I am a early thirties single woman, never been married and never had any long term romantic relationship, that lasted longer than 18 months. That 18 months was my record. I am not into sex on the first date, or one night stand.
Than I have a old time girlfriend, we are freind since our high school age. She is married and she and her husband are in an open marriage. In fact they are happily married, they are successful in their personal life, their own their own business, live in a beautiful house, both of them are very, attractive, deeply in love, and they also can have sex with whomever they want. I guess they are very lucky…
Anyways, we went to a Florida vacation together. They know I love parties and they know I never been in sex party… They find one. I did not want to go, but they talked me into. They said it will be an upscale sex party in a swingers club… Which made me even more nervousness…
I did not know what to wear or what not too… and try to find all kind of excuses not to go, but finally I decided and said ok…
When we got there I was slightly intimidated by how many beautiful, well-dressed people was alredy there. Many of them were already with friends or “playmates.” The atmosphere was classy, even reserved.
It was around midnight when the dresses begun to come off and not much longer than some people was going at it…
I decided to seat at the bar and ordered a drink. A guy seat next to me and we started to talk and drink and drink more and talk more. At the end both of us was fairly drunk, and no, I did not have sex on my first sex party, not even a kiss but I had a good time. I liked that man and I think he liked me too, but unfortunately we are living at the different end of US, so there will not be sex…
How was your first sex party? Was it sex less too? Continue Reading
My first sex party happened during my University age. We went to a swingers club with one friend from the same semester. He was freind, not lover.
I remember it was a Friday night and they let single guys in too. I think single guys had to pay around $50, couples $20 and it was free for single ladies.
I was not really looking for sex, but I was very curious and I told to my guy, we wont have sex, I help him to get in and after that he is free to do what ever he wants to do. When we got there, there were three females and about 15 men. Later on few more ladies arrived and much more men…
All of the women were there with men. At the first few hours it was like a night club. Just a little light and people was drinking and talking. Around midnight I saw two couples had sex, but they did it very discretely… I could only see that things were happening, but no body parts. Continue Reading
Than later a woman was getting fucked in doggie style while giving a blow job to an other man.
Than I saw a creepy old guy walking around naked with hairy back and a fairly large cock and openly looked at me. I did not like it at all and I moved a way in a quite corner.
Than a man woman couple came into the same area I was in. We started to talk and she was creped out by that old naked man too. I cracked a couple of jokes at his expense, which she must have liked. We talked for a while.
Then, she just asked me if I want to watch a xxx sex show, from close. And I watched them from very close. He was a well endowed man and he fucked her in details – anal – vaginal – several times.
I respected their space,but their sex play turned me on and could not resist… I masturbated and obtained a really big orgasm and few smaller one.
I was happy, and I think she was happy too (I do not know about him, as he never really said anything). I suspect she was an exhibitionist and she came in wanting to have a stranger watch her have sex, and she felt comfortable with me.
I do not know if I could have had sex or not, but it was cool with me. I left shortly after that.
Moral to the story…You do not need to have penetrative sex to obtain orgasm at your first sex party, you can do it yourself… Continue Reading
I’m a voyeur, but I don’t have to see a couple having sex (though it’s definitely a bonus) to get a lot of enjoyment from it.
I used to travel a lot and have stayed in many a motel and hotel and overheard couples many times. Louder women moaning made me more exciting. I would mind going to a swinger parties sometime just as voyeur.
I’m not gay at all, but would want to notice which size dick was fucking women and it would especially exciting to me if I got to compare her sounds if she did a different guy who had a different size dick.
I suppose this is some form of dick envy, or dick fetish… but it’s not something that stops me from enjoying sex and in a way it’s a positive for me as I enjoy being a voyeur. I’m no creep about it though, I don’t try to listen in on people or anything… Continue Reading
A sex party is not a dick size contest. There are small dick guys and guys with average size cocks and they are better in sex than some of the man who hang like a horse.
Not everyone into 8 inches dick… The knowledge counts more than size… Continue Reading
How many people expect sex on the first date? How many men and women expect to become intimate on the first date