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Swingers  is 12 years old, we got a lot of messages, comments, and questions in 12 years. A lot of those questions and comments are very rude and disrespectful.  We just deleted those and than some others are related to adult dating, and or swingers sex and we found them really interesting. We published some of those questions and our users responded.  Please read them at next.

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I am into men’s bellybutton and I don’t think I am a nut case.  Men’s bellybutton always turned me on, I cannot get enough of them. Touch, rub.. etc. It is so erotic. I have my greatest orgasm while naked on top of my husband’s bellybutton. I rub my pussy on his bellybutton from side to side back and fourth while he sucks my breast and OH MY GOD!!! My orgasm almost kills me, it is so intense!

Anyone ever heard of this form of sex? Or am I the only weirdo? But I love it. I can not get enough. Why? Anyone is her who know?  Continue Reading…


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You have nothing to worry about, you are not weirdo and you are not alone. A lot of people into bellybutton sex.

Belly button fetish is very common. It is typically sexual fetish where an individual is strongly attracted to the human navel, belly button. I am not sure why some people develop bellybutton fetishes, but as far as you have fun and your husband enjoy it too, I can’t see anything wrong with it.

Most navel fetishists can also exhibit varying levels of sexual stimulation in the brain just by hearing key words, “bellybutton” or “navel”. This is the explanation for your mind blowing orgasm.

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Sometimes my man gets nervous during sex and has trouble keeping it up. The worst part? If s a vicious cycle, when it happens once, he gets nervous that it will happen the next time, which of course makes it happen again. What does he want me to do when I notice him having trouble? Should I just ignore it? Continue Reading…


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You can’t ignore it. If you do, your guy will go insane worrying that you’re fantasizing about the boners of boyfriends past. So the next time he goes soft, lie beside him and say, “I can tell this really bothers you. Is there something stressing you out? Is there anything I can do differently?”

That will let him know you’re concerned about him, not disappointed in him. And it will signal that you think finding the solution can be a team effort. If he clams up, ask him to go down on you, so he’s focusing on something besides his penis.

Since you say it happens only sometimes, my guess is that ifs mental rather than physical. So think about whether those times coincide with other things going on in his life, like work stress or friction in your relation¬ship. Then, outside the bedroom, bring up the topic you suspect is troubling him and see if you and he can begin to talk it through. Knowing you’ve got his back will help him keep up his confidence during sex

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My girlfriend and I use each other for for awhile now… My problem is, I have strong and big erection when she is on top, or in anal sex, but when I get on top I feel it for a bit then I loose my erection.

I am not sure why? Her vagina is not “loose” it is a normal, flexible vagina and my penis is an average size penis, not extra large and she complains after vaginal penetration, she say I hurt her. She says I am big but really I think I am average (7 inches). Why does she hurt and how come I cant feel it that much when I’m on top? Continue Reading…


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If she hurt during vaginal penetration, than something is wrong. She should visit her doctor. Maybe it is just a mind game, maybe she just want to make you believe  your penis is to big for her, or she worries about her vagina size…

I think you loose your erection because you think you are going to hurt her, but if your  penis is  big, than anal sex should hurt and you said there is no problem in anal… I would not take a 7 inches penis in my anus… Best bet, make her see a  doctor.


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To see a doctor never is a  bad idea, also you can try different sex positions.

There are sex positions that works well with big dicks, or some others like   doggy style works even with micro penis, but if your penis is big, than don’t do her in doggy… I think she is just dry, that’s why she feel pain. Use personal lubricant, or women sex life  enhancer…  That stuff lubricates plus turns her on, makes her horny… Continue Reading…

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My hubby try to talk me into to go to a swingers club or a sex party. He said there is no commitment to do anything just go there and if we not comfortable with the happening around us, we leave.  I told him I am not sure its a good idea.

Than he said his best buddy and his wife goes there often. Than I remembered, once he stated he and his friends doesn’t really talk about sex, but then how he knows they go to swingers club…

If it is true, I think he wants to fuck his buddy’s wife that is why he try to talk me into… but now I can’t stop imagining what he’s said to his friends about our sex life. How can I find out whom he’s shared with and what he told them? Continue Reading…


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I doubt you can find that out, what he said or did he say anything about your sex life… But I think if his buddy and the wife go to the swingers club and if your husband want to have sex with his best friend’s wife and if its  okay for them, than sooner or later it will happen.

If I were you, I would tell him, okay we go, with your best friend and with his wife, but first call them over and lets talk about it, what will happen there? What for he wants to go there?  Continue Reading…

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My present sex friend made the suggestion that during oral sex (blow-job) I penetrate him anally with my finger. Before playtime I cut my finger nails… I lubricated my finger with the shortest nail on it. Continue Reading…

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The playtime arrived and we get into really fast. I went down on him and alternated sucking and manually pumping his cock and the mean time slowly slide my lubricated finger into his anus. He enjoyed it that much, he asked for two fingers…

He had a mind blowing orgasm. He told me, it was the kind that you feel deep inside you down to your toes.

Now I am working on my oral knowledge and thinking about to buy an anal, strap-on toy, however I don’t think he is really into receiving blow jobs… I think the anal penetration is more pleasurable for him.

What do you guys think, do you think I just waste my time to perfecting my oral knowledge? I never met a guy yet who did not like oral sex. Continue Reading…


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To be honest, I’ve never been a big fan receiving blow jobs

I know in our culture they are revered as this great gift/act that
all men should enjoy but I’ve never really cared for them.

