I am a woman and not into couples. Not yet…

I know my post might offend someone, and I know there is not much point to post it, but being who I am… I just pissed off about people attitude and pushiness here. Some people just can’t read and or don’t bother to read my profile all the way… Continue Reading…

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Anyway, I pretty much can’t state it enough and I stated in my profile too, I don’t go to swingers club or don’t involve myself sexually with couples.

Most of the couples want women for their bisexual wives, to fulfill the husband erotic  fantasy to fuck two women or watch their wife on an other woman, to act out their “girl on girl” fantasy.

That’s cool, if the husband were bi as well or played alone with other women. It’s just mostly selfish men and the women who want to make their man happy. That kind of play is not for me. What do they want with me?

I might like to play, to fool around with a couple some day, but at this time  I want two men and myself in a form of mfm threesome. Only way you’d catch me with a straight couple is if they were really straight, for example if the woman don’t  want to fuck me with a strap on dildo and don’t want me to eat her pussy… I am not into pussy licking, I prefer dick.

If she like to watch her hubby fuck other women, that might would be okay for me, one day… We would take turns but we never play with each other. I can seat on her husband’s face and she on his dick and vice versa.

I do not fuck women, I am not unicorn, I am a straight woman who wants two men. Is it to much to ask? Why so hard to understand? Continue Reading…


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Not all wives are being pushed into bisexual encounters. Some (me included) are very willing participants. If it’s not your thing, by all means, continue restating your position to the “couples” or pushy men…

I can tell you from experience on this site, very few people actually read profiles, so just ignore those who do not match with your preferences.

There is also the issue with people not being 100% honest about sexual preferences. There are women that say “straight” on the profile, but are still willing to dabble in some form of FMF play. I’ve been with women that say 100% straight, but are okay with receiving pleasure from a woman…They just won’t reciprocate.

You can simply ignore unwanted advances or restate your preferences to them. Just don’t think ALL women are being forced into a bisexual encounter for the pleasure of their man. Some of us actually enjoy and seek the attention of other women! Continue Reading…


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I am like you, not into women. If I ever have a 3sum, will be two men. Continue Reading…

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It was my wife who first suggested we get involved in no string attached sex with others, she knew me and my ex wife were in to it.

If you go to large house parties in many cases the women are more aggressive than the men are, to find sex partners,  and it does not mean you have to have sex with women. A lot of woman into men only… No woman will push you  into unwanted pussy eating… so to say most, is not really accurate. Continue Reading…


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Until you actually go to a swingers sex parties, you don’t know anything about them, nor why they are on here.So why complain if you never tried?

Shouldn’t jump to unfounded conclusions, like being forced to do anything with another woman. It can happen, but it is not a common swingers sex party practice.

You should try it, I am sure you will find two willing men to fulfill your threesome fantasy. Continue Reading…

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I have an erotic fantasy. I want to see my wife fucked by another man, so I need to tlak about it… otherwise it will stay fantasy forever

Our fantasy is more then a MFM threesome. Eventually it would go to have sex with multiple male partners and nothing will ever happen  if we do not talk about it…

Recreational sex & single men

Are you a single man and looking for a lady  to have casual sex with?

Horny, open minded women, swingers women are everywhere. Even in your neighborhood. You do not believe me? Join now, get a free membership and check them out yourself!

Single Guys & Casual Sex Relationship. Single men & swinging

Single men often wonder why it is so hard for them to get into the swinging scene. It is simple, swinging is couples games. Sorry to say this but it is fact 95% of swingers are couples. Most of them are married. They do not need complication in their life, they do not looking any emotional attachment. Just fun recreational sex as an enhancement to an already healthy primary relationship. For most of them friendship and erotic chemistry is very important. They are very selective about with who they will share their sex life.

Therefore if you are a single guy and you are looking for recreational sex only, you might end up better if you try to find a open minded lady, who is looking for the same… Sex partner to have recreational sex or casual sex relationship. However if you really want to get into the swinging lifestyle, there are many ways…

Bisexual Swinger Women

A high percentage of female swingers are bisexual. Fewer men are openly bisexual but that is gradually changing. Couples generally seek other couples. Couples with a bi female often seek another couple with a bi female, or a single female. This benefits both the man & the woman. Therefore, fewer couples seek to add a second male unless it’s something the woman wants or they are seeking a bi male. As far as married men playing discreetly without the wife, very, very few couples will accept that. Cheating is something that is very contrary to the concept of swinging.

Swinger Couples & Single Men

Probably you already know that, not to many couples looking for single men, and in fact not to many swingers club let single men in to their dances. Clubs who do let single men in, they do it for money. Single men have to pay a hefty entry fee. In clubs like this will be a lot of guys and just few ladies. However some couples seek extra men. Some couples interest in three or more some, gang bang or the husband just like to watch his wife during sexual act and maybe he’ll later participate in too. If you are looking for something like this, it wont be easy but as I wrote it above, it can happen.

Probably you already heard that, “Looking for couples and select single men”. Select means that you must be clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered. If you’re not all of these things this is not for you. If you are a nice, clean, polite guy and if you really working hard to get into the lifestyle, sooner or later, with a lot of luck, you might succeed.

You best chance is, try to find older married couple by browse the Internet. I am not talking about grandma age, a mid or late forties couple can be your best starting point. One important think to understand about couples (and women) who are in this lifestyle, is that every couple plays for this a reason. And this reason is not depends on their age. They swinging for their own personal enjoyment, not yours. They wont entertain you, you have to entertain them. Some of them are interested only in other couples, some of them looking for women only, some others just like the atmosphere and like to watch and to be watched. Also as I stated at above middle aged or older couples often like to play with single men, (this is where you might come in).

Why middle aged or older? Because middle aged couples relationship is very strong, they know each other very well, they might play together for longer time. They not jealous and they know swinging will not destroy their marriage.

Few tips for you how can you start

All couples have a set of rules by which they play, and vary little from those rules. Don’t try to change them, it won’t work and you will appear pushy. Be a gentleman, a classy guy. Just because a woman like to have sex, doesn’t mean she appreciates vulgar language or suggestive remarks. Good manners and social skills are more important here than anywhere else. Be yourself, be real and socialize. Talk with the husband too, try to build a friendship with him. Remember, if he doesn’t like you then you’re not getting anywhere with his wife. Take your time and don’t be in a hurry. It the play time comes, they will let you know, when is the time right to take the next step.

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