What makes casual sex so attractive for married couples?

Married couples try casual sex and they might end up in a swingers club. Why? What is about swinging that keep married couples share their marital sex life with others?

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No string attached sex can be fun and pleasure, with other words casual sex a  lot of erotic fun, if done properly.

Oh, you are not married, you are single, but you are here to find a man woman couple for nsa sex.  It might happen, but it takes time, however before you get into this “lifestyle”, you should  know few things.  The most important is; What you should expect if you find that couple?  Keep reading and you will find it out based on our experience.

When a man – woman couple get into casual sex, usually they try to find an other couple or a extra partner. The gender of that partner depends on their preferences and on their erotic fantasy.  If their first  nsa sex experience turn to be a positive, then they might try few more times. If they want more,  they might end up visit swingers clubs.  People go to swingers club for the same reason, which is, to have sex…

New couples usually into no string attached sex plays  2 – 3 years and then they take a break. In a lot of cases this break is the end of their shared or nsa sex play, however if they get back into the lifestyle, then they will stay for many more years.

I, as a male part of the couple don’t know for sure why women love to have sex with different men,  so I can’t tell you that, you better ask my wife. But I know why I love it, but its bring up  another question that I should talk about first.

The question is; Why does married men loves other women’s pussy?

It is simple, boring marital sex life, fun factor, more experienced woman, safe sex and 80% of sexually active men always want new pussy. The rest of them, that 20% want it too, but they lie about it, even for themselves.   New toys, new pussy… I guess its men’s things.

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We as a couple got into casual sex because the sparks disappeared from our  marital love life.  Our relationship was and is in secure and we love each other more then ever, but sex was not the same anymore.  Love making became dirty work. We knew, we need to make some changes, to bring those sparks back into our bedroom. So we tried nsa, we loved it, in fact ever since we are loving it.

The basic idea originate from my wife. Once upon a time,  one night we talked about everything at the front of the TV, include our neighbor.  She was a divorced lady and she had a lover, half of her age. Than my wife said something like, she was wondering how sex would be with a man who is young enough to be our son.  We have no child, our business was more important then children, so there is no ethical question if and what will happen if our children finds it out…

Anyways, I told to her, you never gonna find it out, if you never try… She agreed, she said you are right, I never going to find out. But no one can predict the future… The subject like a ghost kept come back again and again, usually when the neighbor’s lover’s car parked on her driveway. Than one day I told to her she should find a  willing young man. She said she doesn’t think I can handle it, well I wasn’t sure how will I handle it, but I told to her we will find out if time comes…  However there was one condition, I want to be there in the same room, I want to see all.

Than she agreed she will try, so we registered to this adult dating website and started our search.  Even though there are more men the women here, its not easy to find the right man. We had hours of video chat and more than few coffee dates, and months passed by and nothing happened, the guys did not show up for the second date.  Than we changed our tactic, video chat, coffee date and if there is some attraction,  we go to a hotel room. It started very promising,  but the first guy could not get it hard. The second blow his load before he got naked…

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Than we found a man. A young guy, 15 years younger than my wife,  he hold university degree, he is very polite, easy going, we can talk about anything and everything with him and for bonus, he was and he is a good sex partner. Our casual sex journey began with him. We developed a sex friendship with him, in fact he introduced his girlfriend to us  and let me tell you, I thought his girlfriend have the sweetest pussy that I ever tasted…  Our friendship is still ongoing, we still get together every now and than, but we and they play with others too.

Than we ended up in a swingers club, and my wife had sex with two men in a hotel room after the club hours. That was very erotic, I love to see her while being pleased by two men at the same time. Of course I had my share of fun too, somehow always is the latest pussy is the best pussy.  When I see my beautiful wife, while other man’s hard cock dug deep into her love tunnel, and I play with that man’s wife or partner, it always makes me want more pussy.  It always makes me teenager again,  its something like you are teenager again and you can perform better and more and teenagers don’t need Viagra… Plus as time goes  quantity replaced by quality, because of experience, so nsa sex made me a better lover.

