My wife and I would love to have a FFM threesome

One of her friend, whom she likes a great deal that has proposed it to us in the past, but we could not  and steel can’t decide if it would be better to do it with her or with a “totally stranger” or someone we know but don’t know that well.

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Any thoughts? Don’t want to create any jealousy, etc. If we go for it, what should we do and how? What “love making” position would be the best? Continue reading...

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xxx sexYou can find here some  female – male – female threesome related information…

But FFM a little different from FMF, because in FFM scenario the ladies play with each other, in FMF both ladies plays with the only man.

Basically that web page has everything that you should know about threesomes, including, how to find a second woman for your trio, and what kind of woman you should look.

Also there are some ideas about what to do and when to make that threesome fantasy of yours or your bi wife’s, reality.

The next paragraph is originated form that web page. It give some info what should everyone do in a ffm trio, when the actual intercourse start. Please read it.

When the actual intercourse starts, the third women can do a lot of thing. For example in spoon position, she has access to every important body part and both sexual organ. She can suck his balls, she can suck her bobs, lick her clit, or kissing with any of the two.

In doggy style she can go behind him and take care of his balls, or go under them and lick her clit or if her head point to her head she can suck her boobs. She can even receive oral from the lady, who is being banged by the guy. Just have to stand front of her and push her vagina into her face.

In 69 position the two ladies can sandwich the guy. In 69 position the two ladies can keep him busy at “both end”.

Missionary position is good too. He is screwing one of the lady, the other lady can sit on her face and kissing with a guy, but this need some flexibility. Or she can sit on her face and pull back the lady lags, or knees, who is getting banged. This will give very good access to him and he will be able to perform deep penetration.

The main thing that you should know. When thing getting hot and the intercourse start, he should bang first the guest lady, but his permanent partner should finish him of first. Changing condom from one pussy in to the other is recommended! It will slow down think a bit, but it will help him lost longer. Continue reading...

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Hmm, maybe you better find a “unicorn“.

I suppose the real question is whether one of you is likely to go off with the friend to the exclusion of the other spouse.

I assume if you are both okay with this and your wife is not secretly in love with her friend, you will probably be fine.

I don’t have any experience in sex with my wife lady friends but I think my general sex advice might be helpful. Nobody should get too tense and EVERYBODY should keep a sense of humor.

As the guy, you might want to work against our male stereotype of jumping to the pussy and try to work on a LOT of foreplay.

I suspect once the women are relaxed and into it, they will let you know in no uncertain terms that they are ready for the main event. Continue reading...

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local swingersI think with someone you know and are comfortable with. You and your partner set your limits and guidelines up front and talk with her about them and have fun! Continue reading...

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I think a friend is better, you know her and the three of you are attracted to each other. I say you and your wife play with her first. But be ready cause sometimes friends when they
eat each others pussy they get embarrassed for a little while so have a hard dick for round two ready.

That usually takes away any embarrassment. Continue reading...

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I’ve met with a few married couples from this site for a FFM threesome. It does happen, just is rare and takes time to find someone that there is chemistry with from both of you.

If your wife has approached the friend with this in the past, and the friend seemed interested, I say try it out.

If no one has approached the friend, then I say have your wife get a feel for things in a casual conversation. Such as asking the friend what she thinks of threesomes in general and so forth. Continue reading...

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Every situation is different. Sometimes it works great, sometimes it doesn’t. I’ve heard both great stories and miserable ones from people who’ve tried threesomes with strangers or good friends.

What DOES matter is how solid your relationship is, and how open the communication and honesty is. Could be an amazing time for all involved, or it could be the beginning of the end of your marriage.

Personally, I’d think that if you want it to be on-going, it would be better with a friend. If it’s to be just a one time thing, best to do it with a stranger. Have fun! Continue reading...

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According to the author the next story just happened with him, last Saturday, which was Easter’s Saturday.

He stated, he changed the names and twisted the story line a little bit. However it is his work and it is copyrighted by him. He is not a professional writer, he is just an every day’s hard working man like you or me…

All rights reserved. If you have any related questions, you can contact me by email,  twoj2006-jj at yahoo.com. Thank you for your consideration.

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My wife Terry and I are “confirmed” swingers. Through our 8 years of marriage sex became boring. We wanted to spice marital sex up, wanted to expand our horizons and started to swing. Since that time we have great sex with each other again, just like we used t have in our teen years.

