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Swingers  is 12 years old, we got a lot of messages, comments, and questions in 12 years. A lot of those questions and comments are very rude and disrespectful.  We just deleted those and than some others are related to adult dating, and or swingers sex and we found them really interesting. We published some of those questions and our users responded.  Please read them at next.

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I am into men’s bellybutton and I don’t think I am a nut case.  Men’s bellybutton always turned me on, I cannot get enough of them. Touch, rub.. etc. It is so erotic. I have my greatest orgasm while naked on top of my husband’s bellybutton. I rub my pussy on his bellybutton from side to side back and fourth while he sucks my breast and OH MY GOD!!! My orgasm almost kills me, it is so intense!

Anyone ever heard of this form of sex? Or am I the only weirdo? But I love it. I can not get enough. Why? Anyone is her who know?  Continue Reading…


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You have nothing to worry about, you are not weirdo and you are not alone. A lot of people into bellybutton sex.

Belly button fetish is very common. It is typically sexual fetish where an individual is strongly attracted to the human navel, belly button. I am not sure why some people develop bellybutton fetishes, but as far as you have fun and your husband enjoy it too, I can’t see anything wrong with it.

Most navel fetishists can also exhibit varying levels of sexual stimulation in the brain just by hearing key words, “bellybutton” or “navel”. This is the explanation for your mind blowing orgasm.

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Sometimes my man gets nervous during sex and has trouble keeping it up. The worst part? If s a vicious cycle, when it happens once, he gets nervous that it will happen the next time, which of course makes it happen again. What does he want me to do when I notice him having trouble? Should I just ignore it? Continue Reading…


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You can’t ignore it. If you do, your guy will go insane worrying that you’re fantasizing about the boners of boyfriends past. So the next time he goes soft, lie beside him and say, “I can tell this really bothers you. Is there something stressing you out? Is there anything I can do differently?”

That will let him know you’re concerned about him, not disappointed in him. And it will signal that you think finding the solution can be a team effort. If he clams up, ask him to go down on you, so he’s focusing on something besides his penis.

Since you say it happens only sometimes, my guess is that ifs mental rather than physical. So think about whether those times coincide with other things going on in his life, like work stress or friction in your relation¬ship. Then, outside the bedroom, bring up the topic you suspect is troubling him and see if you and he can begin to talk it through. Knowing you’ve got his back will help him keep up his confidence during sex

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My girlfriend and I use each other for for awhile now… My problem is, I have strong and big erection when she is on top, or in anal sex, but when I get on top I feel it for a bit then I loose my erection.

I am not sure why? Her vagina is not “loose” it is a normal, flexible vagina and my penis is an average size penis, not extra large and she complains after vaginal penetration, she say I hurt her. She says I am big but really I think I am average (7 inches). Why does she hurt and how come I cant feel it that much when I’m on top? Continue Reading…


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If she hurt during vaginal penetration, than something is wrong. She should visit her doctor. Maybe it is just a mind game, maybe she just want to make you believe  your penis is to big for her, or she worries about her vagina size…

I think you loose your erection because you think you are going to hurt her, but if your  penis is  big, than anal sex should hurt and you said there is no problem in anal… I would not take a 7 inches penis in my anus… Best bet, make her see a  doctor.


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To see a doctor never is a  bad idea, also you can try different sex positions.

There are sex positions that works well with big dicks, or some others like   doggy style works even with micro penis, but if your penis is big, than don’t do her in doggy… I think she is just dry, that’s why she feel pain. Use personal lubricant, or women sex life  enhancer…  That stuff lubricates plus turns her on, makes her horny… Continue Reading…

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My hubby try to talk me into to go to a swingers club or a sex party. He said there is no commitment to do anything just go there and if we not comfortable with the happening around us, we leave.  I told him I am not sure its a good idea.

Than he said his best buddy and his wife goes there often. Than I remembered, once he stated he and his friends doesn’t really talk about sex, but then how he knows they go to swingers club…

If it is true, I think he wants to fuck his buddy’s wife that is why he try to talk me into… but now I can’t stop imagining what he’s said to his friends about our sex life. How can I find out whom he’s shared with and what he told them? Continue Reading…


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I doubt you can find that out, what he said or did he say anything about your sex life… But I think if his buddy and the wife go to the swingers club and if your husband want to have sex with his best friend’s wife and if its  okay for them, than sooner or later it will happen.

