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The next paragraph originated on our partner’s on-line adult dating magazine. It made me think about Holiday Spirit, Sex, Sex Parties and Swingers Party.

A member posted it:

sweet chicWhen I was five years old I saw Santa fucking Momma under the Christmas tree. That kind of took the holiday spirit out of me especially after I told poppa what I saw.

Poppa beat the hell out of me and then he beat momma. Needless to say I never again left cookies and milk out for Santa , and I doubt that momma did either. Continue Reading…


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Yes, when Thanks Giving past by, Christmas is just 3 weeks a way… Are you thinking about no commitment casual sex? This the best time of the year, to stop thinking and do something about it. The summer is over and the holiday party season is already on begun.

Instead of spend your time drinking with your bodies, you should organize a erotic X-mass or a New Years Eve party. Recreational Sex would be good for New Years eve celebration… Isn’t it? I think it sound good; Celebrate New Years Eve with recreational sex

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You can make your party a really kinky party. This is one of the easiest way and the best opportunity to get into the lifestyle without the added pressure of sex.

NSA sex is nice if it happens and if you organize your party on the proper way it might happen…

Well I do not want to talk anybody into NSA sex. It is your holiday, your life and it would be your erotic party.

If you do not have any ideas, what happen at a New Years Eve swingers party, read our sister website related erotic story. Story of a “New Years Eve Swingers Party”. You can read it here.

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By the way the story based on a true erotic party party and it has some erotic swingers party photos attached to it too.

If you liked that story, then go ahead and organize your own sex party. However an erotic party is not for everyone and to organize a successfully erotic party is not that simple.

You can not just call a bunch of buddies of yours with their lady friend. If you start like that, you never going to make that party an erotic party.

I think it would be much better get invited to somebody’s erotic party at first. Than you can get some first hand experience… about how and what to do.

No that hard to find a local erotic party. If you are not registered member yet, you just need to register for membership to our partner’s Erotic Swingers Dating Dating Website. Remember the registration is free.

One of their free service for registered member is the erotic on-line dating magazine. The magazine has a local section, whit a local adult establishment list, like swingers club, escorts, etc. Also that local section contains the local erotic party list. You just have to check out and contact the organizers.

If you already registered log in and check out who organize an erotic party in your neighborhood.

It can’t be any simpler to celebrate this Holiday season with casual sex. At here you can find some Erotic Holiday Party hosting tips.

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What our members think about Holiday Season and Sex

open minded womenI’ve some friends that just drop out of sight this time of year. When they re-emerge they say they just needed a break from everything…

Others friends seem to get way more active. They feel the extra playtime burns off the stress.

Do the holidays stress you out? Do you find that with all the hubbub and hoopla that the Thanksgiving and Christmas season can carry with it, that you need more physical attention? Continue Reading…


I need sexNot much stresses me. I enjoy sex about the same year round
– enormously.

Need more – nah, I need it all the time… Continue Reading…



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I can see it both ways. Holidays are family time. Thus the disappearance. Also some just need an outlet or an escape.

But it can also depend on status. If they’re married time to play can be constricted. Now singles tend to get lonely and depressed during the holiday season and go on a sexual rampage to fill the void. Continue Reading…

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Are you want to be wild at the coming Holiday Season?

I want a extra man for Christmas to have a mfm threesome with us.

My husband and I fantasize about MFM threesome a lot. Both of us want it happen very badly. Our Christmas party would be a good time to make it happen, but unable to find a suitable partner, other then his friend. Continue Reading…

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We did not ask him straightforward, but we talked about it and  from his comments, we think he would be happy to play with us.

We tried to find some other willing guys in a hope we will get used to each others, like have a sex friend relationship, that last longer than a Christmas sex party,  but everyone chickens out as soon they hear the husband will  be there,  or simple no show for the first meeting.

Is it possible to have a threesome with a friend? A threesome that we wont forget… He is my husband’s best friend, they are friend since their early childhood. If that threesome would not work: Would that come back to hurt our relationship  and or their friendship?

We are looking explore options for the best experience. Nothing else that I want from Santa, just my husband and an extra man.  Let us know your ideas please. Continue Reading…


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I’m your husbands other good friend Ben… Let’s make your fantasy reality. I am in…! I will show for sure… Continue Reading…

Does that mean you want to have some fun? I didn’t know he have a friend named Ben, friend or stranger it all sounds fun… I think a MFM 3some with a stranger is very nasty. What do you think?

Will you show up? Contact me only if you are serious.



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Having been in many threesomes in all kind of these situations, and many different scenario. I played as a single man and I was part of a couple too.

