MFM Threesome Sex Tips For Curious Women

The following information has been prepared specifically for curious  women who wish to consider adding MFM threesome sexual pleasures to their sex life.

By the way, it is not my desire to converts you to have a threesome. I really hope you had already make up your mind about give a try to a threesome, and you just don't know how to start. 

First... I assume, you are a female part of a couple and you would like to have two cocks at once. I suggest that you let your primary male partner know that you are now open to, or wish to pursue, the addition of one man to your shared recreational sex experiences. Let him know the idea of him and another guy focusing on your erotic pleasure is really gets your pussy wet.

Maybe he has never proposed opening your sex life to other men. Maybe it is you who wishes to initiate the idea. In that case, you need to open his mind to erotic things gently. Share in watching porn movies which include threesomes with two men. Browse swingers forums, they talk a lot about threesomes and share this forum with him. Try to share things with him on these forums that feature stories which reflect what is on your mind. When you see such films or read such stories, let him know that they turn you on... watch to see his reactions. Ask him what he thinks of such "recreational sex" experiences.  One of the best swingers forum on the Internet is at next>>>

Probably he wants to have that threesome more then you by now, if he is a healthy man, with strong sex drive. However there are a lot more have to be done, before you can have two cocks...  You may want to talk further about how you both will deal with any potential jealousy that may come up further down the line. You may also wish to make it clear how each of you will communicate with the other about limitations either of you want to impose on your expanded sex life as things develop.

You will want to keep it in your mind. It should not be your threesome only, it should be your and his threesome. A couples threesome always should be shared sexual experiences. Shared between you and your husband, or you and your permanent male partner.

Then you had to make the decision about the extra man. Which of you will identify this lucky guy? Will he find that man who will be lucky enough to bang you in your shared bed... or will you be free to choose anyone... to share your body with him. Either way it is a real danger zone to your permanent relationship. It can cause a lot of headache later on... A threesome is a team work and everything that is related, should be done by a team. In this case the team is you and your man.  You should find that extra man together. You should create a list, to identify the desired characteristics  in that extra person.

Characteristics like,  tall, short, younger, older, married, single, local, non-local, friend, stranger,  and many women want a  big dick man for extra sex partner. If you prefer a man with big cock for your shared sexual experience, then you have to make this clean for your permanent partner, before you start to do anything.

The first threesome with two men  is not an essay way.  Women dreaming about threesome with two men, want to play with two cocks. Men usually dreaming two have two pussies at once. You may even want to start with some couple-couple action first, so you can both gain a higher level of comfort in the earliest experiences... and so you can make some initial contacts with others who have opened their sex lives. Plus in a couple couple action, you can have very easily two cocks at once... and your male partner can have two pussies too... Easier to talk a man into a couple to couple erotic fun then a male male female threesome.

If you want to do everything your own, it may require that you place ads or follow-up ads... or that you travel to another city. It may require the acquisition of a discrete PO box, discrete e-mail address, or private voice mail subscription. It may require the both of you... or you or him alone... doing some talking with available men  to be sure, you have chosen the right guy. Or you can join established erotic adult dating services, like DatingSensation, -  partnered with SwingersCouples.net. They provide you with on-line message system, on-line voice mail message, even video chat, forum, members advice line... and they have more then 30 million members.

Many women who opened themselves to an extra guy in their sex life, choose the extra man from friend or relative of one or both of them. I know women who have invited their sisters or college roommates into on-going threesome pleasures with their husbands or boyfriends... and women who have welcomed on-going threesome relationships when the extra guy was a friend or brother of their husband or boyfriend. Some of these women have restricted their threesome ventures with friends or with relatives only... They would not consider inviting a stranger into their sex life. 

However I don't think this is a good idea. It is okay only if your threesome scenario is happens in boyfriend - girlfriend relationship. Long time married couple should not share their marital sex life with any family member. I would absolutely refuse to consider inviting into my sex life anyone who related to us.

However everyone is different, but I don't find appealing to have sex with family members.

When a stranger is chosen, it can be a one-night stand, or it could turn into an often repeated pleasure for all. Sometimes couples start by intending things to be temporary or one-time events... only to find that they have developed a new kind of friendship that they all wish to periodically repeat over a long-term period. Either way, if something goes wrong, very easy to get ride off a stranger, but how can you get ride of a family member...

You should not have sex with you husband's brother...

Finally... keep in mind your own natural feminine tendencies. Most women equate great sexual fulfillment and the warmth of sexual sharing with emotions akin to love. That is why many women won't allow themselves to enjoy more than one man at a time. You most not allow yourself to develop any type of infatuation or admiration for the extra guy. As soon you start to have feelings about him, you have to get ride of him, or it will destroy your primary relationship.

Once you have decided to open yourself to the pleasure-potentials of recreational sex, in the from of threesomes, don't let yourself engage in qualitatively-comparing of your husband or significant other... with the extra guy. That could lead to fracturing of the more-fragile male ego!

Remember, the male ego can be a fragile thing. You can always express your appreciation for the variety the extra guy or gal brings into your primary relationship... but don't EVER praise the other guy's cock or technique as being better or more fulfilling than your man's cock or technique.

Remember, all of your threesome sex experiences should be shared with your primary male partner. It should bring pleasure and an uplifting feeling to both of you. It should satisfy both of your sexual needs, if it doesn't, then something is not right.

About the Extra Guy

If the extra guy's cock is bigger, longer and feels good... tell your primary partner, husband or boy friend that it feels good... but not better than when his cock is inside you. If the other guy's cock is extra thick, invite your man to watch as it stretches you open while the other guy enters you. Then, hug your man tightly to you so he can share in the reactions of your body as you experience this extra fullness within you. Be sure he knows you enjoy this new experience, but that he is and always will be your number one lover, number one sex partner. Let him know the other guy is just a secondary sex partner... and that you appreciate him for allowing you to have this special experience.

Then, when the question comes up about a return session with this well hung man, let your husband make a decision,  "if and when".  You do not try to push him. He should know that, for you, he is the number one man on this world. In these situations, let him be (or seem to be) in charge of your threesome sex life. It is a way to assure him he is not second rate to you! As sexist as it may sound, males often need this reinforcement of their sexuality and desirability to their women... even if it was they who initiated your shared venture into multiple-partner sex.

Single Women In Threesomes

Single women who are being introduced to the pleasures of threesome sex with a male friend who is less than a committed partner, need to keep in mind that there is always the possibility that over a period of time you and the two or more guys in your sex life could all become an integrated, mutually supportive social and sexual threesome or moresomes.

You are a single women, you are free to enjoy such an arrangement.  Arrangement, where all three partners are at liberty to enjoy sexual encounters outside the group and where all three enjoy hearing about such outside experiences. Remember you are a woman, and have a threesome with two guys. With out you, the guys can't have a threesome... So you should, you alone set up the rules. The guys can take it... or leave it.

There are also times when you will have the opportunity to join a male female couple for shared sexual fun. Personally I believe this is the safest way to go for a single woman. Those can be especially rewarding, whether or not you are bi curious, whatever  female - female sex play is involved. You can always advertise your availability to couples for three-way fun. Believe me, if you do, you will get lots of replies. You just have to be selective on what couples you choose to explore 3sume sex with. And if you want to have sex with two men, you just have to ask that couple, to bring an extra man to serve your sexual needs.

Finally, you may want to seek out for single guys who are seeking a gal who would like to join them and a male friend simply to experience female-centered 3sume sex. But this can be very dangerous. Any single woman more then welcome in any swingers club and in a swingers club you do not need to do anything, that you do not want to do, and there is no danger in a swingers club at all.

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