The Subject Of Anal Sex – Anal Penetration

For some unknown reason around Halloween the subject of anal sex comes up more often than any other times. Maybe because the summer is over, the weather not that great  and people forced to spend more time inside… Thinking and fantasize about many things and activities.

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Activity like anal sex. Maybe  because of Halloween and people want to be an  anal monster, I am not sure, I am just guessing…

Therefore I use the opportunity to explain my advice on anal sex. Before any misunderstanding, I am not a healthcare professional,  this is just my advice, you read it or don’t or you follow or don’t will not make any difference for me…

So here you go “my advice” on anal sex.

Always use a condom! There is no excuse to have anal sex with out condom! Anal sex can produce bleeding plus the anus area is a home for a lot of bacteria. Those bacteria harmless in and around the anus, but everywhere else they might make troubles… Protect yourself!

The lubrication is key to have a great anal sex! Unlike the vagina the anus wont get wet when she is in the mood. You have to get her back door lubricated. Use water based lubricant only, like KY jelly. It is not health hazard to her and it wont damage the condom.

Be gently, very gently. Play with her anus. Insert your well lubricated finger in. First just the tip of your finger. She have to get comfortable with the new sensation first. If she doesn’t have pain push your finger in al the way. Remember, you supposed to take your time and be very gently. She have to learn how to loose her anal muscle, because this ring muscle automatically try to close the entry door. Also lot of people like to use butt plug or anal toys to get her muscle relaxed.

And according to  my  limited anal sex experience, the best anal sex position is he  Doggy Style.

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The best anal sex position for experienced sex partners is the rear entry in doggy style.

Rear entry allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate deeply. It is not beginner’s best choice. He can penetrate or a other women can penetrate her with a strop on dildo, really hard. If it is the receiver first anal experience, if you penetrate her to deep and hard probably she never going to let anything hard into her butt hole again.

This position is erotic parties’ popular position, because a lot of other body part is available to play with, grab lick and suck, etc. Also it is a great threesome position, because her head – boobs free., she can play or someone can play with her in the same time.

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My present sex friend made the suggestion that during oral sex (blow-job) I penetrate him anally with my finger. Before playtime I cut my finger nails… I lubricated my finger with the shortest nail on it. Continue Reading…

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The playtime arrived and we get into really fast. I went down on him and alternated sucking and manually pumping his cock and the mean time slowly slide my lubricated finger into his anus. He enjoyed it that much, he asked for two fingers…

He had a mind blowing orgasm. He told me, it was the kind that you feel deep inside you down to your toes.

Now I am working on my oral knowledge and thinking about to buy an anal, strap-on toy, however I don’t think he is really into receiving blow jobs… I think the anal penetration is more pleasurable for him.

What do you guys think, do you think I just waste my time to perfecting my oral knowledge? I never met a guy yet who did not like oral sex. Continue Reading…


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I actually think this might be more common than some people let on. The partner I am with in the beginning didn’t stop me when I wanted to share this pleasure with him…but he was pretty open in the fact he didn’t find them to be the end all – be all thing.

Fortunately I long to pleasure him, and took my time learning his body and responses and the things he enjoys and he is now hopelessly addicted…

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Blowjob does not do to much for me, I can live with or with out it… make no difference, but I love butt plays…

I love when my lady stimulates my anus with her finger, before enter in with a strap on anal toy. It is a very intense feeling and can be very pleasurable, but she has to be gentle and need to do it slow, otherwise can be very painfully. Continue Reading…


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My FWB told me what makes my blowjobs so great is that besides feeling good he can tell I enjoy giving him one. So I don’t think you can rule out the emotional side of any given activity.

If one partner or possibly even both don’t enjoy the experience of a blowjob, the likelihood of either making an effort to improve technique is probably slim at best.

There is a lot of discussion about anal sex here in the advice line and I think the same thing applies. If one partner or even both don’t see the pleasure in anal, you can’t tell them to keep trying and work on their technique so they then can enjoy it.

Bottom line, convey your feelings by communicating with your partner. Continue Reading…


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Actually, I’m sure your preference is shared by some men. But from my experience you are in some very rare and unique company.

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Men’s Obsession With Anal Sex at Halloween

I’ve got to come out here as a wife and say, that I have never seen the draw or sometimes obsession with anal sex as I experienced with some men recently. I mean I did not experience anal sex with men but I experienced other’s fascination to anal sex, even when we just talked about it.

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Let me explain it. We got together with few friends in a bar at the past weekend to finalize our coming up Halloween party details. It will be an erotic Halloween party in a hotel set up. As a good party organizers as we too, talked about all details, when the subject of anal sex came up.

So here we go… I have tried anal sex and didn’t enjoy it at all, to be honest neither did my husband. We thought we would and anal penetration would be as enjoyable as vaginal penetration but it did not make anything “special” other than disappointment for hubby and pain for me. We tried again few weeks after that, same results, ad than that is all our anal sex experience.

