The question of a lot of men who try to find casual sex partner, am I big enough? Can I successfully satisfy my partner? What do women really think, about penises and casual sex? Are they bothered? What makes a perfect sex partner?
At first, the penis size is not everything. The right partner is more important than a big penis, anyone can find a good partner for casual play, if keep looking. For example if your penis is smaller than an average size penis, than you don’t contact women, who prefers big penis. If she does not talking about penis size in her profile, than you need to check her body. Tall women, whom hip is wider, more likely would prefer big penis over small.
Women whom body like a 18 years old Asian girl’s body, more likely happier with smaller penis. But the penis size is one thing, and the love making technique, is an other thing. The right penis size for the right women in the right sex position usually ends up in satisfying sex.
One of our friend was lucky enough to talk about this subject with two ladies. Their opinion on penis size somehow different, but in the mean time somehow same too.
Lady number 1. Let’s call her Ester. Ester s not her real name, but her name does not make any difference.
Let’s say she is 27 and she loves men. She lives in Florida and is a successful in her job, plus she is single. Her passion is wine and men (in that order) and she has had over thirty no commitments sex partners. So I guess she is an experienced sex partner, and experience does count in casual sex.
She said: Sex is an extremely important part of my life. I find my job very stressful, the hours are very long, sex for me is a great release of tension and stress. I don’t have time for a relationship. I don’t mind hire a male escort, but it is something that my mind keep rejecting. Sexual satisfaction for money, do not sound too good…
At work I am in a high position of power, therefore I find it a great turn on to be taken charge of a man who is really confident about himself and his body. Unfortunately many men don’t posses this kind of confidence in right package, including their penis size.
Penis size is #1 for me, which I suppose is quite sad. Recently I ran into a man who was lovely, good looking etc. but had the smallest penis I’ve ever seen. I laughed when I saw it. I planed to have sex with him, but it did not happen, because I would not enjoy it.
When he left (it happened in a hotel room) I ended up ride my vibrator. However, I have had some successes with more average men, but not very many. I suppose it makes me sound shallow but in my mind there is no point in having crap sex. I can quite happily masturbate into orgasm myself if I want too. In my experience men who are larger do make better lovers.
They possess a higher level of confidence, which alone is much more of a turn on.
A partner who is confident within themselves and their body is more likely to know what he wants and be able to satisfy me. Length is not an important factor for me, girth is. I’ll never forget a married guy, who had at least a 8 inches long penis, but it was thin almost like a pen. Unfortunately it reflected in his performance. He was a perfect playmate for anal sex, however I can’t orgasm from anal sex alone, therefore he could not make me cum with penetrative sex.
A good large girth usually means a stronger, more flexible penis. This is reflected in the length and control a man displays during sex leading to greater satisfaction. Up to a point it is what you do with it, but if you do it with a large penis the results for me are greater and leave a lasting impression.
Our second lady is Helen. She is 31, and let’s say she lives in Detroit. She is a successful business owner and lives with her boyfriend of 7 years. She talks about how their relationship has been affected by sex.
“He and I have sex together for what seems like ever. We’re very happy in the bed together. I don’t think we will get married, the idea just doesn’t appeal to us. We’re happy as we are. Not everything has all ways been so smooth though. It took along time for our sex life to be up to my standard!
When we first got into the bed, it became apparent fairly quickly that I need much more that he can give to me. This began to affect the rest of our relationship. I began to doubt myself, his love and our trust. Sometimes he simply wasn’t interested in sex at all, and and we both decided that something must be done, or our relationship would be over. We talked at great length about what the problem was.
He felt he wasn’t confident enough or big enough. I agreed he wasn’t confident enough, plus it was fact at that time, his erected penis size, or his erection wasn’t big and hard enough. Please do not miss understand me. He was big enough for an average women, but I am not average. I always loved the feeling to break a part by a big and very hard cock. With a 6 and a half inches penis he could keep happy lot of females, and make me happy too, but sometimes his erection wasn’t hard enough, therefore his penis his performance wasn’t enough for me.
He decided to take matters into his own hands and he declared that we couldn’t have sex for 4 weeks period. In this time he planed strengthen his penis, which might give him more confidence and bigger erection. He also had a delivery of pills arrive which I later found out where natural penis enhancement. At first, I do admit I had my doubts, it sounded almost sleazy and dodgy; it made me wonder, how can some pills make a penis bigger?
But, my sex life and in fact my relationship was on the line here (I kind of liked and still like the guy a big time) I was willing to try anything to prevent losing him. After 4 weeks, we resumed sexual activity. The change in him was amazing. His penis was thicker and stronger looking. This fact was reflected in his confidence level and his performance. He was a little bit bigger and a little big thicker, but he was much more confident. He gave me multiply orgasms at our first night after the break. No any men ever done this before. We took the plunge and have never looked back, and our sex life is still unbelievable.
Well, we use some outside help lately, an extra guy, but we do it because we do have erotic fantasies…
An average erect penis size is for Caucasian (white) men is estimated to be around six inches in length. Average mean, some guys have bigger penis some other’s have smaller. If you’re in latest group, than probably you worry about about your penis size in relation to your sexual performance.
As you can read at above some women love bigger penis, but the width more important than the length. Ladies don’t have a blast when their cervices rammed into, with an oversized, overly endowed hard cock. That is not fun, that is painfully. Painfully intercourse, would not help her to achieve orgasm.
In some cases smaller penis, better than an oversized. With the right combination of foreplay and erotic stimulation a man with small penis can make a woman orgasm as well as a bigger penis, or maybe even better.
You just need to know how to use it…
Before Penetrate Her: Vaginal penetration is in my mind… Great sex is more than just penetration, and most men know how important a detailed foreplay. The man with a smaller penis should pay even more attention to foreplay. He should do it until his partner asking him to penetrate him, or until his partner is fully aroused. More she turned on before the actual penetration, easier it will be for her to climax, even with small penis man.
More Focus on Foreplay: Foreplay should include everything that feel good and that your lady enjoys. Kissing and caressing are not enough. You need to do more than that. If she is into kinky sex, you can get kinky now, biting her nipples, spanking her a little and you defiantly should go down on her. Oral sex and sex toys, turns almost every women on.
The idea is, to get her into a want to have sex mood. You have to keep doing it until she begging for penetrative sex.
The Clitoris – Her Love Button: Before the actual intercourse, you should spend as much time with the clitoris as she can handle (with your tongue). The clitoris is the only human organ that sole function is sexual pleasure. The penis, besides sexual pleasure, has the tasks of urination and baby making. Therefore you have to pay a lot of attention on her pleasure – love button.
You can do this with via oral sex or with toys, or hand job, or the combination of the three. If you do it right, she will orgasm before penetrative sex, but that is okay.
Now you can penetrate her. The secret of great penetrative sex with small penis is, the right partner in the right sex position. You have to choose the position very carefully. Her orgasm depends on it…