I am discreet and here for discreet sex. When I say I am discreet sex, I mean that I don’t go blabbing my personal business, sexual activities etc. to everyone and except the same from my partners.
As far as I am concerned what I do with the guy, when, where and how… I am with is our business and it will stay between us…
For me discreet is not just another name, term for “down low.” But according to my experience, not everyone as discreet as states it…
What do you think? What discreet men to you?
I only asked because of the number of male profiles I’ve viewed that say “straight” and discrete, but have also checked ts/tv/tg and have lots of the fore mentioned on their friends list.
I even saw one that said “straight”, but on the “down-low.” Then I’m thinking this person isn’t straight. And yes, they were looking for men first and women last, in other words whatever hole they could fill, that’s what they wanted, but in a certain order, with women being last. Continue Reading…
Hi, the word is “discreet” and it usually refers in casual sex to people who don’t kiss and tell… in other words, it means having the ability to respect other people’s privacy.
Many married people or professional people use this word on dating and casual dating because they don’t want the colleagues (or spouses) to know they are on erotic adult dating website… Continue Reading…
I am here for discreet sex, and I have nothing to hide. When I say discreet sex I mean, no one need to know it… just me and my sex partners.
However usually discreet means in adult dating, you’ve got something to hide…. Either
married, attached and you don’t want your partner to know, or you are here and you not supposed to be here for what ever reason.
I truly believe that most people do practice discretion by not “shouting from the rooftops” what they are doing in their private lives, but you’ve got to ask yourself; If someone stresses discretion in adult dating, then why? Continue Reading…
Are you looking for a fling or an ongoing, discreet, no commitment sexual relationship? You can find it here!
I am finding when men mention “discrete” in their profile they are married or attached. When they say they can be discrete when meeting women means they are open to married or attached women, or men.
I tend to just avoid the profiles that say discrete in them.
As with anything else its common sense when meeting a new person, find out a little bit about them first then meet in a public place. I even meet the under 30 men in a pub, discrete or not I am not into meeting at private residences. Continue Reading…
The term down low actually is low down in adult dating and it have nothing to do with discreet sex.
Down-low (sexual slang) From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Down-low is an African American slang term that refers to a subculture of men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men; some avoid sharing this information
even if they have female sexual partner(s).
The term is also used to refer to a related sexual identity. Down-low has been viewed as a type of impression management that some of the informants use to present themselves
in a manner that is consistent with perceived norms about masculine attribute, attitudes and behavior.
I do not understand why only the African American community. Gays are everywhere, not just only in the African American community… Continue Reading…
If I see a guy saying he is looking for discreet anything, to me that screams that he is married or attached and looking to cheat.
The second I see that written on a profile he gets crossed off the list. Usually you’ll see whoever is looking for discreet hasn’t filled in the question about relationship status and left it blank.
Even if by some chance he isn’t attached I will still give him a miss. If he can’t happily be seen in public with me then I won’t be in private with him.
On the other hand, there are a lot of couples and single women here, who are looking for discreet sex, so discreet can mean few things in casual dating. Continue Reading…