There is nothing better than watch my wife during sex. Its always turn me on. I love to see her erect nipple in other guy’s mouth, I love to see her moaning with pleasure as sliding up and down other man’s erected shaft. Between two intercourse a big turn on for me, just to see her entertain or being entertained by one or two men, its always give me a hard on.

But there are many other reason, for example, for a mfm threesome you need two men and a woman.  Continue reading…

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The wife fantasy is a mfm threesome at Easter’s weekend

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I am represent a married couple here. We got married in the local Catholic’s church, but just because we are catholic, it does not mean we do not like sex…

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Our problem is, our long time fantasy (it is mainly my, the wife’s) is a mfm threesome, and I hope it will be reality very soon, because  we get invited to a house party at  Easter’s Saturday. The host couple did not say, it would be a sex party, but we know, they are into casual sex play and swinging.

I am sure we will have an opportunity to make our fantasy real, if we go to that party, but my hubby say, a mfm threesome is not a good idea at Easter time… I strongly disagree with him, but we decided to get advice from more experienced people…

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Celebrate Easter with threesome.

For me Easter’s Saturday is like any other Saturday, therefore I  personally believe a mfm threesome is always a good idea… even for you. You try it, and if you do not like it, you wont do anymore, but if you wont try it, it always will be in your mind, something like you missed to opportunity…

If I were you I would go for it… Continue Reading…

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We use to have threesome fantasy too and that is not just fantasy anymore… a well organized mfm is a lot of fun, but I have my sayin’.

You wrote you are Catholic, hardcore Catholics do not have sex outside in their marriage, plus hard core Catholics go in the church at Easter time, not to a party in a hope to find partner for threesome sex, so I assume, you are not that hard core Catholics.

Therefore why not? As it stated at above, if you never try, you never know you are going to like it or not… Continue Reading…

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Threesomes are good at any times, if the players into the mood…

At above is; “hardcore Catholics do not have sex outside in their marriage”. I agree with that sentence, so they are maybe… planning to keep that threesome in the family.

Dad, mom and the oldest boy… What happens in the family, stays in the family… Continue Reading…

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Thanks for you advice chic but no, we do not want to have that threesome with our child, our marriage is child less, but your post planted an idea in my mind… a mfm would be a lot of fun with a man who is young enough to be my son… Continue Reading…

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The wife and I really like threesomes and we are both very straight. We would not have any problem with three way sex at Easter Saturday, as it stated above, it is like any other Saturday for us.

You never know if you don’t try… Continue Reading…

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I’ve only participated in a couple of mfm’s and a few fmf’s threesome.

Apart from the 1st mfm was a bit awkward at the start (it was with a friend of mine and a girl we both new and I always thought it would be with a stranger couple). However it turned to be real good when we passed that few uncomfortable minutes.

All the other three ways were fantastic and I cant wait for next one. You should go for it. Continue Reading…

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If all three parties involved are all on the same page and in agreement with the rules etc. then it should be all good, even at Eastern Saturday.

Your husband does not like the idea, so his not on the same page, so don’t do it or you risk your marriage. He might not ready for see you have sex with other men, or maybe he back off because of his religion.

Either way, I would back off too, but I would tell him, “You are right honey, we should not go to that  Sex Party at Easter , not even sure it will be a sex party, but I do not give up on my fantasy and I really want to get over with, so I will try to find a young guy and you and him can make my fantasy reality. I’ll wait a week or two, but no more.”

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I want a extra man for Christmas to have a mfm threesome with us.

My husband and I fantasize about MFM threesome a lot. Both of us want it happen very badly. Our Christmas party would be a good time to make it happen, but unable to find a suitable partner, other then his friend. Continue Reading…

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We did not ask him straightforward, but we talked about it and  from his comments, we think he would be happy to play with us.

We tried to find some other willing guys in a hope we will get used to each others, like have a sex friend relationship, that last longer than a Christmas sex party,  but everyone chickens out as soon they hear the husband will  be there,  or simple no show for the first meeting.

