, and she might get a nasty vaginal infections.

If you guys really into the game, you can perform double vaginal penetration.  The easiest way to do it. One guy lies on his back, with wide open legs. She gets on top of him, face to the guy’s face. His cock in her pussy. She bends forward to on his chest as low as she can. He should support himself with his legs and lift up his own hip a little.

Because she is bending forward, and he lifted up her a bit, her but should point to upward, just like on the picture above. The second guy go behind her, and sleeps his penis into her vagina.

This need some practice, the highs really have to mach to make it work, but if the two guys get it right she will achieve an incredible fulfilling orgasm.  Also this position excellent to perform vaginal – anal  double penetration. In that case the guy behind her, have to penetrate her golden hole.

If that above double penetration to much for her, one of the guy can perform vaginal penetration and the other guy can play with any of her body part. And after a while, the guys should rotate.

As I stated above two guys and a woman together, able to do do millions of erotic things.

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In our society women have the opportunity to decide between work, family or both. What about sex and orgasm? Do a woman have the same opportunity in sex as in work?

Even though a lot of woman today smart, sassy,  and not just career oriented, a lot of man would answer with a single NO.

Yet while we all imagine we’re having exciting sex lives like the cast of Sex and the City, how many of us actually are? How many woman have mind blowing orgasm frequently?

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My wife and I have talked the possibility of casual sex (threesomes) with friends for years. She expressed interest in sex with two men many times, which I would not mind to try, in  a form of MFM threesome, but we never made the next step.

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I do not like  the idea of touching, contact with other man, and a lot of men who into 3sums are bi.  The idea of man on man do not appealing for me, I don’t have any sexual interest in men and I didn’t think it excites my wife either, that is why the male female male threesome sounded much better.

We have a really close gay friend with whom I feel perfectly comfortable, but wouldn’t at all consider doing anything erotic with him.

To make the story short… Last weekend we attended a Halloween party and after the party  I found myself involved in some male on male action and I’m not sure how I feel about it. Continue Reading…

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As I said it was a Halloween party and it wasn’t even an erotic Halloween party.  Most people attending there were strangers to us. My wife was stunning  in an all black lace and fishnet dominatrix outfit, we not into pain and pleasure, it was just a costume. She instantly caught a good looking, young man woman couple’s eye. Introductions were made and there was small talk and a lot of flirt… some drink and dance.

After the party they called us over to their home, as soon we get into the house they  started a porn  DVD. Some more drinks and wife and I started to  kissing. The sparks were flying instantly. I knew she wanted to get  fucked and I wanted her badly as well, but wasn’t 100% sure in our host..

Than our host lady made the decision for us, she set down next to me and asked from me; “Do you mind?” and unzipped my pants and started to play with my erected cock. I was kissing my wife madly… Our host lady’s hand was very smooth and soft as she was stroking my cock. Then another hand on my cock,  I knew it was her husband’s because he was a bit rougher with my hard dick, but I didn’t stop him. Instead, I tried to focus on his wife and took of her top. Continue Reading…

swingers sexA moment later, my male member was in his mouth. I continued foreplay with his wife  but her husband was doing his best to suck me off. I can’t say I didn’t like it. In the darkness, I couldn’t see who was doing what, but I did not penetrate anyone.. and I just had a mind blowing orgasm…

Than he bent my wife into doggy style and fucked her pretty good for a short while longer, than I would, but than he finished too.

The rest of the night we did everything that orally bi men do, even dough I am not bi, mfm, mmf, ffmm. I think the ffmm was the most fun. Than around morning our sexual energy disappeared, or we used all. We continued to socialize a little with out any sexual activity, than  exchanged numbers and said  goodbyes.

It was a good sexual experience, they are really good sex partners, and in  the heat of moment I enjoyed it. Not next day morning… I was grossed out about myslef.  I even sucked his dick for the request of my wife, but I don’t think I will do it again. There’s something it the back of my head that puts me off to the whole male – male interaction. I certainly don’t think it is wrong, but I know it is not for me. I have exactly zero sexual attraction to any man.

My problem is, my wife wants to repeat… How can I get out from this mess? Anyone have any idea? Continue Reading…

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I am a 36 years old woman and my husband is bi. Bi men are my fetish…

We love threesomes, but we play only with bi or list bi curious (orally bi) men. All of our sex plays are fun for everyone, so I don’t think you should get out of that “mess”… Or if you will, than your wife might find someone else to play with. Continue Reading…

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Only met one bi guy in the past ten years out of a lot of guys who liked a strap on used on him.he acted like it was a lot of fun, it was deferentially fun for me.

The other guys said no way…. But you did not ask anything about anal penetration… I don’t think you should worry about getting or giving blow jobs. Things like that happens in the heat of the moment… Continue Reading…

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You wrote it, you are not bi. I would say not yet, but you are on the fast lane to become one… So if you think it is something not for you, than the solution is simple. DON’T DO IT! Continue Reading…

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Bi men turns me off! Because virtually he could like men while he is having sex with me.