If I were you, I would tell him, okay we go, with your best friend and with his wife, but first call them over and lets talk about it, what will happen there? What for he wants to go there?  Continue Reading…

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If you are a student or single adult who work full time, there is one thing that you should know. There is no time for anything these days. It takes all you can do to make ends meet, let alone find a compatible  lover or NSA play mate.

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The trend these days is to find a temporary NSA sex partner. Someone you can spend some of your free time with, but not feel like you have to dedicate your whole life to. I do not want to get very kinky here, but this is fact. This is part of our every day’s life.

This kind of nsa sex relationship becoming popular among professional women. They have needs, but not enough time to per sue a long term relationship. There can be many benefits of a no string attached sex relationship. Some people call it casual sex relationship. Yes, sex can produce great benefits. If both of you are comfortable with the idea of having sex, no commitment just sex only.  NSA relationship is basically all about quality sex. Continue Reading…

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I know what you are thinking, “Its all about the sex”. That really isn’t true. I mean yes, sex is great with someone when there is no strings attached to it. Nothing is more satisfying than being able to please yourself and your partner without having to worry about her bitching about the trash that needs taken out afterwards. Everyone needs a companion.

Everyone needs someone to hug and maybe not only for hug. We all need to feel attractive and feel that we are worth something to someone. I like to think of this as a no committed relationship.

You are there when there is a need, if the other person needs someone to talk to, and to full fill both of your sexual needs. It is like being in a relationship without all the nagging and other responsibilities that you have. There is no need to worry about her bills or putting food on her table, or her having to worry about doing your laundry or taking care of the house. Continue Reading…

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There are potential dangers of nsa sex relationships like this though. Sometimes people may begin to mistake sex for love and sometimes they fell in love.

But when play time comes, things might changes.

For example during oral sex she could suck a golf ball through a straw. After awhile you begin to feel comfortable with her and you come to expect “blow job”. Then after awhile you fall in love with how her ass looks like a heart when she bends over, and it is all down hill from there.

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This is true with women as well. They begin to feel comfortable in bed with a partner and then they mistake lust for love. They enjoy the pleasure that you are able to give them, when your time comes to go down on her, they think it is love. They wrong, you just love to spend time down there, you love to eat her pussy and if this make her happy… Why not?

However the only thing you are thinking about after you have sex with her, how weird the sex position was, and how can you make it better next time. Continue Reading…

The problem starts when she starts to think about a house and work after sex. That smells like a long term romantic relationship.

Be careful, casual relationship often turns into long term relationships. Sex is good, you don’t want to ruin a good thing, right? Why would you turn a hot chic or a great guy down for a lonely time with you for your bottle of hand lotion or for your vibrator on a Saturday night?

These types of relationships are never good ones to per sue long term. They tend to end abruptly and cause a lot of pain. Every experienced men and women knows what I am talking about.

At once one of my friend was involved with a hot university student. She had the greatest ass in a city. The sex was great and they had a good time together. She was the best thing that ever happened with my friend. She did not need anything from him, he just had to bang her. Probably he was pretty good in the bed, because she fell in love with him. It was no longer just sex for her, but he was now her boyfriend. Continue Reading…

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That was news to him! He got tired of her and finished the relationship. All he wanted was some no string attached sex with a sex friend, and she wanted the same at the beginning. She told to him several times, she doesn’t want to get into long term relationship. She said  men and love doesn’t match with her carrier.

But things turned around big time. My friend banged her big time and she wanted him to be her husband. Her carrier wasn’t important anymore. She claimed ownership over his  dick and she just wanted to ride him all the time. She wanted him to take care of her while she sat on her ass all day doing nothing else just learning. That wasn’t my friend’s dream. Continue Reading…

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After it was all over she became a wreck and started stalking him. She told him how she loved him and how good they are together. She caused a lot of headache for my friend.

He loved her ass, her perky boobs and her shaved genital. There was nothing more to it than that. She spent years chasing him and making his life a living hell. She ruined his dating life. What woman wants to be with a man who has a crazy ex girlfriends who hunts him down and bothers him at all the time, when try to go out with someone.

Finally she finished the university, got a good job offer and moved a way.

Sex is great and nsa sex can greater, but even if it is the greatest ever you have to end it in a timely manner or you have to  face the consequences.

So don’t full around to long with the same person- only – if is absolutely necessary. Continue Reading…

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I born to be hot wife, that is why I love hotwifing

I had always though that Hot Wife was just another nick name but the older I get the more I can see how we were all animals with our own make up and there is certainly some one for all of us.