The couple things worked out great when we weren’t close friends. The closer you are you have to make sure you have a strong foundation and communication already in place.

If so, enjoy yourself. Life is about living! Have some fun for all of us. Continue Reading…


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Find a stranger… A lot of guys are looking for couples to play with, and not all of them are looser…

Our threesome ruined a relationship we had with a good buddy. He fell in love and wanted to leave his wife and asked me to leave my husband.

He would get drunk and bang on our door. We had to get the police in the end to stop him from coming over. Not Good!

However it can happen with a stranger too, so never give your address out. Organize your tree way in a hotel or his home… Continue Reading…

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I agree with everyone who said do not do it with one of his friends!

I fantasize about fmf threesome with one of my girlfriend. I am sure my hubby would enjoy it, but I don’t want to destroy our friendship. It worth more then a kinky night… Continue Reading…



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It will depends on, how you will handle that situation and how you will handle your husband’s buddy. I participated in threesome with friends, several times and it did not destroy anything.

We are still friend, but we do not have threesomes anymore.

You are a woman with two men… You have to make it clear, it happens for your and your hubby enjoyment… not for the extra guy’s entertainment. Make it clear with your action… he will be  there for the “leftover”…

Your hubby is the number one, and the buddy just there to fulfill your fantasy. If you will do this way, then will be no danger…

But if you make the buddy the number one, then your hubby might will have some problems… Continue Reading…


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Be honest and open with one another about it. Make sure that your husband realizes that your marriage comes first.

Be sure his friend understands and respects that. Make sure that when you play, you play together.

And make sure that everyone knows that if things do get out of hand, it’s done. This means that if the buddy doesn’t get the hint, your husband may have to make a hard decision to finish the friendship with him. Continue Reading…


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If I were you, I wouldn’t try to have a MFM threesome with one of your husband’s buddies. Find a stranger.

Your husband might become jealous, and this could destroy their friendship. I think, it’s so much easier to find men for threesomes, than women, even thought you have difficulties to find the right guy…

I’m confident you’ll come up with someone else who isn’t close to your husband. Continue Reading…

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All depends on how you will manage it…

If the guy thinks he can fuck you whenever hubby isn’t around then it will cause issues. But if you make him completely understand, it happens only in a 3some setting then all should be fine. Continue Reading…


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Keep friendship separate from your sex life.

Playing with people you associate can be very risky. It can create jealousy and hard feelings. Even though it is hard to find the perfect sex partner… Would be much better if you find someone here and  write a script for what you want him to do. Continue Reading…

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Christmas Sex parties, swingers parties

The time is always right for a sex party, but sometimes some people need to find a reason for partying. Being horny is a good enough reason for me, but if you one of those people, than Christmas and the Holiday Season is a pretty good reason to turn to be wild…

Of course you can celebrate Christmas with family or you can celebrate it in a swingers club, or even better you can host your own party.

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If you are like me, you can celebrate it in a swingers club with family.  My family is small, just my husband and I. Our family tradition is,  we spend Christmas Eve  with our parents, New Years Eve with our  friends, preferable naked.

There is nothing better list not for us, than a really good  sex party at New Years Eve, I wont call it Swingers Sex party, because at New Years Eve a lot of non swingers into sex partying. I am not sure what make the different for them… for me a sex party is a sex party,  does not matter if it is New Years Eve or Holiday Season, or just a party with sex friends, the target is orgasm, preferable multiple orgasm, with more than one sex partner…

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Anyways, those non swingers want to have nsa sex at New Years Eve, but after that they portent, like hey are very religioues   and they never had casual sex with anyone, that is against their religion…

I wont call myslef swinger or our self swinger couple, (we been there done that) swinging is more than just have nsa sex, but I can tell we are open minded and we love each other and we love sex and not just with each other…

But this is not swinging, even though list once a month we  visit swingers club, it doe not mean we  have penetrative sex  with strange people or front of  strange people, no we go there, we have some “social” life (way better then social life via Facebook) meet some friends and after the party is over we might go somewhere privet  and have our very own party…

But New Years Eve is different.  A New Years Eve Sex party usually a really big sex party… It is fact we are ready for it…

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Women Erotic Fantasy Around Christmas Time

Studies prove it, more about four women from ten has a secret Santa Claus related erotic fantasy, and they are everyday women. Wife and girlfriends who are not into casual dating and or no string attached sex.

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Anything goes when it comes to Holiday Season and women’s sex fantasy. Their fantasies to make sex more enjoyable. What it have to do with Christmas and Santa?

