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Some people takes sex to seriously. Swingers treat sex like anything else, they do if for fun. They separate swinging sex from marital relationship and perform intercourse with others. Their primary partner do the same, for no other reason than personal satisfaction. For swingers sex is about enjoying themselves, and sometimes this sexual activity might includes anal sex too.

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I do not want to talk about how can you get your wife or girlfriend to let you have anal sex with her, also I don’t want to talk about anal sex basics here, I did this at many times, but I would like to  explain few facts that might let you and your partner enjoy anal sex to the max.

How should You Approach Your Partner’s Anal Opening

How do you approach your partner’s anal opening or how your partner should approach yours? Do with respect and patience. Your partner must now, you wont do anything stupid, for example stick up an eight inches long dildo in her  butt hole with a fast move. That would mean a trip to the closest hospital emergency departments.  Your partner have to trust you and you have to earn her / his trust by being trustworthy and patient.

I assume you have collected a lot of anal sex info, you warmed your partner butt up with your finger and or anal plug. You use a lot of of water or thinner silicon based lubricant. I assume both of you know what you do and what will come, and  both of you want it badly. Also condom is a MUST, you should condomized even your small anal dildo…

Anal Sex Positions – The Missionary Position

Beginners best anal sex positions is the variation of the missionary position. The receiving partner lays on his or her back while the penetrating partner partner kneeling between the receiver’s partner legs. Lifts up the calves or shins of the receiver, exposing the anus. This can be an especially intimate position, with both partners facing each other. If the receiving partner is female, her clit is free for finger play.

Some women required vaginal stimulation to enjoy anal sex. It can be double penetration or in this position her pussy is available for finger fuck or to receive a small vibrator.

Spoon Anal Sex Position

anal sexAnother  good starting position is the spoons position.

Each partner laying on his or her side, one behind the other. This prevents the penetrating partner from going too fast, and allows complete control over penetration.

It also brings you closer to your partner, making it easier to judge his or her reactions to what you’re doing.

During anal penetration some women want to be on top to regulate how fast penetration occurs. Others like to lie on their stomachs, or crouch doggy-style. Some women enjoy being penetrated while lying on their sides. Doesn’t mutter what is her preferred position, you should take your time and use plenty of lubricant. If your partner complains that it is hurting, do not proceed until your partner is ready and comfortable.

The Best Anal Sex Position

The best positions for anal sex depends largely on what stage you and your partner are at in your experiences. Rear entry or the “doggie style” position is the position that most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate deeply, and may not be the best choice for the beginner.  Doggy style position allows the anal penetration to be the deepest, and permits the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear entry doesn’t offer the kind of intimacy or ease of communication that the other positions do, but for more advanced lovers, can offer the greatest amount of thrusting and penetration.

Doggy style anal sex position is poplar erotic parties position because more men and women can play together. Even four person can serve the receiver sexual need, just to be sure she / he going to have incredible orgasm.

Sitting Anal Sex Position

Sometime this position is called “cowgirl” or rider because she rides him like the cowboy rides the cow on the rodeo. She can even jump up and down if she prefers, because she is 100% in control.

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If a naked man sit on a chair or on the sofa, and his erected cock is pointing up, the lap dance can have extremely erotic riding ending. While his partner facing a way, she can lower her anal opening on to his cock, while she support herself with her arms, hold on his legs.

She transfers some of her body weight to his legs from her butt. How much weight, is depends on how hard she likes the penetration into her butt hole. She is the receiver, but she controls everything, the deepness, the speed  and the angle too. He just have to sit there and enjoy the view… or he might lay down on his back and feel really comfortable, because he has nothing to do. She is going to bang him into an incredible anal orgasm.

There are many more positions and techniques to try. Many people discover new and exciting positions through experimentation, and most people find the one that best suits them. Good communication is the key to such discovery, and a manual, video or even a picture can help.

Regardless of you and your partner sex, regardless of which position you  try, the important think is to use a plenty of lubricant, start slow, wait for the butt relax and accommodate. If you do it right, you and your partner going to feel sensations that you never felt before…

The thumbnails at left shows several different anal sex positions. The position are from the top to the button: At the top is is threesome combined with spoon based anal sex. She is the receiver and you can see how gentle is the anal performing male.

The second picture’s position is based on the sitting or riding anal position but on the picture he is laid down, but it wont stop her to ride on his hard male member.