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I know hot wife or hotwife, maybe hotwifing is a sexual role play. It took a life time of craziness and drama for us both (my husband and I) to realize and accept our roles. It took us around ten years. I was 22 and knew my husband casually through a night club I was a waitress at.

Phil was 37 and part of the evening local crowd. Nothing like “Cheers”
the “Wizards Den” was a block from Texas Tech University. A young college crowd along with the owner LB and his circle of friends that included Phil. He had graduated and taken his bar exam and in limbo waiting for the process.

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I never thought of myself as attractive woman but  learned early what men liked about me. Working at bar – night club I screwed the owner to get the best shift and all the other perks.

Being single in the bar I was hit on constantly by the patrons. I found myself going home with a lot of the local guys never letting any of them get to close. Life was crazy and sex was the crux of it.

I screwed the guy that owned the car dealership to get a good deal on a car. Then I screwed the banker to get a loan.

These were older men that all knew each other and hung out at the bar and believe it or not I like a Queen with respect and kindness from everyone.

It wasn’t uncommon for me to of been with five of the guys in the bar at some point or another. I loved sex,  even group sex.

To make the long story shorter I skip few things here, however you can read the entire story (and yest it is a true story) attached to my profile at here.

I am married now and my husband is one of the regulars from the bar. So we are now a couple and settle into life in Arizona. I have always been lucky and landed a job with the local power company making good money.

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Our sex life was incredible he would never fuck me until after I had climaxed in his mouth and we fucked like rabbits everyday. The lust level was over the roof. Through Phil I met everyone in town. I was good
and we did well for a couple of years. Then my next downfall I got my Real Estate licence. I knew everyone and found myself very popular again in a new career.

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So a few months I’m doing very good selling houses and my boss invites the office out for drinks. It was a Friday night and I was invited out with the boys for cocktails. I was so proud of my achievements. Hubby had worked late and decided not to join us. He called getting more angry as the night went on as I was well on my way to get real drunk.

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When the bar closed I couldn’t drive so my boss offered to take me back to the office so hubby could pick me up. Plastered and alone with my boss I couldn’t help but make myself available for him. We made out and he was fucking me on his desk when I heard a pounding at the front door. I know it is my husband. I know it was totally unfair to him. He was so angry I was afraid to go with him and told him my boss would drop me off.

The life was great, I had a lot of sex with powerful men, the fire-chef and the police chef, the bank manager and car lots owner… Of course the humour was flying in the town and my husband knew my pass and he knew there is something going on.

This was when Swingers came around and talking
with my husband we decided to be “swingers“. I wanted him to feel
as good about sex as I did and found woman after woman for him to repay him for my dishonesty. Incredibly I was very jealous of every woman he saw afraid he might want to run away with one.

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It really hit home for me then, but as nature would have it we started having mfm threesomes. He enjoys watching me get pleasured and I was willing and wanting to please him. He enjoyed seeing the other men get excited with his Hot Wife and most of our meetings became threesomes.

We were both very happy having sex with sex friends. Turns out he wanted to invite a few of his close friends to fuck me with him and I made it as special as I could. He would even set up gang bangs with strangers so he could see me do it.

He would watch 4 or five strangers fuck me and we would be incredibly
close afterwards as he came in my well fucked abused pussy. He liked
me how I am, we were just so hung up on what others thought.

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He would take me on spring break in Mexico where the college boys would egg me on to dance topless. He encouraged me to fuck men on the stage as he watched from a both with a cute Mexican whore sucking his cock.

I guess our entire life has pretty much revolved around casual sex and still does. Can’t think of anything better. I know it’s just my genetic make up but I can’t understand why I truly enjoys sex with multiple men or women.

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Extreme no string attached sex at New Years Eve

What do class as extreme sexual activity in no string attached sex? I red a blog post one one website, that is related to this website and it made me think.  The message poster talked about extremes in sex.

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As I red the post, the question was born in my mind? What do you consider as extreme sexual activity in no string attached sex?

I think I may possibly would be the worst swinger in the world, that is why we (my husband and I) never go to any swingers’ club or swingers party. It does not mean we do not like sex and casual sex.

In fact for me, extreme  sex means another man’s cock inside me with hubby’s cock. That’s where the boundary is. I will play with others, together with my husband and both of us  love it… This is what some may view as extreme sex play, but if I take a cock from other man, that happens with my husband’s help only.