My attraction to the opposite sex is based on masculinity and the natural animalistic sexual urges of mating and breeding a male has with a female.

What attracts me is strength, physically, characteristically, mentally, his masculine sexual interests, it makes me feel feminine and like a lady, that he is into women and everything sexual about the female body.

Straight men have nothing but sexual interests in women and can fully appreciate the whole thing… Continue Reading…

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My husband and I had  a mmf threesome with a bi friend just the past weekend. It was a lot of fun for all of us…

Our first mmf was different, because I was worried and watched my husband for most of it. I was concerned he’d be jealous. But he was enjoying himself the whole time.

We did a lot of talking before hand. There are things that might bother  you that you hadn’t thought about, if so, than don’t do it.

My husband is strait to the world but loves sucking a dick with me. So I don’t think you need to get out from that mess, but if you do not enjoy it, than don’t do it. Continue Reading…

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Before I came here I imagined my time with SwingersCouple’s website will be like I am   Alice in  casual sex Wonderland. I did not happen… because the luck off willing men here.
Where  are all those horny men?

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No I am not high… never use drug and I am sober too.  My writing based on my experience and nothing more.  I know some experiences don’t make much sense…

I mean, realistically how frequently are YOU finding yourself at the middle of a sex party with Ben Wa Balls in your pussy?

I will go to a sex party with out hesitation (there are some conditions apply)  and need to play with my Ben Wa Balls to reach orgasm and and  others seem perfectly accept this. Well, I can play with those Ben Wa Balls at home, I go to sex parties to play with different kind of balls, but according to my experience men got no balls this days, or they are into play with other men’s balls under the word “I am bi”.

I just can’t except to fact… to get penetrated with the same cock, that penetrates and penetrated and old gay man gasping loose a-hole. Than I prefer my  Ben Wa Balls

Play with bi men or play with my own balls? Anyone experienced this, or am I the only (un) lucky one? Continue reading…

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You are definitely not alone… The bi men’s booming numbers confuses me too.

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I have nothing against gay men, in fact I have few really good gay friends, but I believe, there is no half way gay and bi men consider as half way gay. You are gay or not. If you get erected on an other man dick, than you are gay, not bi. Period.

We, women have some kind of abomination between our legs,  we so tenderly call our vaginas. With this came an understanding that you really can’t have a bi-male the same you can a bi female.

Such knowledge has created this image of bi-men being equal or greater than in equivalence to a unicorn woman. I recall a time when the bi-sexual male seemed like a rarity on my radar. I had heard of someone who knew someone who had his cock sucked
on a dare. Then I met a guy in some chat-room who I hooked up with who told me he had been in a threesome with a couple, and the woman’s husband, basically he was  a complete stranger suck him off and swallowed his gum and called it “cream pie”  That is not cream pie in my dictionary… When he told me this my jaw dropped.

One thing is sure, I do not mind to share men with women, but I do not share men with men, so I play with very straight men only, not even bi curious. Continue reading…

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I understand both of your points… I had to admit when I started to look for playmates here, I was surprised at the number of straight men who admitted to the occasional blow job or hand job from a hot guy they met here.They said, there was no any other way to get into her underwear… Give a blow job is to the husband, like the password to log into her pussy…

So how is it? Women available for nsa sex and willing participants in men to men play for  all sorts of kink. So how straight is the straight this days?

I as a open minded  woman, who loves nsa, who has no aversion to girl on girl, on guy on girl action, I’m not sure how to feel about a male male female scenario.

But I will try it… I hooked up with 2 men who have never met but are bi. I feel safe playing with both of them one on one, so why not bring it all together? Boundaries are being set, expectations are communicated…

I mean, this is easier to arrange than just one on one so I’m not complaining. So why am I still uneasy? Because I am not sure about rules.  What have your experiences been like? Continue reading…

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You are probably uncomfortable because normally you are the center of attention as any female would be in a male female male threesome.

But it will be a male male female threesome. Is there doubt in your mind that the two guys will enjoy each other more than you? Continue reading…

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You shouldn’t worry about this, have your 3 some and see how it works out.

After all what we do is all about experimenting and the thrill of the unknown… Continue reading…

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I red the previous bi men related  post here and my question is  related to that post. What would you think if your husband ask you to have a mmf threesome with a bi sexual man? In generally…

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I would like to know other women’s opinion, how do feel about bisexual men and MMF threesomes.

Would you participate in one with your husband and a bi guy? Continue Reading…

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Good question… . We all know,  being bi women here can make you famous and men believe bi women are downright cool.

From the other view, which is a straight woman’s view, bisexual men are unwanted in a normal couples play. They see bi men  as sex hungry monsters, straight men, and straight women too.

Or is it something that women tell to their straight permanent partner? It would be nice to know, how do women feel about it?

