What makes casual sex so attractive for married couples?

Married couples try casual sex and they might end up in a swingers club. Why? What is about swinging that keep married couples share their marital sex life with others?

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No string attached sex can be fun and pleasure, with other words casual sex a  lot of erotic fun, if done properly.

Oh, you are not married, you are single, but you are here to find a man woman couple for nsa sex.  It might happen, but it takes time, however before you get into this “lifestyle”, you should  know few things.  The most important is; What you should expect if you find that couple?  Keep reading and you will find it out based on our experience.

When a man – woman couple get into casual sex, usually they try to find an other couple or a extra partner. The gender of that partner depends on their preferences and on their erotic fantasy.  If their first  nsa sex experience turn to be a positive, then they might try few more times. If they want more,  they might end up visit swingers clubs.  People go to swingers club for the same reason, which is, to have sex…

New couples usually into no string attached sex plays  2 – 3 years and then they take a break. In a lot of cases this break is the end of their shared or nsa sex play, however if they get back into the lifestyle, then they will stay for many more years.

I, as a male part of the couple don’t know for sure why women love to have sex with different men,  so I can’t tell you that, you better ask my wife. But I know why I love it, but its bring up  another question that I should talk about first.

The question is; Why does married men loves other women’s pussy?

It is simple, boring marital sex life, fun factor, more experienced woman, safe sex and 80% of sexually active men always want new pussy. The rest of them, that 20% want it too, but they lie about it, even for themselves.   New toys, new pussy… I guess its men’s things.

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We as a couple got into casual sex because the sparks disappeared from our  marital love life.  Our relationship was and is in secure and we love each other more then ever, but sex was not the same anymore.  Love making became dirty work. We knew, we need to make some changes, to bring those sparks back into our bedroom. So we tried nsa, we loved it, in fact ever since we are loving it.

The basic idea originate from my wife. Once upon a time,  one night we talked about everything at the front of the TV, include our neighbor.  She was a divorced lady and she had a lover, half of her age. Than my wife said something like, she was wondering how sex would be with a man who is young enough to be our son.  We have no child, our business was more important then children, so there is no ethical question if and what will happen if our children finds it out…

Anyways, I told to her, you never gonna find it out, if you never try… She agreed, she said you are right, I never going to find out. But no one can predict the future… The subject like a ghost kept come back again and again, usually when the neighbor’s lover’s car parked on her driveway. Than one day I told to her she should find a  willing young man. She said she doesn’t think I can handle it, well I wasn’t sure how will I handle it, but I told to her we will find out if time comes…  However there was one condition, I want to be there in the same room, I want to see all.

Than she agreed she will try, so we registered to this adult dating website and started our search.  Even though there are more men the women here, its not easy to find the right man. We had hours of video chat and more than few coffee dates, and months passed by and nothing happened, the guys did not show up for the second date.  Than we changed our tactic, video chat, coffee date and if there is some attraction,  we go to a hotel room. It started very promising,  but the first guy could not get it hard. The second blow his load before he got naked…

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Than we found a man. A young guy, 15 years younger than my wife,  he hold university degree, he is very polite, easy going, we can talk about anything and everything with him and for bonus, he was and he is a good sex partner. Our casual sex journey began with him. We developed a sex friendship with him, in fact he introduced his girlfriend to us  and let me tell you, I thought his girlfriend have the sweetest pussy that I ever tasted…  Our friendship is still ongoing, we still get together every now and than, but we and they play with others too.

Than we ended up in a swingers club, and my wife had sex with two men in a hotel room after the club hours. That was very erotic, I love to see her while being pleased by two men at the same time. Of course I had my share of fun too, somehow always is the latest pussy is the best pussy.  When I see my beautiful wife, while other man’s hard cock dug deep into her love tunnel, and I play with that man’s wife or partner, it always makes me want more pussy.  It always makes me teenager again,  its something like you are teenager again and you can perform better and more and teenagers don’t need Viagra… Plus as time goes  quantity replaced by quality, because of experience, so nsa sex made me a better lover.

There is nothing better than watch my wife during sex. Its always turn me on. I love to see her erect nipple in other guy’s mouth, I love to see her moaning with pleasure as sliding up and down other man’s erected shaft. Between two intercourse a big turn on for me, just to see her entertain or being entertained by one or two men, its always give me a hard on.

But there are many other reason, for example, for a mfm threesome you need two men and a woman.  Continue reading…

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The thing is, we don’t really need an adult dating website to arrange a MFM threesome, but it’s easy here, because it is a nsa sex dating website…. so men women and couples comes here for the same reason, which is no string attached sex.

Also many people, singles and couples too, have an ample supply of open minded people locally… friends from swingers clubs or fuck buddies. Those people come here to find things that they are missing, not more of what they already have.

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I am into being the extra guy in MFM threesomes, but have noticed most couples only want an extra girl.

I had always wondered how much of the mans input had been put into this part of the profile. I’d love to know how many of the couples profiles out there with girls only are controlled by the guy!

Since to me it is like: Yes honey, we’re swinging, but you’re getting no one else but me!!