Every now and then we go to the local swingers club or search the Internet to find willing couples or bi sexual ladies to play with us. Today, Easter’s Saturday we invited one of my wife x – schoolmate to the club. Over there not much happened, it was kind of slow and a boring night, there was only few couples. I guess people busy with family at Easter time… We had nothing better to do, so we played, flirted with each other. However everything changed when we got to our place.

We hardly got in the house and we were already in the  playing mood. I eased Terry’s (Terry is my wife) dress off over her head, revealing a low-cut bra and panties. Running my hands down her slender body, I appreciated her gentle curves and her feminine but muscular body.  She is a workout maniac.

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Then I took her underwear off, kissed her round, hard-nipple breasts. I touched her shaved beaver too. I tried to make it look like an accident, but she know me, I could not fool her. Well after this intro I was getting ready for an entertaining fuck. I was going to screw my wife in the hope her friend Katy will join in. Something like this has happened before.

Hey you, don’t rush, Terry said. My friend needs some attention, too.

I realized that I have to bang my wife and her bestgirlfriend too…

At that time I realized that, this Easter Saturday going to be my lucky night, because the ladies have a plan. I will have to bang my wife and her very sexy x schoolmate too. So I repeated the process with Katy, undressing her and stroking her warm very sexy body. Then I got rid off my clothes in a flash. My cock sprang out, it was already ready for some erotic activity. I was really horny and for a short moment I wondered if I could satisfy them both. The two ladies did not hesitate at all, they sandwiched me and navigated me into the bedroom.

I rolled on a rubber, while the two naked women lay back on the mattress. Both of them started to use their fingers to tickle their clits erect.

Fuck me! Terry urged.  Fuck us! Corrected her Katy.

I did not need any more fore play, we were kissing and touching each other half the night and in the taxi on the way to our place, so I just wanted to do what they ask me too.

I was going to start with my wife, but she had a different idea. Guests first – she told me. Well she did not have to ask me twice, I slid my hard cock into her x classmate’s beautiful, wet pussy. It was slick and tight, like every guy’s dream. A few years back we had sex, but she has changed a lot in a positive way since that time.

She lifted her hip up to give me easier access to her vulva, I started to give it to her really deep and hard. In the mean time my wife played with my testicles from behind. I know it wouldn’t take me long to cum. I slowed down and tried to organize my concentration, kind of paced myself, because  Terry was horny too. So after a slow  minute or so, I changed condoms and switched to her. I know her pussy very well and it fits me like the right size condom.

I was more than happy to try to make orgasm  both of them.

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I kept switching back and forth, and kept changing condoms. Changing condoms takes time and I was able to cool down a bit in the changing process.

Our threesome got hotter and hotter. I was screwing one and playing with the other’s boobs or the other sucked my balls. After a while the one who didn’t have my cock was asking for it. I was more than happy to take care of both of them.

Terry’s body went rigid, her breasts shook, and her pretty blonde head thrashed around. I’m Cumming! She said and pushed her pussy up to my pubic bone. I trusted one more time and she had a mind blowing orgasm.

I  changed to Katy immediately, however at this time I did not change condoms, I went down on her and started to tongue fuck her. It did not take a minute and she reached the orgasm too with a very feminine moan.
Oh, my! You are a sex god, she said.

I knew that I don’t have to hold back anything any longer, but they asked me to try to control myslef. They wanted to play and did play a  little game with me – on me. They blindfolded and laid me down on my back and ride on me, like a cow girl.

I wasn’t allowed to touch any of their body parts and I had to guess which one was banging me. Let me tell you it was a lot of fun, especially when they changed condoms. We used more than a few…. It wasn’t easy, but I know my wife’s pussy, so I was on the top of their game.

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A lot of man would be surprised if they find out how many women fantasize about have sex with two guys at the same time. For some of those women fantasy stay fantasy in all of their life. However some others make it reality if she brave enough to stand front of her man and tell him; “Honey I want to have sex with two guys at the same time“. It have to be a very secured relationship. Just a secured man able to except the fact, her loved one want an other cock…

anal sexThe female –  female – male threesomes (see the photo at left) are more common in the today’s open sexuality world, because the large number of bi sexual women. In ffm threesome she can have what ever she prefer, woman or man, or both in the same time.

Man – Man – Woman threesomes are different.  The men are bisexual, or list one of the man is bi. She wont get any pussy in mmf threesome, but she will have two hard cocks to play with. Also bi men plays  with each other, not just with her. There are a lot of question in her head before she finalize her decision.  This is normal, specially at the first time in a mmf three-way.