I do not have problem with bi guys, but my partner is orally bi, (according to him, he never dated man), he does not care who gives him a blow job, she or he…  as far as it is a blow job. Continue Reading…

Would you have a threesome with you hubby and a bi guy?

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No thanks, I would not have threesome with a bi man, and my husband would not have either.

He said he want to keep his eyes on my ass not on hiss…

And  to knowing my partner is bi, it  would turn me off… I would thinking during sex, he likes men’s ass and he is having sex with me.

Threesome with two men makes me feel wanted… and I enjoy being in the attention of two men, but if they are bi, I would need to share that attention and I don’t like that. I want all for myself. Continue Reading…

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Pretty much no thanks here too. Straight men have nothing but sexual interests in women and they appreciate women, two straight men makes it double…

Bi men, thinking about men, might concentrate on my man and I don’t like that. Continue Reading…

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I’ve played with bisexual men before, although if if that is a mmf threesome  it can be fun, and I had fun in that settings at times, but there was nothing really fantastic about it.

At the end of the day… bi men (at list those who I played with) were never really into me, not as much as straight men are, they lack the passion, they lack the animal like horniness, the urge of outperforming the other guy.

I prefer straight guys, but we are not the same. It might be just me… Continue Reading…

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I have nothing against bi men as far as they do not want to play with me…

I been there, done that, and didn’t like to hear how he likes sucking other guys dicks.

Is that supposed to get me horny? As I know sucking cock in a threesome is the ladies’ job… I can handle two cocks and happy to handle…

Since when are the threesome rules switched? Continue Reading…

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My partner  is bi sexual. He call himself half way bi, he does not penetrate men’s butt, but does not mind to receive in the butt… He said that is an excellent prostate massage

I think a lot of couples are probably more comfortable with inviting another guy into their sex life, because her jealousness toward women.

But if the guy is bi, like in our case, than very easy to get things going because she can have two men, he can have man and woman… so it is much more fun for the participating people.

Personally we had MFM,  FMF, and mmf threesomes and they’ve been very enjoyable, but the best was and the best is threesome with bi menContinue Reading…

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Anyone have any experience with a male-male-female threesome?

Does anyone have any thoughts or experience with a male-male-female threesome? I am a married man and open to and interested in trying a mmf threesome.

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I been in threesomes few times in my younger, collage age with my room mate and his girlfriend, those was straight mfm. That 3 way relationship  lasted until they broke up…

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I think mmf would also be less threatening to our marriage than a mfm or fmf.

Of course we have some rules and we have our limits. My wife is turned on by the thought of me doing certain things with another guy, vise versa the other guy will do things with me.

I also good with the idea of  they will do certain things with each other, like any couple would do  in this  type of situation.

Any thoughts if this is a good or bad idea? Anyone have similar experiences? Continue reading...

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Well, I can tell you that (the woman half of the couple) at least for me being in a MMF threesome can be an incredible experience.

Just all depends on how sexually compatible everyone is. I wouldn’t make it a regular thing, because very easy to get addictive to two dicks, even if they play with each other…   but once in a while it’s fantastic. Continue reading...

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We have an open minded friend couple, who with we get together every know and than.

We played in every possible scenario all four of us, but the best is the fmmf. They started out as MFM threesomes but changed into fmmf.

There is a logic… 1 guy satisfying 2 women doesn’t happen very often and our wives are not bi, but they are comfortable in bed together.

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I am comfortable  with my friend and enjoy sharing my wife or his wife with him. We all orally satisfied each other whenever we are in bed together, it feels natural to orally satisfy both our wives and him. I guess I would call myslef orally bi, and that is how far I will go…

If you can set up, go for it and try. If you think about it, and fantasize about it, than sooner or later you will try it anyway. Than you and your wife can decide like it or not… Wont ever know if you never try. Continue reading...

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My wife and I have had many MMF threesome with our best friend. He is bi like I am.

He is also married, we play with his wife or my wife so discretion always assured.

He do do oral and  vaginal penetration on my wife and I perform anal sex on him. With his wife, I playing with her and I take him on the back door.

Also I really like watching my wife when she takes another man, special if she have anal sex with him.

We have been married over 20 years and this has not had any negative impact on our relationship. So I would say, just go for it, but try to do with a couple. as you experienced in your younger age, single man is risky… for the relationship. Continue reading...

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I did an MMF with 2 male friends a couple years ago.  I did not even know they are bi sexual… and it wasn’t not plan to be a threesome. It just happened after few drinks.

They were very kind and respectful men and the drinks and the subject of our conversation  just kind of made it happen.

I did not want to “do” them at first but they start to play with each other and that made me wanna play…

They made me horny basically… Having 2 guys fighting to please you and in the mean time they pleasing each other too, can be an incredible sexual experience.

However you have to make sure, you and the other guy main priority is her satisfaction, and you both need to be more into her then into each other.

Otherwise she wont have her share of fun.

You’re correct in assuming that it will cause her less emotional issues if the 3rd party is a guy because there is less for her to be jealous and insecure about.  Continue reading...

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