I can tell, based on the above experiences, anal sex is not for us and anal sex is something that we’ve not try in 5 years. Than on that our party organizing get together, when the subject of anal sex came up, every men eyes turned to be wild. It was crystal clean, those guys ready to penetrate any woman’s anal, opening… Why they get so excited just from talking about it?

Is anal sex something we feel we have to experience because of Halloween sex party, and there are monsters, therefore its a really good time to  sexually “torture” someone. Or anal sex, anal penetration is something “I have to do it”, because  its exposure in porn, or in a slightly more darker vein.

I think it more likely Halloween and sexual torture…  Can anal sex be seen as an act of dominance and possession if you have performed anal sex on a partner?

What percentage of heterosexual encounters include a period of anal sex?

I’ve never really understood the draw and the attraction of anal sex between straight people. Do I miss something extra pleasurable erotic thing here? Continue Reading…


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I am sure anal sex is not for everyone, but it is no longer a taboo. A lot of people into anal sex, because they like it, not because of Halloween. In fact I don’t think Halloween have anything to do with it.

Anal sex has been around since time immemorial, even before internet boom. Internet porn just popularized it to some degree. There may be a dominance component to the act with some people, but for me does not do to much.

As you, as I too, enjoy vaginal penetration more than anal sex. However I have no problem being on the “giving” end if female partner ask me to.

Anal penetration provide a slightly different sensation, because the anus is very tight. From what I’ve heard, women who like it, they claim it gives the best orgasms when done right. Continue Reading…

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I like to be anally teased mostly… I like when my man try to get it in there,  than after a lot of anal teasing he penetrates,  but not to deep anal penetration.

I must say, on this way I’ve had some very pleasurable experiences via anal play… They are far and few in between. Continue Reading…


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We both love anal sex. It is like any other sexual act, if you enjoy it and feel comfortable with it, then go for it!

Just for my two cents… Halloween Sex party or not, if you don’t enjoy anal play, it’s not “required” just because other people dressed up, like monsters.

Some people enjoy oral sex and some don’t, and it is the same with anal sex, men and women and their preferences are different. Just my thought on the subject! Continue Reading…

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We both enjoy anal sex at anytime, give and receive too, and not just around Halloween. You really need to trust your partner, before you let him in the backdoor and you have to be relaxed. If you not trust him, you are not relaxed. It is fact, you really have to be relaxed to be at the receiving end to enjoy it. If your not relaxed it can be painful.

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Everyone has their  own idea about  first date and how they first date should end. Our idea is nsa sex, preferable with mfm threesome that might turn into anal sex. But we have some problem to find willing couples lately.

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We are on an erotic adult dating website, one would think people comes here to find sex partner and or nsa sex, so they do not looking for the old fashioned romantic dating stuff  here, they want sex on the first date.

We too, not time to wait until the third date and if we find our dating partner attractive enough, she doesn’t mind anal sex. However we do have trouble to find similar couples and “quality” single men.

So our question is:  How long it takes a woman (who is into anal sex) to let a man enter in the back door?   Seriously,  what is the shortest amount of time from meeting a man to having anal sex with him? Continue Reading…

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More than 100 years… We are into anal play, with sex friend. Anal sex need trust, how can you trust someone just after few hours of meet? Also anal sex needs preparation. If I’m going to invest that kind of commitment (fasting, cleansing, etc.) I going to do it for our sex friend, not before a first date, for someone who we did not even meet yet. Thanks but not tanks. Continue Reading…


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We’ve done anal play on a first “date” or a one night stand…  I don’t do much prep. No fasting for me, I just make sure I clean back there too.

If someone want  to stick his cock up my ass, then he can get what he want, I’ve had not a single complaint about it, but it have to be okay for hubby too. Continue Reading…



According to our experience,  Middle Eastern women prefer to do anal sex before vaginal sex. I suppose  because there is no risk of pregnancy and in their home country anal sex is very popular sexual activity.

Other women prefer to get comfortable with vaginal sex prior to opening the back door, so it depends on, what the actual lady like or don’t. Continue Reading…


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Anal Sex’s Definition

According to Wikipedia, anal sex or anal intercourse is the insertion of the erect penis into a person’s anus, and rectum, for sexual pleasure.

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Oral sex performed on the anus named “anilingus” in casual sex word,  it is equal, lick tongue play with the partner’s anus.

Though the term anal sex most commonly means penile anal penetration, sources sometimes use the term anal intercourse to refer exclusively to insert the erected penis into the partner’s anus.

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People may experience pleasure from anal sex by stimulation of the anal nerve endings, and orgasm may be achieved through anal penetration, but is it not an easy orgasm.

Some men can obtain orgasm from  anal sex by indirect stimulation of the prostate. Women often rich orgasm in anal sex by indirect stimulation of the clitoris or an area of the vagina associated with the G-spot.

However, people may also find anal sex painful, sometimes extremely so, which may be primarily due to psychological factors in some cases. Like extra large penis into a tight anus causes ripping, tarring and sometimes it ends up in screaming and visit to the hospital’s emergency room.

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