No one exactly know, maybe it is his beard, or the red suit, maybe his friendly father figure that makes him appealing as a sex partner for a lot of women. What ever it is, does not matter, but it gives a great opportunity for any men… Easy to her erotic Christmas fantasies come true or at least put a smile on her face and your too with a small effort…

So what about women fantasize at this time of the year?

Group Sex

The more people the better: Group sex can be exciting for a woman. I don’t mean every women on the entire world want to call all of her buddies over for a gang bang. Some women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with multiply sex partners. That is why they are into NSA sex and or swinging.

Some other women find it gross… and don’t even fantasize about group sex.

To Be Spanked

Are you my daddy? Some women like to be controlled by their partner or they like to control their own partner.

Sometimes they want to be spanked and want from their partner to yell out slogans or phrases about what they should do and how they should do. The part of the game… they wont do it, so they will get punished. They want to get spanked.

Exhibitionism – Having Sex in Public

This really turns some women on. The idea of someone else watching them in the heat of the moment in public can be a real turn on. Find a place that you can feel secure and bang the night away. She will love it. However sex in public against the low in every countries and in some countries it punished by death…


While I don’t understand this one, a lot of people love it. Some women want to be told how and when to do things. She might like it when you tell her to lick your testicles and suck on your penis.

I have known women who really get off on this sort of thing. Try it out, she might like it and I am almost sure, you will like it too.

Pain – Sex – Pleasures

Some women like to be roughed up a bit. They love to mix the pleasure with pain. They want you to spank them hard and tell them, you will hurt them if they resist. I don’t understand, it sounds like rape. But if it gets her off, that is all that matters.

Lesbianism – Bi Sexuality

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Having sex with another woman. This shouldn’t be no big surprise. Women can be better at pleasing another woman. Most men like it, some don’t. If your woman likes to do this and it turns you own, enjoy it. Lesbianism can be a beautiful thing. Have her invite friends over that will also allow you to participate. I have done this and it is great. After the first time you will be hooked. Hell, I can just sit and watch them go at it and I am in ecstasy.

Being a Hooker

It is the oldest profession in the world. Some people think it is dirty, some women find it to be a turn on. That is probably why there isn’t a shortage of whores in this world. People like receiving rewards for a job well done. If a woman fantasizes about being a hooker, chances are a big part of her fantasy is that the guy gives her a big tip for pleasuring him. This kind of erotic game usually turn the guy on too, because he can ask to perform on a hooker or from a hooker a lot of kinky things, that he might never ask from his spouse.

A Three Way Sexual Relationship – Threesomes maybe with Santa

This is common for both men and women. You just have to wear a Santa Clause costume… Two people can pleasure better than one, special if one of them is Santa…

The most common fantasy is where a man is doing her from behind, doggy style, while she perform oral sex on Santa.

However even with out Santa, having two partners in bed, doubles the pleasure. Makes the evening more enjoyable. This goes for women as well as it does for men. If she wants you to do this, do it only if you are comfortable with the idea.

If the idea of another man banging your partner is okay with you, do it until your hearts content. Also it can be a big male performance ex changer, because every guy would like to out perform the other.

If someone invited you to participate in a threesome, just go for it. You will have a lot of fun and she might as well have some fun too.

Being The Man Of The Hour

This sounds kinky for men, but this is one of the more popular fantasies women have. Most say that they want to use a strap on dildo and have sex with their male partner.

I don’t think it is as much about the sex as it is the power. The feeling of having a penis and using it. Feeling him squabble when she sticks the fake penis in his anus. It is about power. Some women want that power. Some men don’t mind it, some bi sexual men even enjoy it. Usually strait men…. does not get exited from this idea, most of them say, “No way!”

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Being Raped

With all the news of violence and rape in the news towards women, this one took me by surprise. I’m not sure how to react to it and I am not sure how to write about it.

Some women want to be slapped and beat and forced to have sex. Just like you would expect to see if you were watching a woman get raped. They want you to put your hand up their skirts and feel their panties. They want you to kiss them hard so their lipstick runs across their face.

I think this comes from wanting to be powerless. They want to feel that someone else is in control of them and their fate. Please don’t engage in this sort of thing unless you are 100% sure that she is a willing participant. You could end up actually raping someone and going into jail for a long time, if you are not be careful.

Some Women Fantasize Sex About Penetrative Sex with Giant Penis

Does penis size make difference? Lot of women have erotic fantasy to have sex with guy who have a porn star like penis. Maybe they never had one, or maybe they did have and they loved it. Did you ever read NSA sex personal or one night stand, maybe a swingers ad: “Looking for sex partner with 8 plus dick?” Or “Well hung men need reply only”.