Is it possible to have a threesome with a friend? A threesome that we wont forget… He is my husband’s best friend, they are friend since their early childhood. If that threesome would not work: Would that come back to hurt our relationship  and or their friendship?

We are looking explore options for the best experience. Nothing else that I want from Santa, just my husband and an extra man.  Let us know your ideas please. Continue Reading…

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I’m your husbands other good friend Ben… Let’s make your fantasy reality. I am in…! I will show for sure… Continue Reading…

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Does that mean you want to have some fun? I didn’t know he have a friend named Ben, friend or stranger it all sounds fun… I think a MFM 3some with a stranger is very nasty. What do you think?

Will you show up? Contact me only if you are serious.

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Having been in many threesomes in all kind of these situations, and many different scenario. I played as a single man and I was part of a couple too.

The couple things worked out great when we weren’t close friends. The closer you are you have to make sure you have a strong foundation and communication already in place.

If so, enjoy yourself. Life is about living! Have some fun for all of us. Continue Reading…

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Find a stranger… A lot of guys are looking for couples to play with, and not all of them are looser…

Our threesome ruined a relationship we had with a good buddy. He fell in love and wanted to leave his wife and asked me to leave my husband.

He would get drunk and bang on our door. We had to get the police in the end to stop him from coming over. Not Good!

However it can happen with a stranger too, so never give your address out. Organize your tree way in a hotel or his home… Continue Reading…

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I agree with everyone who said do not do it with one of his friends!

I fantasize about fmf threesome with one of my girlfriend. I am sure my hubby would enjoy it, but I don’t want to destroy our friendship. It worth more then a kinky night… Continue Reading…

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It will depends on, how you will handle that situation and how you will handle your husband’s buddy. I participated in threesome with friends, several times and it did not destroy anything.

We are still friend, but we do not have threesomes anymore.

You are a woman with two men… You have to make it clear, it happens for your and your hubby enjoyment… not for the extra guy’s entertainment. Make it clear with your action… he will be  there for the “leftover”…

Your hubby is the number one, and the buddy just there to fulfill your fantasy. If you will do this way, then will be no danger…

But if you make the buddy the number one, then your hubby might will have some problems… Continue Reading…

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Be honest and open with one another about it. Make sure that your husband realizes that your marriage comes first.

Be sure his friend understands and respects that. Make sure that when you play, you play together.

And make sure that everyone knows that if things do get out of hand, it’s done. This means that if the buddy doesn’t get the hint, your husband may have to make a hard decision to finish the friendship with him. Continue Reading…

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If I were you, I wouldn’t try to have a MFM threesome with one of your husband’s buddies. Find a stranger.

Your husband might become jealous, and this could destroy their friendship. I think, it’s so much easier to find men for threesomes, than women, even thought you have difficulties to find the right guy…

I’m confident you’ll come up with someone else who isn’t close to your husband. Continue Reading…

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All depends on how you will manage it…

If the guy thinks he can fuck you whenever hubby isn’t around then it will cause issues. But if you make him completely understand, it happens only in a 3some setting then all should be fine. Continue Reading…

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Keep friendship separate from your sex life.

Playing with people you associate can be very risky. It can create jealousy and hard feelings. Even though it is hard to find the perfect sex partner… Would be much better if you find someone here and  write a script for what you want him to do. Continue Reading…

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How to play in threesomes

A lot of man would be surprised if they find out how many women fantasize about have sex with two guys at the same time. For some of those women fantasy stay fantasy in all of their life. However some others make it reality if she brave enough to stand front of her man and tell him; “Honey I want to have sex with two guys at the same time“. It have to be a very secured relationship. Just a secured man able to except the fact, her loved one want an other cock…

anal sexThe female –  female – male threesomes (see the photo at left) are more common in the today’s open sexuality world, because the large number of bi sexual women. In ffm threesome she can have what ever she prefer, woman or man, or both in the same time.

