1 lady with 3 guys at a Halloween Party

I’m a straight single man, not even orally bi or bi curious at all, but I like to play with couples as well as singles. I have a sex friend girlfriend, sometimes we play together and some other times  we add someone into our plays… Anyways I do not want to advertise myself here….

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But I am a healthy man and love sex and casual sex… I would die for nsa sex, and sex parties and it is almost Halloween and this time of the year sex parties are all over….

I have been to parties with peoples from this adult dating website (we met at the group section) where at have been bi men and seen them suck cock. It is something that I am not into and would never ask someone to do for me..

I prefer women or couples. I have friends on here who are bi and attended a gang-bang with them recently.

1 lady and 3 guys, one of the guy was me. At next morning she looked everything but not a lady… She had hard time to walk, hard time to seat down.

Maybe it wasn’t a gang-bang, just a foursome? What ever it was… doesn’t matter, it is fact all of us men was only interested in her vagina and butt hole that night, and we gave it to her all we had… Non of us cared about how messy is she or she might have enough.  She asked for it, and she never say no or no more. There was no any hole on her  body, that did not receive cock at that night, in fact one of  those hole had two cocks at the same time in at the end of the night.

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I know these guys and would attend other parties with them as they know if it is a straight party, then they behave straight. What they do at other parties, that is their business. Right?

The question is: Would you go to a Halloween sex party if you knew there would be bisexual guys there? I guess no need to ask bi girls, because no any men mind bi girls… but they do mind bi men… Continue Reading…


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Women’s Top Halloween Erotic Fantasies

Halloween or not, to  spice up your female partner  and your own sex life you need to know her erotic fantasies to start with.

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If you know her fantasies, than easy to make her love making sessions or casual sex more enjoyable.  Read more…

If you want to be a good lover, you have to make sex great sex, but first you need to feel good about yourself. That includes your body and your mind. You have to be confident, you need to know and you have to make her believe in you can do it.

Then you need to let your partner feel good about herself. You need to find out what is in her mind. What is her secret erotic fantasy. Than you need to mastered your technique, your sex move. It is not just to make her orgasm, it is the way to, how to make her obtain a big orgasm. If you can do all the above you are a lucky men. Don’t worry if you can’t. No one is born as a natural lover, you have to learn to become one.

Does your wife or sex partner want as much sex as you do? If not, maybe you’re doing something wrong. Sex is important. Do her right and she will beg for you more and she will introduce you to her friends and they will beg for you more sex too.

Women’s erotic fantasies are often more sexual than men’s. Sometimes they stay erotic fantasies, and sometimes they turn it into reality. If you really would like to enjoy sex, you should make her erotic fantasy real! But first you have to find out, does she have an erotic fantasy? How can you find  it out? Talk about your erotic fantasy and ask for hers. Read more…

The easiest way to do it to bring up the topic of sexual fantasies. Open communication is very important in any sexual relationship. Tell her that sometimes you imagine her having sex with strangers and this really gets you going. Ask her if she ever imagines things like this. Ask her if it turns her on? You can mention any of the following erotic fantasies? Probably just the fact of talking about it will arouse her.

Around Halloween, a lot of women’s number one fantasy is to: Being Raped

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With all the news of violence and rape in the news towards women, this one took me by surprise. I’m not sure how to react to it and I am not sure how to write about it.

Some women want to be slapped and beat and forced to have sex.

Just like you would expect to see if you were watching a woman get raped.

They want you to put your hand up their skirts and feel their vulva under their panties. They want you to kiss them hard so their lipstick runs across their face.

I think this comes from wanting to be powerless. They want to feel that someone else is in control of them and their fate. Please don’t engage in this sort of thing unless you are 100% sure that she is a willing participant. You could end up actually raping someone and going to jail if you don’t. Read more…

Having sex with strangers

This might sound odd, but women fantasize about this as well. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. People feel like they don’t have a standard they have to live with, since they won’t be coming back for seconds. People engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won’t be judged.

The only thing, they are after is reach orgasm, so if it feels good, then there is no reason to judge. Read more…

Group Sex

The more people the better: Group sex can be exciting for a woman. I don’t mean that they want you to call your buddies over for a gang bang. Some women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with multiply sex partners. That is why they are into swinging.

