Halloween or not, to spice up your female partner and your own sex life you need to know her erotic fantasies to start with.
If you know her fantasies, than easy to make her love making sessions or casual sex more enjoyable. Read more…
If you want to be a good lover, you have to make sex great sex, but first you need to feel good about yourself. That includes your body and your mind. You have to be confident, you need to know and you have to make her believe in you can do it.
Then you need to let your partner feel good about herself. You need to find out what is in her mind. What is her secret erotic fantasy. Than you need to mastered your technique, your sex move. It is not just to make her orgasm, it is the way to, how to make her obtain a big orgasm. If you can do all the above you are a lucky men. Don’t worry if you can’t. No one is born as a natural lover, you have to learn to become one.
Does your wife or sex partner want as much sex as you do? If not, maybe you’re doing something wrong. Sex is important. Do her right and she will beg for you more and she will introduce you to her friends and they will beg for you more sex too.
Women’s erotic fantasies are often more sexual than men’s. Sometimes they stay erotic fantasies, and sometimes they turn it into reality. If you really would like to enjoy sex, you should make her erotic fantasy real! But first you have to find out, does she have an erotic fantasy? How can you find it out? Talk about your erotic fantasy and ask for hers. Read more…
The easiest way to do it to bring up the topic of sexual fantasies. Open communication is very important in any sexual relationship. Tell her that sometimes you imagine her having sex with strangers and this really gets you going. Ask her if she ever imagines things like this. Ask her if it turns her on? You can mention any of the following erotic fantasies? Probably just the fact of talking about it will arouse her.
Around Halloween, a lot of women’s number one fantasy is to: Being Raped
With all the news of violence and rape in the news towards women, this one took me by surprise. I’m not sure how to react to it and I am not sure how to write about it.
Some women want to be slapped and beat and forced to have sex.
Just like you would expect to see if you were watching a woman get raped.
They want you to put your hand up their skirts and feel their vulva under their panties. They want you to kiss them hard so their lipstick runs across their face.
I think this comes from wanting to be powerless. They want to feel that someone else is in control of them and their fate. Please don’t engage in this sort of thing unless you are 100% sure that she is a willing participant. You could end up actually raping someone and going to jail if you don’t. Read more…
Having sex with strangers
This might sound odd, but women fantasize about this as well. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. People feel like they don’t have a standard they have to live with, since they won’t be coming back for seconds. People engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won’t be judged.
The only thing, they are after is reach orgasm, so if it feels good, then there is no reason to judge. Read more…
The more people the better: Group sex can be exciting for a woman. I don’t mean that they want you to call your buddies over for a gang bang. Some women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with multiply sex partners. That is why they are into swinging.
To Be Spanked
Are you my daddy? Some women like to be controlled or to control their partner. Sometimes they want to be spanked and told to yell out slogans or phrases. Sometimes they may want to spank you and have you suck on things.
Exhibitionism – Having Sex in Public
This really turns some women on, for example this user: I love to have sex with a man while another man is watching
The idea of someone else watching them in the heat of the moment in public can be a real turn on. Find a place that you can feel secure and bang the night away. She will love it. Read more…
While I don’t understand this one, a lot of people love it. Some women want to be told how and when to do things. She might like it when you tell her to lick your testicles and suck on your penis, I have known women who really get off on this sort of thing. Try it out, she might like it. Read more…
Pain – Sex – Pleasures
Some women like to be roughed up a bit. They love to mix the pleasure with pain. They want you to spank them hard and tell them that you will hurt them if you don’t have sex with them. I don’t understand it, to me it sounds too much like rape. But if it gets her off, that is all that matters.
Lesbianism – Bi Sexuality
Having sex with another woman. This shouldn’t be no big surprise. Women can be better at pleasing another woman. Most men like it, some don’t. If your lady bi sexual or just love to play with other women, than just do it, it will turn you on too, you will enjoy it too.
Lesbianism can be a beautiful thing. Have her invite friends over that will also allow you to participate. I have done this and it is great. After the first time you will be hooked. Hell, I can just sit and watch them go at it and I am in ecstasy.
However, just because she plays with an other woman, for example with her best friend, it wont make her bi sexual unicorn, or lesbian, it is just an erotic play. Read more…
Than comes role play. The number one is: Being a Hooker
It is the oldest profession in the world. Some people think it is dirty, some women find it to be a turn on. That is probably why there isn’t a shortage of prostitutes in this world. People like give and receiving rewards for a job well done. If a woman fantasizes about being a hooker, chances are a big part of her fantasy is that the guy gives her a big tip for pleasuring him. This kind of erotic game usually turn the guy on too, because he can ask to do erotic thinks from a hooker, that he might never ask from his spouse.
There are many other sexual role playing activity, like photographer and a model. I am a big hobby photographer and this is my favorite :-), but there are others, like uniforms or teacher student, the handy man, etc.
Than the very common and very enjoyable threesomes. This is common for both men and women. Two people can pleasure better than one. The most common threesome fantasy is for women the doggy style: A man is doing her from behind, while she perform oral sex on another.
Having two partners in bed, doubles the pleasure. Makes the evening more enjoyable. This goes for women as well as it does for men. If she wants you to do this, do it if you are comfortable. If the idea of another man banging your partner is okay with you, do it until your hearts content. Also it can be a big male performance ex-changer, because every guy would like to out perform the other.
If someone invited you to participate in a threesome, just go for it. You will have a lot of fun and she might as well have some fun too.
After three somes, comes the double penetration. Several DB variations are possible, but one thing is sure in all, any of them need experienced partners, good “teamwork” and very open minded men. Otherwise no one will enjoy it.