The average penis size is between 5 and 6 inches. Some men are bigger, some are smaller. Where you stand at? Are you bigger or smaller?

Most women seem to be very unclear as to what it is they seek in a larger penis. Many women complain only when a man becomes insecure about his smaller penis. Small or big better or worst, I guess it is part of their preferences. However you never lie about your penis size, no point, sooner or later she will find out anyway.

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How do I convince my husband to go to a sex party?

Actually it can be a swingers sex party or a party at a swingers club… Around Christmas would be a perfect time. I’m very adventurous and love to explore new things. I’ve been really wanting to have a lot of no string attached sex with different men lately.

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Maybe it is, because I am getting older (I am 43) and deep inside me, I know my expire date is getting closer and over 50 it will be harder to have nsa sex. Right now I can catch men attention very easy…

The only problem is my husband. He’s bi sexual 15 years older than me, and has a lot of sexual experience.

I am his second wife, we are together in the last 13 years and according to him, since we are together he did not have any bi sexual play. But with his first wife, they were into nsa sex and swingers club, and he was openly bi and practiced bi sex at that time.

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They divorced and the reason is related to swinging… than we met and we were married 6 months later. I know his pass and I had my share of nsa fun too, and he knows my pass too, so there is no problem wit the pass.

The problem is the present, which is; I need more sex with more men. He said if we go to sex parties he would not be able to control his bi sexuality anymore, and deep inside he does not want to practice bi sex.

He suggested we should try  cuckolding. I mean the today’s cuckolding. He would watch as I play with one or two men, which is sound appealing, but I want more.

Plus I don’t want to  bring home any men. I know there are hotels and motels, but that is extra cost… a lot of sex a lot of cost, so sex parties would be better.

Due to his heated past with the topic of sex parties and swinging, I would love to have this kind of experience, but  he just does not want to come with me, and I wont do it alone…

What should I do? Continue Reading…


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Swinging and sex parties  is not for everybody, and for some reason, your husband thinks, it is not for you….

The play is supposed to be a fun diversion from life or a great addition to a relationship. Your husband has a bi sexual experience, that he does not want to repeat, and his marriage was destroyed by  his bi sexuality or sex partying, either way  his marriage was over because of the lifestyle.

Your choice, but I would not consider him a good candidate to bring other couples or people into your marrige. If you do choose to, make sure he have no problem with it, or it might destroy your marriage too… Continue Reading…

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I know a man… I know more men, but this one is divorced from his wife and freind of ours. In fact they divorced more than few years earlier.

They was into casual sex during their marriage and according to him their divorce have nothing to do with sex. Anyway, their friends circle, after divorce – before divorce are the same. They  are still into no string attached casual sex and sex partying and sometimes they even had sex with each other. I find strange divorced people have sex…

I think some of those guys who partying with them, don’t even know they used to be a married couple… Continue Reading…


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I am divorced too and I think our  divorce had nothing to do with sex. There is an other reason behind our divorce…

Also as your freind as I had sex with my X too since we divorced.  It happened more than once. It always happened at parties or some kind of other get together with friends.

Sex with an X is a very bad idea… because at one pint she tried to re-build our marriage and I had to make it very clean, I never go back.

Leave together or just have nsa sex, does not mean the same… Or just because nsa sex is  good, it does not mean a rebuild  marriage will be good too. Since this happened, I did not  see her and did not hear anything from her. Continue Reading…


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I don’t know how can you manage into your husband sex partying again.  he burned himself once, and does not want to do it again… but maybe  there is away.The problem is you do not want to take anyone to home…

Somehow you have to set up a surprise sex party for him. Just a one time deal. If he does not like it, than don’t do it again, or it will damage your marriage, but he might like it… and if he does, than you do not need to talk him into anything…

Or you can ask him for Christmas present… Sex party for Christmas present, I think this would be you best chance… Continue Reading…

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You’d better ask first. If my wife pulled that on me, I’d be sleeping somewhere else. Because bringing someone else into your bed, unless you have an open relationship — is cheating.

Doing it without clearing it first,  yeah, it sounds like a porno fantasy, but real relationships aren’t just about fucking, real relationship we love each other and make love and communicate…

Talk to him or take your chances on blowing everything. A lot of people have outrageous fantasies that they would never want to fulfill in real life. Continue Reading…


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A lot of women fantasize about having sex with two guys at a holiday sex party.