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To Be Spanked

Are you my daddy? Some women like to be controlled or to control their partner. Sometimes they want to be spanked and told to yell out slogans or phrases. Sometimes they may want to spank you and have you suck on things.

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This really turns some women on, for example this user: I love to have sex with a man while another man is watching

The idea of someone else watching them in the heat of the moment in public can be a real turn on. Find a place that you can feel secure and bang the night away. She will love it. Read more…


While I don’t understand this one, a lot of people love it. Some women want to be told how and when to do things. She might like it when you tell her to lick your testicles and suck on your penis, I have known women who really get off on this sort of thing. Try it out, she might like it. Read more…

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Some women like to be roughed up a bit. They love to mix the pleasure with pain. They want you to spank them hard and tell them that you will hurt them if you don’t have sex with them. I don’t understand it, to me it sounds too much like rape. But if it gets her off, that is all that matters.

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Having sex with another woman. This shouldn’t be no big surprise. Women can be better at pleasing another woman. Most men like it, some don’t. If your lady bi sexual or just love to play with other women, than just do it, it will turn you on too, you  will  enjoy it too.

Lesbianism can be a beautiful thing. Have her invite friends over that will also allow you to participate. I have done this and it is great. After the first time you will be hooked. Hell, I can just sit and watch them go at it and I am in ecstasy.

However, just because she plays with an other woman, for example with her best friend, it wont make her bi sexual unicorn,  or lesbian, it is just an erotic play. Read more…

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Than comes role play. The number one is:  Being a Hooker

It is the oldest profession in the world. Some people think it is dirty, some women find it to be a turn on. That is probably why there isn’t a shortage of prostitutes  in this world. People like give and receiving rewards for a job well done. If a woman fantasizes about being a hooker, chances are a big part of her fantasy is that the guy gives her a big tip for pleasuring him.  This kind of erotic game usually turn the guy on too, because he can ask to do erotic thinks from a hooker, that he might never ask from his spouse.

There are many other sexual role playing activity, like photographer and a model. I am a big hobby photographer and this is my favorite :-), but there  are others, like uniforms or teacher student, the handy man, etc.

Than the very common and very enjoyable threesomes. This is common for both men and women. Two people can pleasure better than one. The most common threesome fantasy is for women the doggy style:  A man is doing her from behind, while she perform oral sex on another.

Having two partners in bed, doubles the pleasure. Makes the evening more enjoyable. This goes for women as well as it does for men. If she wants you to do this, do it if you are comfortable. If the idea of another man banging your partner is okay with you, do it until your hearts content. Also it can be a big male performance ex-changer, because every guy would like to out perform the other.

If someone invited you to participate in a threesome, just go for it. You will have a lot of fun and  she might as well have some fun too.

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Everything Goes Halloween Party

I am middle aged divorced man and need advise. I ran into a woman on Swingers Affair’s website, she have profile I have profile there, I contacted her. I wont say who she is, don’t want to advertise her. After few messages and webcam chat, we decided to have a coffee date. It was okay.

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End of that date we set up a dinner date at  the weekend. Than a day before she called me and she said something came up and she can’t make it, but she invited me to go with her to her friend’s everything goes Halloween Party a week after our would  be date.

I kind of like her and would enjoy to get intimate with her. But if I try and she isn’t into sex on the second date, I might blow my chances, or if I don’t try,  still might blow my chances.

One more thing, I love kissing, a good kissing session really turns me on. Love making and sex, without kissing not that exiting. Much more erotic  with kissing, list for me.  Should I try to kiss her, than lets  see what will happen… Continue Reading…


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If you want to be successful in the bedroom, you better know what erotic power the kiss have. A kiss can be a symbol of affection between relatives and friends. Or kissing can be love play and sex play. In this kind of kiss the lips and the tongue change to be a sexual organ.

In normal everyday life this kind of kissing is the first erotic act between partners. Old Chinese sex gurus, believe in the good kiss can have sexual power, because the lips and the tongue have lot of nerve endings. Those nerve endings react very quickly to erotic stimulation. According to the above sex gurus opinion the upper lip of the women are linked to their clitoris and the lower lip of the men are linked to their penis. However today’s doctors disagree with this.