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We are (you and I) looking for the same thing and I do not have hard time to find a couples to play with. I am don’t say it happens every weekend, but it does happen every know and then. However I am living in Canada, not in India like you… so I am not sure why men don’t want to share their sweetheart with you in India.

If you have hard time, to find competitive couple to play with, I have a solution for you. Find a girl, then look an extra guy and you will have your MFM threesome. I guaranty it will work…

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Frustrating, isn’t it? My few male friends also only want FMF threesomes, but it’s harder to find a woman who’s willing to play with a couple than a man!

I checked out your profile, and I didn’t see anything in there about wanting an MFM threesome. Maybe you should put this in your profile?

I receive offers from guys all the time regarding MFM threesomes, but my male friends don’t want to play with another man!

They just don’t want the competition! So, I’m always on the lookout for women for FMF threesomes, but I hardly find any women who are willing to play with me and a man.

The bi women I meet usually want younger couples, or they’re part of a couple looking for other couples.

I enjoy FMF threesomes, but I wouldn’t mind a guy for a change (of course, someone closer to my age – lol).

I’m sure you’ll eventually find a couple who’s looking for another man. You seem to have a lot to offer a couple.

Have you tried joining a swinger’s group in India? They sure have enough groups here in the US. My problem is that I’m definitely not a swinger! Good luck to you!

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Sadly, this sometimes is the way it happens. Not in all cases, I’m sure, because I have personally been involved with two men who thought along those lines.

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I am not sure what the situation in India. I think you should ask a local couple, why they don not share sex…

However here, around my neighborhood…. What you describe is what I call “newbies”,
they are often inexperienced or young couples, often with the man leading, and thinking that another woman is less threatening.

Here in Canada, there are lots of experienced couples looking for MFM, and looking for the “right” kind of man to join. I can’t speak for India, though.

One thing on your profile is a total turn-off for an experienced couple:
“I am straight”. That’s a clear code for “I am afraid of having another penis touch me and I will have performance issues in a group setting, and I’m sensitive and whiny too.”

Take a look at some of my photos – if you’re not prepared to have your cock touch another man’s cock, well, then…

Experienced couples will look for an experienced man with lots of testimonials. See maallen40 or whiskeyriver (on my page) or islandman37 for the type of men who will be very successful with couples.

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Finding partners for a threesome, whether male or female hasn’t been a problem for us. But finding the “Golden Goose” a couple that we can play with is rare, but we aren’t in India.

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Funny, we have no issues with MFM and we like them and want them. I am into doubled penetration too and with one man, you can’t have double… or you have to use a toy, but that is not the same.

We want a FMF threesomes too, not because as several people have assumed he is scared to have his penis near another man, but we both would like to play with a lady.

We have found through trial and error that having only couples and ladies on our profile as what we want/are looking for that we get far more hits from the ladies that way.

Having sex in a group setting with another couple I can say there are no issues there for either one of us. And having sex with my husband, while I sucked another man’s cock
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According to the author the next story just happened with him, last Saturday, which was Easter’s Saturday.

He stated, he changed the names and twisted the story line a little bit. However it is his work and it is copyrighted by him. He is not a professional writer, he is just an every day’s hard working man like you or me…

All rights reserved. If you have any related questions, you can contact me by email,  twoj2006-jj at yahoo.com. Thank you for your consideration.

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My wife Terry and I are “confirmed” swingers. Through our 8 years of marriage sex became boring. We wanted to spice marital sex up, wanted to expand our horizons and started to swing. Since that time we have great sex with each other again, just like we used t have in our teen years.

Every now and then we go to the local swingers club or search the Internet to find willing couples or bi sexual ladies to play with us. Today, Easter’s Saturday we invited one of my wife x – schoolmate to the club. Over there not much happened, it was kind of slow and a boring night, there was only few couples. I guess people busy with family at Easter time… We had nothing better to do, so we played, flirted with each other. However everything changed when we got to our place.

We hardly got in the house and we were already in the  playing mood. I eased Terry’s (Terry is my wife) dress off over her head, revealing a low-cut bra and panties. Running my hands down her slender body, I appreciated her gentle curves and her feminine but muscular body.  She is a workout maniac.

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Then I took her underwear off, kissed her round, hard-nipple breasts. I touched her shaved beaver too. I tried to make it look like an accident, but she know me, I could not fool her. Well after this intro I was getting ready for an entertaining fuck. I was going to screw my wife in the hope her friend Katy will join in. Something like this has happened before.

Hey you, don’t rush, Terry said. My friend needs some attention, too.

I realized that I have to bang my wife and her bestgirlfriend too…

At that time I realized that, this Easter Saturday going to be my lucky night, because the ladies have a plan. I will have to bang my wife and her very sexy x schoolmate too. So I repeated the process with Katy, undressing her and stroking her warm very sexy body. Then I got rid off my clothes in a flash. My cock sprang out, it was already ready for some erotic activity. I was really horny and for a short moment I wondered if I could satisfy them both. The two ladies did not hesitate at all, they sandwiched me and navigated me into the bedroom.