The third thumbnails is missionary anal sex position in a threesome.  The next is female – female – male anal performance in spoon position. The fifth picture shows a deep anal penetration from behind, doggy style, and the last one is anal sex and team work  combination in sitting position.

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Choose the right partner: someone you trust, who listens to you and reacts appropriately and who cares that you have a positive experience. Get lots of AstroGlide and take your time.

Take a thorough shower first. Some like to use an enema first and then shower…. Have your partner start slow, get you turned on first and then start by inserting one finger or something small.

Be patient and take your time. Let your body adjust to a larger object before moving
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Make sure you have anal sex with someone who knows what they are doing and who is very patient. Also make sure you have the right lube they are not all the same.

Finally start of slow let the guy warm you up first use lube stimulate you, maybe use a finger first. Then when you are ready and only when you are ready let him go in slowly until you are comfortable.

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I’ve had guys enter me while I’ve been lying on my back with my legs over their shoulders,
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Both positions worked, both felt good after they let me get used to them being in there. You need to remember LOTS of lube and time. Which position is best is up to YOU!

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Well it is best to find someone you not only trust but feel comfortable with, also someone who may have some experience and are willing to take it as slow as you need.

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Anal sex for the first time

I’m considering anal sex for the first time and I’m wondering if it really is pleasurable.


Are you male or female? Are you considering giving or receiving anal?


Give it or receiving, either way, anal sex is depend on the person. Some find it painful others very pleasurable. If you are going to try it, go slow.

anal three wayIt’s definitely worth a try to see if you like it or not. Do a search on here to get some tips on how to do it right and then you just have to find a sex partner, who is considering anal sex too.

If you are giving it… you don’t just stick your penis in there like you do a vagina. Be sure you use condom.

If you are receiving it… then you need even more lube. It takes lots of play and lube for it to be comfortable/enjoyable for the receiver.


Being at the giving end in anal sex anal feels great. I understand how women may be turned off by the idea completely, and if they are not comfortable with it (because they think it’s gross) you must respect that. If they don’t like it because it hurts, I think they just haven’t been pampered enough to relax and enjoy it. Diplomacy is getting someone to do what you want.

The highest form of diplomacy is getting someone to want what you want, and this apply for sex plays too.

If your partner is new to anal sex, the easiest anal sex position for her will be laying flat on her stomach or her side. If she tries her first time on her hands and knees, or with her butt in the air, there will be more resistance and discomfort for her.

First, make her cum with vaginal penetration or with oral sex. Then, give her a massage to relax her further. Massage her buns. I like to lick around the area to tease her, then rim her.

If you’re not into that, use your fingers to caress her there. Use LOTS of lube. Go very slowly. Don’t ignore the other parts of her anatomy and don’t go jamming things inside until you’ve been warming her up for a long time.

Kiss her and talk to her while you’re massaging her.

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You will need to insert fingers and larger items progressively over time: one finger, two, three, anal toy, etc. Finally, your hard penis. You can not perform anal sex with semi hard penis. You can find few anal sex positions with anal sex photos at next. You can see there how anal sex should be done.

If you have sex with the same partner often, you can massage her rectum while she’s experiencing the most intense moments of sex. If she learns to associate the massaging with pleasure, she will start to enjoy ass-play on its own.

If you are patient and persistent, going further and further each time, she may even ask you to use your penis. That’s if you’re with the same partner over an extended period.

Anyway, ask her questions like “do you like this better, or this?”

Listen to what she says.

I think it’s a very good idea to use sex toys on her to keep her other parts feeling good while you play with her ass.

Did I write listen to what she says? She will make noises that might make you think she’s not enjoying herself, so work out a safe-word beforehand so you don’t have to keep asking “are you okay?”

Go slowly. You cannot pound her like she’s a porn star, especially if it’s her first time. Plus, she’ll be squeezing you so tightly, you won’t need too go very quickly.

I like to put my fingers in her mouth while I’m doing it. Don’t be a dick about it though. Be respectful!
And don’t stick the fingers you had up her butt in her mouth or vagina!

Don’t be stupid! Use a condom!

When you finish, you can relax and she can use her muscles to push your penis out. They’re designed to push stuff out of there. If you just pull out, it may be uncomfortable for her.

You have to think about your ass, when you are considering anal sex, because she may want to play with your ass too. She let you in hers, so it’s only fair to reciprocate. It can feel pretty good if she makes sure to keep you erect via other means. If she doesn’t want anything to do with your ass, then don’t press the issue.

There is a web page with anal sex basics. You should read it before try to shovel up your dick into anyone’s ass…

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