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male female male threesomeThe male – female – male scenario at left on the photo when both guys there to please her. The biggest question is who will be the third guy in the tried. She needs to find that guy attractive  plus the two guys have to get along well too, because if they want to make it successful and pleasant sexual experience, they going to have to work as a team.

A good friend is the best choice, however, it is very hard for married couples, because  they don’t want to advertise their personal sex life for their friends and they don’t want to invite friend into their sex life. It is a bit easier for boyfriend – girlfriend couples.

But if two people really want something to happen, they will make it happen and will find the right guy. If you did not find yet check out our erotic sex personals and you will find a lot of willing man there.

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Finally you found the right guy and you invited him to your home and or a hotel room. You have to be prepared if you want to make this scenario a great sexual experience.

Few tings would be handy, for example you favorite romantic music CD, some drink, maybe candles, maybe some erotic movies. Hopefully you going to need a lot of condom and lube, also you might need few wet baby wipes.

All three of you sit in the living room and your get together do not want to turn to be an erotic get together. Probably you already talked it trough why you guys are there, so all three of you know what should happen and either of you don’t know how to start and or all three of you scare to start.

You need to socialize a bit but not to much. You do not want to spend all night with chatting. You have more important things to do. So have few sip of drinks, it will clam the nerve down, talk a bit and go for it. She just should go to one of the guy and sit in his lap. According to the un-written no commitment swingers sex etiquette, it is very polite if she starts with guest guy. Just sit in his laps and start to touch and or kiss him. This first move will be the hardest, but from here everything should run nice and smooth.

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How To Begin The Erotic Play In Male Female Male Threesome

After few minutes touching and kissing, the permanent partner, or husband 🙂 should  get involved in the play too. He just should go there and for example start to kiss her neck and he should start to undress her. From this point mother nature should take it over. If mother nature wont do it, she has to do.

She can perform erotic dance to both guys, get naked all the way, get them naked too and push some body parts into the guys face, like boobs and butt and pussy. This will do…

She will be extremely horny and the guys should be hard by now too. Remember this was her fantasy and it is getting reality. She have four hands and two mouths over her body. She can play with two eager hard cocks. She can be eaten out by one guy and she can perform oral sex on the other guy. There are millions of things that two guys and a woman can do. There is no foreplay long enough, but at one point the actual intercourse has to begin.

Male  Female Male Threesome Sex Positions

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The double penetration sex position on the picture at left, the lady need to be very flexible. However with that position the guys are in 100%  control. They control the speed and the deepness of the penetration.

The easiest threesome position is the doggy style. In doggy style she can have vaginal penetration with one guy and the other can perform oral sex on her, or he can suck her boobs or she can perform oral sex on the guy.

On the picture at next is a doggy style anal – vaginal double penetration. The extra guy under her, perform vaginal penetration. The guy behind her, moved forward, he is almost top of her and he perform deep anal penetration.

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In threesome safe sex is a most. It is okay to see unprotected sexual intercourse, but it is not okay to perform it.

Also if there is to be anal play, you have to be sure you use latex gloves and change condoms to avoid cross contamination.  If anal penetration is desired, once again the best position is doggy style, but you have to be very careful with the lube. You should not let the lube drip from her but on to her vagina, because that lube going to transfer all kind of nasty bacteria, and she might get a nasty vaginal infections.

If you guys really into the game, you can perform double vaginal penetration.  The easiest way to do it. One guy lies on his back, with wide open legs. She gets on top of him, face to the guy’s face. His cock in her pussy. She bends forward to on his chest as low as she can. He should support himself with his legs and lift up his own hip a little.

Because she is bending forward, and he lifted up her a bit, her but should point to upward, just like on the picture above. The second guy go behind her, and sleeps his penis into her vagina.

This need some practice, the highs really have to mach to make it work, but if the two guys get it right she will achieve an incredible fulfilling orgasm.  Also this position excellent to perform vaginal – anal  double penetration. In that case the guy behind her, have to penetrate her golden hole.

If that above double penetration to much for her, one of the guy can perform vaginal penetration and the other guy can play with any of her body part. And after a while, the guys should rotate.

As I stated above two guys and a woman together, able to do do millions of erotic things.

One more thing….

In our society women have the opportunity to decide between work, family or both. What about sex and orgasm? Do a woman have the same opportunity in sex as in work?

Even though a lot of woman today smart, sassy,  and not just career oriented, a lot of man would answer with a single NO.