I rolled on a rubber, while the two naked women lay back on the mattress. Both of them started to use their fingers to tickle their clits erect.

Fuck me! Terry urged.  Fuck us! Corrected her Katy.

I did not need any more fore play, we were kissing and touching each other half the night and in the taxi on the way to our place, so I just wanted to do what they ask me too.

I was going to start with my wife, but she had a different idea. Guests first – she told me. Well she did not have to ask me twice, I slid my hard cock into her x classmate’s beautiful, wet pussy. It was slick and tight, like every guy’s dream. A few years back we had sex, but she has changed a lot in a positive way since that time.

She lifted her hip up to give me easier access to her vulva, I started to give it to her really deep and hard. In the mean time my wife played with my testicles from behind. I know it wouldn’t take me long to cum. I slowed down and tried to organize my concentration, kind of paced myself, because  Terry was horny too. So after a slow  minute or so, I changed condoms and switched to her. I know her pussy very well and it fits me like the right size condom.

I was more than happy to try to make orgasm  both of them.

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I kept switching back and forth, and kept changing condoms. Changing condoms takes time and I was able to cool down a bit in the changing process.

Our threesome got hotter and hotter. I was screwing one and playing with the other’s boobs or the other sucked my balls. After a while the one who didn’t have my cock was asking for it. I was more than happy to take care of both of them.

Terry’s body went rigid, her breasts shook, and her pretty blonde head thrashed around. I’m Cumming! She said and pushed her pussy up to my pubic bone. I trusted one more time and she had a mind blowing orgasm.

I  changed to Katy immediately, however at this time I did not change condoms, I went down on her and started to tongue fuck her. It did not take a minute and she reached the orgasm too with a very feminine moan.
Oh, my! You are a sex god, she said.

I knew that I don’t have to hold back anything any longer, but they asked me to try to control myslef. They wanted to play and did play a  little game with me – on me. They blindfolded and laid me down on my back and ride on me, like a cow girl.

I wasn’t allowed to touch any of their body parts and I had to guess which one was banging me. Let me tell you it was a lot of fun, especially when they changed condoms. We used more than a few…. It wasn’t easy, but I know my wife’s pussy, so I was on the top of their game.

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I am represent a married couple here. We got married in the local Catholic’s church, but just because we are catholic, it does not mean we do not like sex…

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Our problem is, our long time fantasy (it is mainly my, the wife’s) is a mfm threesome, and I hope it will be reality very soon, because  we get invited to a house party at  Easter’s Saturday. The host couple did not say, it would be a sex party, but we know, they are into casual sex play and swinging.

I am sure we will have an opportunity to make our fantasy real, if we go to that party, but my hubby say, a mfm threesome is not a good idea at Easter time… I strongly disagree with him, but we decided to get advice from more experienced people…

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For me Easter’s Saturday is like any other Saturday, therefore I  personally believe a mfm threesome is always a good idea… even for you. You try it, and if you do not like it, you wont do anymore, but if you wont try it, it always will be in your mind, something like you missed to opportunity…

If I were you I would go for it… Continue Reading…

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We use to have threesome fantasy too and that is not just fantasy anymore… a well organized mfm is a lot of fun, but I have my sayin’.

You wrote you are Catholic, hardcore Catholics do not have sex outside in their marriage, plus hard core Catholics go in the church at Easter time, not to a party in a hope to find partner for threesome sex, so I assume, you are not that hard core Catholics.

Therefore why not? As it stated at above, if you never try, you never know you are going to like it or not… Continue Reading…

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Threesomes are good at any times, if the players into the mood…

At above is; “hardcore Catholics do not have sex outside in their marriage”. I agree with that sentence, so they are maybe… planning to keep that threesome in the family.

Dad, mom and the oldest boy… What happens in the family, stays in the family… Continue Reading…

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Thanks for you advice chic but no, we do not want to have that threesome with our child, our marriage is child less, but your post planted an idea in my mind… a mfm would be a lot of fun with a man who is young enough to be my son… Continue Reading…

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The wife and I really like threesomes and we are both very straight. We would not have any problem with three way sex at Easter Saturday, as it stated above, it is like any other Saturday for us.

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I’ve only participated in a couple of mfm’s and a few fmf’s threesome.

Apart from the 1st mfm was a bit awkward at the start (it was with a friend of mine and a girl we both new and I always thought it would be with a stranger couple). However it turned to be real good when we passed that few uncomfortable minutes.

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If all three parties involved are all on the same page and in agreement with the rules etc. then it should be all good, even at Eastern Saturday.

Your husband does not like the idea, so his not on the same page, so don’t do it or you risk your marriage. He might not ready for see you have sex with other men, or maybe he back off because of his religion.

Either way, I would back off too, but I would tell him, “You are right honey, we should not go to that  Sex Party at Easter , not even sure it will be a sex party, but I do not give up on my fantasy and I really want to get over with, so I will try to find a young guy and you and him can make my fantasy reality. I’ll wait a week or two, but no more.”

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