Man – Man – Woman threesomes are different.  The men are bisexual, or list one of the man is bi. She wont get any pussy in mmf threesome, but she will have two hard cocks to play with. Also bi men plays  with each other, not just with her. There are a lot of question in her head before she finalize her decision.  This is normal, specially at the first time in a mmf three-way.

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male female male threesomeThe male – female – male scenario at left on the photo when both guys there to please her. The biggest question is who will be the third guy in the tried. She needs to find that guy attractive  plus the two guys have to get along well too, because if they want to make it successful and pleasant sexual experience, they going to have to work as a team.

A good friend is the best choice, however, it is very hard for married couples, because  they don’t want to advertise their personal sex life for their friends and they don’t want to invite friend into their sex life. It is a bit easier for boyfriend – girlfriend couples.

But if two people really want something to happen, they will make it happen and will find the right guy. If you did not find yet check out our erotic sex personals and you will find a lot of willing man there.

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Finally you found the right guy and you invited him to your home and or a hotel room. You have to be prepared if you want to make this scenario a great sexual experience.

Few tings would be handy, for example you favorite romantic music CD, some drink, maybe candles, maybe some erotic movies. Hopefully you going to need a lot of condom and lube, also you might need few wet baby wipes.

All three of you sit in the living room and your get together do not want to turn to be an erotic get together. Probably you already talked it trough why you guys are there, so all three of you know what should happen and either of you don’t know how to start and or all three of you scare to start.

You need to socialize a bit but not to much. You do not want to spend all night with chatting. You have more important things to do. So have few sip of drinks, it will clam the nerve down, talk a bit and go for it. She just should go to one of the guy and sit in his lap. According to the un-written no commitment swingers sex etiquette, it is very polite if she starts with guest guy. Just sit in his laps and start to touch and or kiss him. This first move will be the hardest, but from here everything should run nice and smooth.

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After few minutes touching and kissing, the permanent partner, or husband 🙂 should  get involved in the play too. He just should go there and for example start to kiss her neck and he should start to undress her. From this point mother nature should take it over. If mother nature wont do it, she has to do.

She can perform erotic dance to both guys, get naked all the way, get them naked too and push some body parts into the guys face, like boobs and butt and pussy. This will do…

She will be extremely horny and the guys should be hard by now too. Remember this was her fantasy and it is getting reality. She have four hands and two mouths over her body. She can play with two eager hard cocks. She can be eaten out by one guy and she can perform oral sex on the other guy. There are millions of things that two guys and a woman can do. There is no foreplay long enough, but at one point the actual intercourse has to begin.

Male  Female Male Threesome Sex Positions

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The double penetration sex position on the picture at left, the lady need to be very flexible. However with that position the guys are in 100%  control. They control the speed and the deepness of the penetration.

The easiest threesome position is the doggy style. In doggy style she can have vaginal penetration with one guy and the other can perform oral sex on her, or he can suck her boobs or she can perform oral sex on the guy.

On the picture at next is a doggy style anal – vaginal double penetration. The extra guy under her, perform vaginal penetration. The guy behind her, moved forward, he is almost top of her and he perform deep anal penetration.

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In threesome safe sex is a most. It is okay to see unprotected sexual intercourse, but it is not okay to perform it.

Also if there is to be anal play, you have to be sure you use latex gloves and change condoms to avoid cross contamination.  If anal penetration is desired, once again the best position is doggy style, but you have to be very careful with the lube. You should not let the lube drip from her but on to her vagina, because that lube going to transfer all kind of nasty bacteria, and she might get a nasty vaginal infections.

If you guys really into the game, you can perform double vaginal penetration.  The easiest way to do it. One guy lies on his back, with wide open legs. She gets on top of him, face to the guy’s face. His cock in her pussy. She bends forward to on his chest as low as she can. He should support himself with his legs and lift up his own hip a little.

Because she is bending forward, and he lifted up her a bit, her but should point to upward, just like on the picture above. The second guy go behind her, and sleeps his penis into her vagina.

