Any other ladies run into this? Several times now I have connected with men on here. We email, set up a meet and then I get “Sorry work emergency, or something has come up”. The meet never seems to happen.
The latest is a guy that I have been chatting with. We were supposed to meet last weekend and yes, something came up. It was all set for this weekend, tonight in fact and he still had not confirmed the meeting place.
He then sends me a note to say, sorry, emergency with a client and now has to fly to New York to work things out.
Hmmmmmm considering he told me he worked for a University in administration, either
he lied about his job or is lying about this.
Either way, I feel blown off again!!! Is it me or are these guys just players, once they get you hooked, they then blow you off. Is it all about the chase?? Or am I truly that gullible? Continue Reading…
Some people are just all head games. Believe me, not just males, a unfortunately a lot of females do the same. They don’t even bother to call you to let you know “something came up” and can’t make it.
Male or female doesn’t matter… some guys are just testing the water… They just want to know what will happen if they leave their present relationship. Some others just chicken out when the talk is over and time to do something else…
But I think a lady like you, sooner or later will find a guy or even more guys to have some erotic fun with… Continue Reading…
This sort of thing only happened to me once. I actually was emailing a guy for months, and we were finally supposed to meet.
On the very day of the arranged meeting, he called me up and said, “I’m really sorry, but last night I meet a woman on-line whom I consider more attractive than you, so I decided to see her today instead of you.”
There’s nothing like honesty, but there is such a thing as brutal honesty. He could have said he decided to go back with his ex, and it wouldn’t have bothered me. But, the way he canceled our date made me feel horrible.
Then again, it was a good thing I didn’t meet him because he probably wasn’t that attracted to me in the first place.
These kinds of things can happen, and perhaps in your case it’s because your profile says you are separated.
There are some men who are hesitant to become involved with a woman who is separated. I know it’s frustrating but, if it keeps on happening, you need to ask yourself if you are doing something to cause men to back out.
Are you expressing neediness? Do you seem too eager to meet? When you haven’t met someone yet, it’s always best to be enthusiastic, but not overly so. Continue Reading…
It happens to us guys as well . It happened to me twice in a row by the same girl.
Don’t give up though. I recently hooked up with someone and it was well worth going through a few duds to find one firecracker… Continue Reading…
Anybody can bluff their way half way through a game but once asked to show his real hand of cards of who he really is an what they really after, they will either fold or get up an walk away it never fails.
They either have somebody else they are with, married/attached or too many other men and or women they dealing with, and you are at the bottom of their list.
Just you have to try an toughen up and be more direct an aggressive when talking to somebody. Don’t be afraid to ask certain basic questions and see how they act or answer, if something seems off or funny about them there usually is something wrong or they have so many skeletons in the closet, the door barely closes anymore.
For example ask them what they like and what they don’t… or how do they feel about spending time with a woman, in the bed and beyond the bedroom.
You can ask kinky question is. It is an erotic dating site not a church, so don’t be shy…
You got to remember, to much talk wont help, couple of emails, phone calls or webcaming and action time. If you guys emailing back and fore for weeks… it want work.
Actions always speak louder then words in a email… Continue Reading…
A lot of men on here are just chicken.
They chicken out when time comes to face and taste a horny woman’s pussy… Continue Reading…
I’ve been momentous interruption…. or canceled a few times, but in my case it might happen for a different reason…
I think it was because they knew I was a hermaphrodite, and got scared… before they wondered how my genital area looks like, than when the time came to show… they chickened out. Continue Reading…
Sometimes shit happens but if it happens more than twice, you will know the guy is an unreliable jackass.
Just move on, its not you hon, sometimes people just have commitments at the wrong time and cant make it. Some other time, they are just chicken… and chicken out from pussy…. Continue Reading…
Yep, it happens to most of us..
I had a guy whom I had already had one date with arrange a second date but didn’t show up. Later that night I got a text message from his phone saying it was his mate letting me know he had had an accident. I asked work or car? He replied work.
Next day said guy text-ed me again, asking can we reschedule? I asked how he was and was he injured at work?
He said no in a car accident… So yesterday work accident, today car accident. What a fuck… He was a lier, so needless to say he was bullshitting, and didn’t get a second date. Continue Reading…
Haven’t happened to me yet…. that way, but something similar did happen.
I met with a guy on-line. He live at the other end of US. We IM-d and chat a lot. I would say, based on those chats we would be very good match…
He promised to fly to jkt to meet me, but he never arrived.. Hehehe.. I knew it wont happen… no men is that stupid… to fly 15 hundred miles for a fuck… Even it that fuck would be an all weekend fuck fast… Sometimes just have to get real here. Continue Reading…