If someone would ask the above question from me, I would answer with an other question; Why not? Than I would ask; What kind of threesome is in your mind, with two men or with two women?
There are many kind of threesomes, so we should not get into, what kind of that imaginary threesome would be. Lets talk about “just” threesomes at first, however I prefer threesomes with two men.
Imagine you and your partner, girlfriend – boyfriend or spouse and an extra person together in a sex play. It sound very kinky, isn’t it? You might have been in a relationship for years, living together or maybe even married. Your relationship status does not make any difference, if you imagine things like this.
One day you start to develop erotic fantasies, or your significant other does. These fantasies include you and someone else outside of your relationship as I stated at above, together in an erotic play. Now what? Should you tell this fantasy of yours to your significant other? If you tell, how will your spouse respond? So there is a lot of risk being taken here by you… Maybe you will destroy your relationship, or never know, you might make it better and stronger.
Do you remember how great was sex when you and your partner get into the bed first time? It was great and satisfying every time. But since that first time, years past by and sex became routine. So what can you do?
There are 3 ways to go. The first is the simplest and the safest. Pop a porn DVD into your DVD player, turn your fantasy on and start to masturbate. If you want to get kinky, do it in the presence of your spouse. Masturbation provide satisfaction, and you wont get any STD via masturbation.
The second is safe too: Educate yourself. Learn new love making techniques, new love making positions to enhance your love life. Take love making to another level. Learn how to be a Sex God. There are millions of things can bring the spark back in your bedroom.
The third option is dangerous, but it can be the best one. You have to take a walk to the wild site! You have to introduce a third person or even two persons a couple into your relationship. Of course, you have to go step by step.
You need to mention
threesome related things, you might look threesome related DVDs together with your partner. You have to figure out your partner’s respond. Dos she / he like it? If doesn’t try again and again, or just drop the subject.
But if you think your partner really get into it, or even get turned on by those threesome DVDs than might take the next step, might go to an erotic party. You don’t need to do anything there, just keep your eyes and mid open. If both of you like what you see, than go again. Than you need to talk a lot about it and maybe find a couple to have first hand info from them, a couple, who been there done that.
Find a willing couple who can explain how they did it, and what they felt after and how was it. You can try with a single person, but experienced people believe, the first threesome better with couple. If you made it happen with a couple, there are possibility to try all scenario, mfm, fmf, or any kind if bi sexual play, if you are into something like that.
To find willing partner fairly easy these days. There are millions of men and women looking for no commitment sex partners, who are into threesomes. Probably even in your neighborhood too. Take a quick look at our sex ads and you will see what I talking about.
Seriously, just think about it, what would happen if you meet a single guy or girl that you both really like? What about a great couple? What if you introduce them into your bed? What if you share with them your loving relationship? Would it spice your sex life up? I guess you never know, if you won’t try…
However there are a lot of things that you need to know, before you get down to the erotic action. You do not looking for permanent relationship, you looking for casual sex partner – to share – and to spice your sex life up. You and your spouse run the show. You ask your new friend to join in and when it’s time to move on, you have to know when and how to kiss them good-bye. Because if your relationship is to survive there has to be an exit strategy to be agreed on before your even start.
There are many reasons why a couple will invite another in to their relationship. For example boring routine spousal sex, differences in sex drive erotic fantasies, role plays, hotwifing etc. The number one reason always is excitement, the feeling of freedom in the spousal relationship and extra intensity of the sex which ends in deep satisfaction all the times. Almost every person who tried it felt like a teenager again…
Is it worth to try? You decide… but if you try, make sure you do it right, because there is no way to make it look like it did not happen.