This need some practice, the highs really have to mach to make it work, but if the two guys get it right she will achieve an incredible fulfilling orgasm.  Also this position excellent to perform vaginal – anal  double penetration. In that case the guy behind her, have to penetrate her golden hole.

If that above double penetration to much for her, one of the guy can perform vaginal penetration and the other guy can play with any of her body part. And after a while, the guys should rotate.

As I stated above two guys and a woman together, able to do do millions of erotic things.

One more thing….

In our society women have the opportunity to decide between work, family or both. What about sex and orgasm? Do a woman have the same opportunity in sex as in work?

Even though a lot of woman today smart, sassy,  and not just career oriented, a lot of man would answer with a single NO.

Yet while we all imagine we’re having exciting sex lives like the cast of Sex and the City, how many of us actually are? How many woman have mind blowing orgasm frequently?

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A couple plays with an extra woman that is a FFM threesome. In fact if it is ffm, (female – female – male), the man wont have penetrative sex with both women. The two ladies plays together, he might watch or he might play with his own partner. The extra lady plays only with the woman from the couple. This lady is a Unicorn. Continue Reading

A lot of married woman choice for leisure  sex is, their husband and a unicorn woman. Between boring marital sex life and the erotic fantasy are the love triangles. Some people get into casual, NSA sex, because of their erotic fantasy, some others, try to spice up their own bedroom activity with a third person.

You have to be careful, threesomes and love-triangles can lead into jealousy driven dramas. A threesome should be entertainment,  leisure sex play, or a fantasy full of sex party.

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Almost every man dream about sex with two girls at once. There are many women, who are wondering how would it be, go down on an other woman, therefore from all threesome sex scenarios, the woman- man-woman FMF three-way is not only the most popular, but also the most likely to make it happen. In this threesome the man have chance to perform penetrative sex on both women and if the women want, they free to play with each other.

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While cultural taboos require men to be on their guard around each other, this make a two-men – one-woman (MFM if the men are not bi sexual, or MMF if they are bi) party especially tricky.

Women are permitted and develop easier close same sex, bi sexual friendships then men. Open minded women can add a female to have woman to women sex to spice their marital sex life up, and their husband will enjoy unique social, and erotic advantages. A woman who can experience other women as lovers or allies rather than as rivals in her relations with men can find an inexhaustible source of pleasure and support among like minded swingers couples and single women.

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Not all the risks of open the family bed to a third person are imaginary. Threesomes strengthen many swingers marriage, because the spouses agreed on some rules and kept that rules. Plus experienced swingers know when to end up a sexual relationship. They do it before casual sex turn into something more.

No matter who broaches the initial threesome idea, the motivation to pursue a threesome must grow equally from all parties, whether they are friends or a married couple and a trusted outsider as a third person. It’s not enough for the three to share a hot fantasy with one another, they should make their fantasy reality. A threesome will only live expectations if all three parties bring the benefits of happy, satisfying sex lives of their own to the experience. Continue Reading

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Spontaneous threesomes do occasionally erupt among singles in the heat of the moment, but more commonly an established couple forms the base of the triad. Threesome like this begins as a shared notion between the couple, that eventually evolves into the active pursuit of a third participant.

That evolution should contain discussion of what might or might not happen. Some couples entertain themselves with the threesome fantasy for many years before giving it a go. There’s no reason to force the issue if one or the other do not like the idea. Until you feel absolute confidence in your generosity toward each other, hold off.

You and your primary partner are a team, and the team must function smoothly before adding an extra person to it. Then there’s still the problem of finding a compatible third. It’s better to wait for the right person and situation to come along than to rush into something that you will regret later on.

If you’re not ready yet but your most likely third partner is moving Antarctica next month, don’t race to fit her or him into your marital sex life. Instead, bid her a goodbye kiss on the chick and hold on your threesome dream with. You can find an other person to build or develop some kind of erotic chemistry by browsing our members profile. Continue Reading

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