Looks like your man is not alone… Is this actually common? Did I have sub-par experiences? Continue Reading…


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Everyone have their preferences in sex and in blow job too. I would say… you should try with experienced lady few more times, before you give it up… Continue Reading…


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I actually think this might be more common than some people let on. The partner I am with in the beginning didn’t stop me when I wanted to share this pleasure with him…but he was pretty open in the fact he didn’t find them to be the end all – be all thing.

Fortunately I long to pleasure him, and took my time learning his body and responses and the things he enjoys and he is now hopelessly addicted…

Perhaps there is hope there for you to find this a truly enjoyable thing as well. Continue Reading…


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Blowjob does not do to much for me, I can live with or with out it… make no difference, but I love butt plays…

I love when my lady stimulates my anus with her finger, before enter in with a strap on anal toy. It is a very intense feeling and can be very pleasurable, but she has to be gentle and need to do it slow, otherwise can be very painfully. Continue Reading…


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You are right. My man told me once: “Some girls have no idea how to give a proper blowjob. Sometimes I’d just rather be jacked off.” I guess a masturbation is better than a bad blow-job… Continue Reading…

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My FWB told me what makes my blowjobs so great is that besides feeling good he can tell I enjoy giving him one. So I don’t think you can rule out the emotional side of any given activity.

If one partner or possibly even both don’t enjoy the experience of a blowjob, the likelihood of either making an effort to improve technique is probably slim at best.

There is a lot of discussion about anal sex here in the advice line and I think the same thing applies. If one partner or even both don’t see the pleasure in anal, you can’t tell them to keep trying and work on their technique so they then can enjoy it.

Bottom line, convey your feelings by communicating with your partner. Continue Reading…


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I love giving blow jobs and my hubby loves getting them. For me, it’s wonderful and always causes me to have multiple orgasms as I take his hardness deep down my throat and end in a large explosion of hot cumm…

I then swallow every drop, while I have one final very long and strong orgasm…. A win – win here for sure. Continue Reading…


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Actually, I’m sure your preference is shared by some men. But from my experience you are in some very rare and unique company.

But just remember, there are a lot of women (myself included) that enjoy giving them. You cutting them out of that narrows the field of available playmate prospects. Continue Reading…

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I’m considering anal sex for the first time and I’m wondering if it really is pleasurable.


Are you male or female? Are you considering giving or receiving anal?


Give it or receiving, either way, anal sex is depend on the person. Some find it painful others very pleasurable. If you are going to try it, go slow.

anal three wayIt’s definitely worth a try to see if you like it or not. Do a search on here to get some tips on how to do it right and then you just have to find a sex partner, who is considering anal sex too.

If you are giving it… you don’t just stick your penis in there like you do a vagina. Be sure you use condom.

If you are receiving it… then you need even more lube. It takes lots of play and lube for it to be comfortable/enjoyable for the receiver.


Being at the giving end in anal sex anal feels great. I understand how women may be turned off by the idea completely, and if they are not comfortable with it (because they think it’s gross) you must respect that. If they don’t like it because it hurts, I think they just haven’t been pampered enough to relax and enjoy it. Diplomacy is getting someone to do what you want.

The highest form of diplomacy is getting someone to want what you want, and this apply for sex plays too.

If your partner is new to anal sex, the easiest anal sex position for her will be laying flat on her stomach or her side. If she tries her first time on her hands and knees, or with her butt in the air, there will be more resistance and discomfort for her.

First, make her cum with vaginal penetration or with oral sex. Then, give her a massage to relax her further. Massage her buns. I like to lick around the area to tease her, then rim her.

If you’re not into that, use your fingers to caress her there. Use LOTS of lube. Go very slowly. Don’t ignore the other parts of her anatomy and don’t go jamming things inside until you’ve been warming her up for a long time.

Kiss her and talk to her while you’re massaging her.

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You will need to insert fingers and larger items progressively over time: one finger, two, three, anal toy, etc. Finally, your hard penis. You can not perform anal sex with semi hard penis. You can find few anal sex positions with anal sex photos at next. You can see there how anal sex should be done.

If you have sex with the same partner often, you can massage her rectum while she’s experiencing the most intense moments of sex. If she learns to associate the massaging with pleasure, she will start to enjoy ass-play on its own.

If you are patient and persistent, going further and further each time, she may even ask you to use your penis. That’s if you’re with the same partner over an extended period.

Anyway, ask her questions like “do you like this better, or this?”

Listen to what she says.

I think it’s a very good idea to use sex toys on her to keep her other parts feeling good while you play with her ass.

Did I write listen to what she says? She will make noises that might make you think she’s not enjoying herself, so work out a safe-word beforehand so you don’t have to keep asking “are you okay?”

Go slowly. You cannot pound her like she’s a porn star, especially if it’s her first time. Plus, she’ll be squeezing you so tightly, you won’t need too go very quickly.

I like to put my fingers in her mouth while I’m doing it. Don’t be a dick about it though. Be respectful!
And don’t stick the fingers you had up her butt in her mouth or vagina!

Don’t be stupid! Use a condom!

When you finish, you can relax and she can use her muscles to push your penis out. They’re designed to push stuff out of there. If you just pull out, it may be uncomfortable for her.

You have to think about your ass, when you are considering anal sex, because she may want to play with your ass too. She let you in hers, so it’s only fair to reciprocate. It can feel pretty good if she makes sure to keep you erect via other means. If she doesn’t want anything to do with your ass, then don’t press the issue.

There is a web page with anal sex basics. You should read it before try to shovel up your dick into anyone’s ass…

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