Some people takes sex to seriously. Swingers treat sex like anything else, they do if for fun. They separate swinging sex from marital relationship and perform intercourse with others. Their primary partner do the same, for no other reason than personal satisfaction. For swingers sex is about enjoying themselves, and sometimes this sexual activity might includes anal sex too.
I do not want to talk about how can you get your wife or girlfriend to let you have anal sex with her, also I don’t want to talk about anal sex basics here, I did this at many times, but I would like to explain few facts that might let you and your partner enjoy anal sex to the max.
How should You Approach Your Partner’s Anal Opening
How do you approach your partner’s anal opening or how your partner should approach yours? Do with respect and patience. Your partner must now, you wont do anything stupid, for example stick up an eight inches long dildo in her butt hole with a fast move. That would mean a trip to the closest hospital emergency departments. Your partner have to trust you and you have to earn her / his trust by being trustworthy and patient.
I assume you have collected a lot of anal sex info, you warmed your partner butt up with your finger and or anal plug. You use a lot of of water or thinner silicon based lubricant. I assume both of you know what you do and what will come, and both of you want it badly. Also condom is a MUST, you should condomized even your small anal dildo…
Anal Sex Positions – The Missionary Position
Beginners best anal sex positions is the variation of the missionary position. The receiving partner lays on his or her back while the penetrating partner partner kneeling between the receiver’s partner legs. Lifts up the calves or shins of the receiver, exposing the anus. This can be an especially intimate position, with both partners facing each other. If the receiving partner is female, her clit is free for finger play.
Some women required vaginal stimulation to enjoy anal sex. It can be double penetration or in this position her pussy is available for finger fuck or to receive a small vibrator.
Spoon Anal Sex Position
Each partner laying on his or her side, one behind the other. This prevents the penetrating partner from going too fast, and allows complete control over penetration.
It also brings you closer to your partner, making it easier to judge his or her reactions to what you’re doing.
During anal penetration some women want to be on top to regulate how fast penetration occurs. Others like to lie on their stomachs, or crouch doggy-style. Some women enjoy being penetrated while lying on their sides. Doesn’t mutter what is her preferred position, you should take your time and use plenty of lubricant. If your partner complains that it is hurting, do not proceed until your partner is ready and comfortable.
The Best Anal Sex Position
The best positions for anal sex depends largely on what stage you and your partner are at in your experiences. Rear entry or the “doggie style” position is the position that most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate deeply, and may not be the best choice for the beginner. Doggy style position allows the anal penetration to be the deepest, and permits the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear entry doesn’t offer the kind of intimacy or ease of communication that the other positions do, but for more advanced lovers, can offer the greatest amount of thrusting and penetration.
Doggy style anal sex position is poplar erotic parties position because more men and women can play together. Even four person can serve the receiver sexual need, just to be sure she / he going to have incredible orgasm.
Sitting Anal Sex Position
Sometime this position is called “cowgirl” or rider because she rides him like the cowboy rides the cow on the rodeo. She can even jump up and down if she prefers, because she is 100% in control.
If a naked man sit on a chair or on the sofa, and his erected cock is pointing up, the lap dance can have extremely erotic riding ending. While his partner facing a way, she can lower her anal opening on to his cock, while she support herself with her arms, hold on his legs.
She transfers some of her body weight to his legs from her butt. How much weight, is depends on how hard she likes the penetration into her butt hole. She is the receiver, but she controls everything, the deepness, the speed and the angle too. He just have to sit there and enjoy the view… or he might lay down on his back and feel really comfortable, because he has nothing to do. She is going to bang him into an incredible anal orgasm.
There are many more positions and techniques to try. Many people discover new and exciting positions through experimentation, and most people find the one that best suits them. Good communication is the key to such discovery, and a manual, video or even a picture can help.
Regardless of you and your partner sex, regardless of which position you try, the important think is to use a plenty of lubricant, start slow, wait for the butt relax and accommodate. If you do it right, you and your partner going to feel sensations that you never felt before…
The thumbnails at left shows several different anal sex positions. The position are from the top to the button: At the top is is threesome combined with spoon based anal sex. She is the receiver and you can see how gentle is the anal performing male.
The second picture’s position is based on the sitting or riding anal position but on the picture he is laid down, but it wont stop her to ride on his hard male member.
The third thumbnails is missionary anal sex position in a threesome. The next is female – female – male anal performance in spoon position. The fifth picture shows a deep anal penetration from behind, doggy style, and the last one is anal sex and team work combination in sitting position.