Do you think its possible for a guy to have only respect in real for a girl with whom he had booty sex call very often for almost a year. He is not interested to meet the girl to have sex etc, but he love to have sex call every time with the girl.
The problem is that the girl is feeling very attached with the guy maybe because she is having so much pleasure on the phone with him but she is not willing to do it with the guy and the guy had even accept only to phone the girl for sex and that he can resist from wanting to have sex with her in real. He even says that he is not in love with the girl.
But the girl is not so sure about it because how can a guy choose to have sex call when he can have other girl to fuck easily?
Is there any love in this relationship or its just a physical and frivolous sexual pleasure?
Is there any love in this relationship? My question is, is there even a relationship? It’s phone sex! Nothing more. This girl needs to smarten-up.
Cross them legs for a while, and see what happens.
That’s a risk you take when you get involved with an NSA or FWB type relationship. One person may end up wanting more and the other doesn’t.
To avoid getting more hurt then you ready are you might want to end it completely.
For him, it may be just physical pleasure and nothing more.
What???? Have you ever thought that he just enjoys phone fun. There is a certain safety in having phone sex. Or there is always the possibility that he is not what he claims to be.
Who knows? Maybe they can. Some people do get off on phone sex and because there is no physical activity actually taking place. He might has the misconception he isn’t cheating. On the phone we can all be the greatest lovers known to women, but the reality maybe a little different.
Phone sex doesn’t do anything for me, I consider as masturbation.
Maybe its just a phone sex but I am just wondering why would a guy choose to have phone sex only when the girl had already rejected his proposal to have sex with him. I mean for a guy it does not function like this
“If she is not willing to have sex with me then I might not waste my time anymore and try to find another one ready for sex !”
I would think that there’s some sort of issue with him, or he is not the person that you think…. Normal people seek normal physical relationships.
Is there any love in this relationship or its just a physical and frivolous pleasure?
He is getting a fuck when he wants it without work, without caring about the person or else he would be
more accessible and take her into consideration. Seems pretty clear cut to me.
If what you are talking about is just phone sex, I don’t see how there could be any love, respect or a relationship.
Phone sex is phone sex period – nothing less, nothing more.
A booty call type relationship can be caring and respectful if they are both honest about their expectations with each
other. However, you first need to honest with yourself about what you want.
It seems to me neither of you are being true to yourself.
If you’re willing to have phone fun with him but not physical sex, I think he may be taking what he can get. At least he’s respecting your wish not to have sex and has not berated you for your choice. Because he is having phone fun with you does not mean he is not also looking for physical sex, he very likely is. And he may be getting it and your time on the phone is just a little extra you give him and he likes it.
And apparently the girl likes it too. So that’s all good.