Why couples share their sex life and their spouse with others? This is the nice way to ask it, but a lot of people wondering, why married couples like to have sex with others, at front of their spouse?
I have my idea, but there are others with even better idea. Let me explain it.
One lady wrote it on our sister’s website’s erotic on-line dating magazine. “We are a married couple and we do have a couple of male friends to play with us, mainly with me… I enjoy to play with two men at once and my hubby enjoys watching, and or join in. We are looking for couples, females, and single men too. We are not bi sexual, but otherwise very open minded…” Continue reading…
Did you realized, what she said? “We do have a couple of male friends to play with us, mainly with me.” This is the only possibility to get single guy into this very erotic lifestyle, but this will an other page’s subject.
The problem in married couples sex life start to develop as they are getting older. As couples getting older they will not be the same person as they used to be. As we are getting older, we change. We want different challenges in our work, different friends and sometimes different kind of relationship.
Let me explain it please. Suppose you got married when you were 23 and you husband 27. The best age to get married and at the time both of you was perfectly compatible with each other. Both of you wanted the same kind of life and had similar ideas about future, sex and family. Both of you had goals of having family, kids and living a comfortable life.
Now 12 years later, you are 35 and you have changed. Your interest have shifted drastically from the simple home life to more social life. You are heading to a new direction…
You are still young, but getting close to middle age. You are still very sexy, you know this because guys flirting with you all the time. You thing you are on your way to that hill… and you will miss something.
You have tried to talk about this with your spouse, but he has no or little interest in your new area. He is happy and do not want to get into anything sexual.
Millions of couples are faced with this problem some time in their life.
The solution for may of them the same. Ignore the fact they going to different direction. They live and build their own social life, not necessarily erotic life. Kind of sex less life.
In this time in a lot of cases ladies would begin involved with organizations, or with carrier projects, or church. Her husband go with her or would become more likely a part of her home and less part of her life.
Their love life become routine, boring weekend activity and no sparks will fly in the bedroom. They will grow further and further a part.
And then one day, he or she meet someone who also shares his or her interest and a new relationship just might begin.
The marriage will turn into a disaster. The partners going to different direction. Of course in unrealistic to expect your spouse to share all your interest. Sometimes differences are good in a relationship, but only you can decide you like it or don’t. If you don’t and you don’t do anything about it, your relationship will end in separation. If you check the divorce statistic, you will see that, most marriage ends up between 12 and 15 years partnership.
People usually realize, there is trouble in their marital life when sex became boring activity. Unfortunately a lot of guys ignores this. For one reason or some other, they think something wrong with their wife sex drive. After they will panic, when they and if they discover that, she is having an affair. If this is your situation, you have a big decision to make.
The above couple wrote it: “For lunch, her face pressed up against the wall, skirt around her waist, shirt open, tits out, legs spread open and I eat her out from behind. But we need more men power…” More erotic ads like this
You have three choices. The best solution is to seat down with your partner and talk honestly about what happening. Maybe there is a way to fix the relationship at this point, but you and your partner have to find a way to do it.
The second: Sometimes couples realize that, this is something like a middle age crisis and stay in the relationship. Accept their spouse as is, with affairs, lifestyle etc. However this is hard.
The third solution is to end the relationship and this one is not easy either.
The final solution nsa casual sex or – swinging as a preventive action.
Swingers couples marital relationship never ends in divorce because of the above reasons. Swingers couples marital sex live never boring and swingers couples always talk about sex openly with their spouse and or sex partners.
Also studies show that couples who practice casual no string attached sex together, they can increase their enjoyment and satisfaction in the relationship, because better understanding of themselves and their partners. It can also enhance greater intimacy between the partners and decreased in sex role playing and sexist expectations.
Couples who enter into swinging don’t do it because their relationship is not working out. All of the swinger couples live in strong loving relationship. They know each others needs, wants, and dislikes, they respect each others. In an erotic activity such, no string attached sex or swinging enables them to explore sexual and social feelings.
Swinging permits them to fulfill their erotic fantasy with out the ties to love. Swinging make them realize what is the difference between sex and love. Swingers couples rate themselves as significantly happier than the general population. Swingers are significantly more likely to experience life as exciting rather than dull or routine. Swingers couples believe, swinging caused their general happiness to increase. Swingers couples do appear to lead happier and more exciting lives than non-swingers. Continue reading…