We might call it power of the pussy, but it would not be true… A woman’s power over a man is not only whats between her legs but in her attitude and desire to entice a man. We call it the art of Seduction. Being beautiful and sexy is a definite plus for any man to be enticed alone.
But I came to a conclusion. I believe its in a woman’s confidence and attitude.
A while back a gentleman friend once told me, “June if I saw you in a room with 20 other females who were sexy, you wouldn’t of been the one I would of chose based on physical appearance.
He proceeded to say, “I’m a physical type individual I like my sexy women” I was shocked and a little thrown off but kept my composer, after all he was the one who pursued me! He looked at me and noticed I was in disbelief!
I began to laugh, I thought it was funny how he was trying so hard to bounce back from the comment he just said.
I told him, “Oh really? and what was your outlook?” He smiled and told me that I let out such exotic energy that I was so easy to be comfortable around.
I say and do things that no skinny chick has ever did for him, he continued to comment how my eyes and lips made even the sexiest woman look so cold.
I began to laugh and tell him “well I’m just me”…
So I want to know what you think skill or Attitude?
I definitely think it is an attitude…. I believe a confident woman is very sexy. How she carries herself, that she is comfortable in her own skin… But you also have to follow that confidence with a skill…
It’s not enough to feel sexy you have to make your partner feel it, drink it, smell it, touch it….
Seduction, in and of itself, is having the qualities and abilities to attract, tempt, and lure someone to you. It in no way grants you power over anyone, as each person has the choice of succumbing to or averting that allurement.
How does one effectively seduce another? With their charisma, overall appeal, chemistry, attractiveness, charm, and presentation.
Seduction isn’t about duplicity and chicanery. It is an opening of yourself to another by an honest show of interest without flamboyance.
An innocent smile, subtle projection of body language, a slightly lingering and coy look, a delicate combination of interest and disinterest to stimulate their curiousity and react favorably toward you.
Seduction is littered with hints of passion, sincerity, and sensuality. For some it is a genuine (and often unrecognized) essence that emits through their aura; for others, it can be a struggle to be artless and pure when it comes to projecting themselves seductively and their efforts are frequently seen as fictitious and undesirable.
It doesn’t matter if you just met someone 5 minutes ago, or have been married to them 30 years; seduction is a primitive instinct within all of us and I personally believe subtly differentiates a natural seducer from a blatant pick-up artist.
Does not matter you are a man or a woman. Confidence is sexy. If you are not confident, probably you are not the greatest sex partner that she or ever had… I think confidence more important in men than in women, when we talk about casual sex.
With out confident no any men can give a mind blowing orgasm. At first you have to believe in yourself, you have to believe, you can do her, you have to believe you can screw her, the way no man ever did before. When you have trust in your own love making ability then you have to go to the next step. Which is find a competitive sex partner.
I do not want to talk about here, how to find someone to have casual sex. I did in this website many time. Let’s assume you found that oversexed woman, and she is in your place now. So what should you do?
Foreplay is very important in sexual intercourse. You can’t turn on someone and can turn on yourself if your partner’s armpits have a heavy body smell. I don’t want to perform oral sex on anyone, whose genital area smells like strong Swiss cheese. Being clean is the most important factor of any foreplay.
If you are a man and you are at home with a girls or at party, your confidence is more important, than how good looking you are. You have to look like someone, who really knows what he is doing. A confident man will make his partner more relaxed. A nervous man is going to transfer his nervousness onto his partners. To have a great sex all ladies need to be relaxed. No nervous women ever had a orgasm. She has to read your mind. In your mind should be something like this: “I can make her night.
I am good enough, my penis big enough and with my love making technique, I going to give her so big orgasm, she is going to scream from the pleasure.” If you can manage to transfer those few things into her head, you will be extremely successful as a no commitment sex partner.
Women need more time to get turned on. You can not turn a nervous women on. You have to be look like you are really know what you do. You have to touch her with knowledge, and you have to hold her the way, she is understand, how deeply you appreciate her. This is all are just small details, but all together they will make the big O. And that big orgasm going to come only if you understand your partner body language, you understand when she is ready for you.
If you push her and you are do her early, it wont happen, if you are late, then you past the magic moment… You have to read her body language.
This things comes from experience. If you do not have this kind of experience, you have to learn them. You have to know how to be successful in sex. If you don’t know what it takes to give a orgasm for any woman at any time, there is a website built for men only.