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Together he and I have explored nearly all aspects of our bodies and our sexuality. We both leave ourselves open to whatever ideas each other may have and with mind blowing results.

While we do love to have a little pain and pleasure, we have never played this way with anyone else and we don’t really want to share that side of us physically with others.

I love to be touched with more than two hands at the same time, thankfully we love to touch each other, but he have only two hands, so we need help….

The sensuality starts with erotic touch and might continues through to rich orgasms.

Sometimes we can’t have orgasm without penetrative sex, but that is hard with lovers who do rush things… Husband  knows how and where to touch me or even look at me and he makes sure our sex plays are always  satisfying enough.

So what do you consider as extreme casual sex? For example celebrate New Years Eve with yoou husband and two other men, and have sex with all… Would it be extreme?

I just would like to know what others think about extreme in nsa sex.

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Nothing about sex is extreme. You do whatever you and your husband and sex partner like, and meets with your limits.

However, nsa  sex without penetration seems short of most people goals here. Not sure if there are many person that would  participate in this kind of New Years Eve celebration.

It is like “watchers” in the swingers club, they are free to watch and have sex with their own partner, or free to watch and masturbate if he is a single man. This does not consider as extreme. It is just “watcher”.



I think that if you and the person you are with,  having a good time its fine.  What would make it extreme?

Well with some partners its a little spanking, with another its anal penetration, yet another considers nothing short of her and 4 cocks as extreme!

I love it all as long as it doesn’t hurt.  I think there are loads of different ways to have sexual pleasure and that none of them are actually extreme if they are fun! However the time, I mean the fact you want to spend New years Eve with tree men, that would not be extreme. Just because of New Years Eve, that would make it a New Years Eve more some or orgy.

For me it would be extrema sex, if they tide me up, blindfold me and would use every possible hole on my body on all kind of kinky ways… That would be extreme and I am not sure I would be into anything like that.

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Extreme in sex and or extreme in casual sex have nothing to do with New Years Eve.

Extreme to one person might not be Extreme to another. It is all in the way you look at it, not on the reason why you have nsa sex.


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After long hesitation, in one of my weak moment I decide let the users know my kinky nsa sex happenings… After months if not years of being hesitant and curious about random nsa sex encounters but too nervous to try it, I finally went for it… Continue reading…

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At first I got premium membership than contacted several “very appealing” guys, than I had  the (THE) most incredible sexual experience with a sweet, clean, nice-smelling, huge cocked, gorgeous guy, who was an incredible nsa sex partner.

The bad thing in the good sex was… He was married, however I wanted nsa not long term, so that was okay.. We went in motel (he paid) and was out  4 hours later.  There was no   no hassle, no mess, both of us knew why we are int that hotel. He was appreciative, but segued perfectly into really rough, domineering sex, which is what I was craving.

By the way in that 4 hours I had about four big orgasms and several smalls. I never experienced anything like this before. With all my previous sex partners  I had hard tine to obtain orgasm once… not several times. Continue reading…

So I got into the “fuck me hard” mood….My second meeting with an other  guy was way more intense. He took my request for rough sex to mean full-on rape scenario with choking, spanking, hair-pulling, name-calling, but he gave me little cues during that let me know it was all an act. It pushed my comfort levels to the max, but it was cathartic.

I’m starting to think this erotic dating website is  is like a Chinese buffet, all you can have, like as a 24-hour menu for any kind of specific kink I can think of, but I don’t want to get too cocky, but I love this website…

What about you? What are you looking for? Di you find it? Continue reading…


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I don’t know I guess I’ve been lucky. I met my current kinky boyfriend here too and things have worked out great with him so far.

We played with single men and women too, but decided to go further…

He and I have been searching for couples now to join us both online and in real life. While our search for couples is fairly new we’ve already found a kinky couple that seem like really nice people and are both into kink and consent much the way we are.

We haven’t met them yet but we’ve been sending long messages back and forth and so far every thing’s been great. They’re basically like the kind of people we’d be friends with and play with sometimes as well. Continue reading…

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We are not that lucky… We are looking for a well hung single guy to play with us. Our profile shows it clean, we are looking for  mfm,. I the wife wanting to find a nice huge penis to worship with my mouth and then take deep inside me…

Maybe I will go for a double penetration, but on the first meeting… but every other woman and couples seems to be looking for that as well.

Find a nice, clean, polite and well hung single guy, who willing to play with a married couple, is not simple at all. Continue reading…

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