Erotic Prostate Massage
n the past prostate massage used to be carried out by health care professionals as a medical procedure for the treatment of Prostatitis.
Today, prostate massage is more commonly associated with erotic sexual activities.
Before any misunderstanding, the prostate is a organ that males have only. The Prostate Gland is located in the region between the anus and the scrotum. Is is responsible for both manufacturing a fluid that helps produce semen, and closing the urine duct to allow for the "safe passage" of sperm.
The prostate is a walnut shape gland, that is normally between a size of walnut and golf ball. One of the good think about it, that it is completely hidden. It is a sexual organ and a man doesn't have to worry about the size...
Some types of prostate problems are caused by small pocket infections that get trapped inside the gland. The purpose the prostate massage, perform by sexologist or urologist is to push hard enough to open those infections.
However when someone stimulating a guy's prostate in sexually exiting way, she or he should push very firmly. Just prostate stimulating isn't going to must guys come. You as his partner need to do something with his penis too. When he does start to come, his prostate might swell or might starting to dome. At this point you should try rubbing your finger around his prostate or push down on it. Some guys love this, some others don't.
How To Reach His Prostate
When stimulating the prostate, you should wear latex gloves, have short fingernails and use lots of lube. Insert your well moisturized, rubberized, middle finger into your partner's anus to the second knuckle, (inch - inch and a half deep) and stroke upwards in a "come hither" motion. You should feel the prostate through the rectal wall. Keep it gentle at first. As long as you are gently but firm there should not be any reason that can make him scream from pain...
If your partner enjoys it, then push a bit firmer. Part of what some beginners find novel about anal penetration is that it makes one feel as if one has to go to the bathroom. By going to the bathroom pretty thoroughly before beginning play, and clean the anus area very well, may have an easier time not interpreting this new sensation in the old context.
When you find it the surface will fill a bit like the padded part of your thumb as it meets with your wrist.
Explore it side to side with different level of pressure. Be sure to get a lot of feed backs from your partner. If he loves it, you should consider to get an S shaped prostate massage sex toy.
If you give hem a good prostate massage, he should have a mind blowing orgasm. He should feel it deep down even it in his toes...
Some guys are never horny and if your partner one of them, he wont feel any pleasure from prostate massage.
If you are or your partner one of those never horny guys, there are few things that you can do. At The most important one is your lifestyle and diet. Following a healthy diet is not just only good for your health, but healthy diet will increase your sexual performance and maintain your sexual fitness too.
Diet plays a vital role in increasing sexual urges. In fact, there are foods known as aphrodisiacs that increase the libido.
Aside from sexual desires, it is believed that these foods increase the ability of people to have sex. Traditionally, people use different herbs and plants to serve as sexual stimulants.
Anal Beads & How To Use Them
If he had a greatest orgasm ever, because of prostate massage, then you should try next time the anal beads. Anal beads consist if five beads on a string. Each bead is held in place on the string so it doesn't slide. They come with all kind of color and size, from as small as mothball till as big as golf balls.
Basically people who loves anal play, stick them up in their butt and slowly pull them out when they coming, to have even stronger turbo charged mind blowing orgasm.
It can be use by both sex, however they are very difficult to clean, so it is wise to condomize them before inserting.