Yet while we all imagine we’re having exciting sex lives like the cast of Sex and the City, how many of us actually are? How many woman have mind blowing orgasm frequently?

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Two women and a man threesome FMF can be more fun than it sounds. Make out with a man and a woman at the same time is natural to a lot of women, because  they are bi sexual or bi curious.

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The majority of swingers women prefer men over women for sex, but they have no problem to take one of each. Just because sometimes they get into bi sexual woman to woman sex play, they are not lesbians.

However FFM threesome usually a couple play with an extra woman. In fact if it is ffm, (female – female – male), the man wont have penetrative sex with both women. The two ladies play together, he might watch or he might play with his own partner. The extra lady plays only with the woman from the couple. This lady is a Unicorn.

A lot of married  woman choice is their husband and and another, unicorn woman. Between boring marital sex life and the erotic fantasy are the love triangles. Some people get into casual, NSA sex, because of their erotic fantasy, some others, try to spice up their own bedroom activity with a third person.

You have to be careful, because threesomes and love-triangles can lead into jealousy driven dramas. A threesome should be entertainment, or a fantasy full of sex party.

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Almost every man dream about sex with two girls at once. Also there are many women, who are wondering how it would be go down on an other women, therefore from all threesome sex scenarios, the woman- man-woman FMF three-way is not only the most popular, but also the most likely to make it happen.

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Woman – Woman – Man threesomes offer a most unusual opportunity for female friendship, even if one of the woman not bisexual, she might bi just bi curios.

While cultural taboos require men to be on their guard around each other, this make a two-men – one-woman (MFM if the men are not bi sexual, or MMF if they are bi) party especially tricky.

Women are permitted and develop easier close same sex, bi sexual friendships then men. Open minded  women can add  easier woman to women sex to their marital sex life and their husband will enjoy unique social, and erotic advantages. A woman who can experience other women as lovers or allies rather than as rivals in her relations with men can find an inexhaustible source of pleasure and support among like minded swingers couples and single women.

In our sexually open world, threesome are still relationships, however they are bringing a lot of question into a married couples bedroom. Questions related to jealousy,  manipulation, dishonesty, selfishness, and unwanted discoveries to like or dislike previously un-know intimate sexual activities.

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Not all the risks of open the family bed to a third person are imaginary. Threesomes strengthen many swingers marriage, because the spouses agreed on some rules and kept that rules. Plus experienced swingers know when to end up a sexual relationship. They do it before casual sex turn into something more.

No matter who broaches the initial threesome idea, the motivation to pursue a threesome must grow equally from all parties, whether they are friends or a married couple and a trusted outsider as a third person. It’s not enough for the three to share a hot fantasy with one another, they should make their fantasy reality. A threesome will only live expectations if all three parties bring the benefits of happy, satisfying sex lives of their own to the experience.

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I’ve never had sex outside of a relationship before, so the casual sex aspect as well as the threesome would be quite new to me. Also I never had sex with women, in fact I did not even kiss a woman before… but it is something that I plan to change.

I am not getting any younger, so why should I wait… and I am not in a relationship, so my threesome experience wont hurt anyone.

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There are an enormous number of male female couples looking for an additional  woman, nit just us… You almost consider as  a “unicorn” and hard to find a woman who is willing to play with a man woman couple, therefore you are the rare commodity and the one who gets the change to choose from “hundred”  of couples…

You just need some patience, but you do not need to rush. Be selective. Continue Reading

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The length of the  process depends on how much you like to know about your future sex partner before you sleep with them.Some of us, like I am, communicated a lot before the first meet, webcam or over the phone etc. and there might  be sex on the first meet.

Some others like to go out to dinner, get dated a little. Some like me, meet and great and get naked.

There are things that depends on you, as stated at above, you are a unicorn and it give you some “right” to make your own rules… and the couples have to play, based on your rules… jot you are the one who play on their rules.. I hope you get what I try to say here… Continue Reading

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You should make sure, the woman from the couple into it too… If yes the you both have to establish boundaries on all sides before hand.

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If you do, you need to remember, this will br your first time and just like when you last your virginity… or had your first serious relationship, you didn’t get those 100% right either.

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That is fact you can’t plan for every scenario in a threesome so if you haven’t discussed something, assume it’s a “not ok” and discuss it in the debrief.

After the when it over or between two “rounds” discuss how it made you feel, what you liked, what you didn’t.

The main thing is be honest, and communicate openly about your expectation, you likes and don’t likes.

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