Some women who are into casual dating, love to be kissed on the mouth. They believe in, the man’s love making ability is directly proportionate of his kissing style. A man who takes his time and effort in kissing will take time in bed too. With good erotic kissing you can taste pleasure and you can explore a new way of being sensual. Kissing can be an important part of anyone’s erotic life, and I think its a good start.

What can happen? She will be into it or she wont. You are not looking for woman to married, so if you blow it, than find someone else. Continue Reading…

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Women, include myslef, dating for two reasons via Internet.

A lot of woman uses dating Websites, because they don’t have time for traditional dating and they looking for romance, friendship, long relationship and or married. If your date fits into this category you wont get lucky on that “everything goes Halloween party“.

Woman in this category usually dress a bit conservative on her first date. She will spend a considerable time and effort to find out as much as possible about you and your family. You should not even try to get intimate this kind of women for a while… But if she dressed very sexy and she openly flirting with you, maybe systematically touching you on your shoulder or arm, then probably she is looking for sex friendship, and fun.

You said you met her on  Swingers Affair’s website. Helloooo… What is your question? Why women goes to Swingers Affair‘s website… It should not be hard to figure out, not even for a middle aged man.  Continue Reading…


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I am sure the marriage is not at the top spot in her wish list, otherwise she would not call you to a everything goes halloween party. If I were you, I would ask her to define everything goes Halloween party. After that definition you will have more ideas what kind of trick and treats can you expect…

Something tells me you might get lucky with her on that party… Continue Reading…


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Some women have “No sex on the first date” rule, even on Swingers Affair,  but this  wont be you first date.

Sound like she takes you to a kinky Halloween party, so go for it. So how far you should go? If you are not a married minded, then you can try to go that far that you dare. Three thinks can happen. The worst, she’ll walk out on you. In this case she is not that kind of person that you are looking for. The second possibility, she will go home, but before she does so, she ask you to give her a call at next day. Then you will get her on next time. Continue Reading…

The third option, you gonna have a hell off everything goes Halloween party.

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Halloween Party with Vaginal Double Penetration

There is no anal vaginal double penetration without anal sex. The  problem comes if she is not into anal sex and a lot of  woman do not care for anal sex. If you or your partner are one of those women, than you have to forget anal – vaginal double penetration, or if you are  a man, than you need to find a partner who is into anal vaginal double penetration.

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Personally, I find it to be very pleasant… There is nothing better than play at a erotic party, and  I am sandwiched between two guys and one has his cock buried in my pussy while the other guy (after getting well- lubricated) slides into my back door. What a feeling of fullness…

I hope it will happen at our up coming Halloween party. If you part of a couple or are a woman and thinking about double penetration, you need to get few things, before you make something stupid…

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At first if  you tried anal sex and it does not hurt, you may want to give this a try sometime.  However if anal sex hurts,  there is another variation of the “sandwich” that can bring a special pleasure to all of you, if you try.

It is a male  female male threesome, a mfm with vaginal double penetration. I know it sound like torture, but its not, if you and your partners do it right.

Consider having your “partner #1 man” lay on his back with his legs dangling off the bed. Put a couple of pillows under his ass to raise him high. Get him rock hard, and then lower yourself onto him, face to face. Raise yourself up and down a few times so you both enjoy his full penetration. Then, spin yourself around so you are facing away from him. Invite your “partner #2 man” to come over and neck with you, while you slowly raise and lower yourself off and onto “# 1’s” pole. Meanwhile, use your hand to get “#2″ as hard as possible.

When he is hard, pull him close to you, fact to face. You are facing a way from partner #1. Partner #2 is front of you, between your and your partner #1 legs. He have full few and  full access to your vagina. You pulled him close to to you  and should press his cock against ” #1’s” as it slides in and out of your pussy.

Their cock will touch each other’s cock, they don’t need to be bi sexual, if a cock an others cock, well that does not make anyone gay, but if they can’t handle this than they just have to forget it.

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You lay back to toward to partner #1. You back goes closer to his face, you support your weight with your arm, as you lower your back, your pussy position change, make easier to enter for partner #2. Then, when he is thrusting in, pull the tip of “#2’s” cock up against “#1’s” and under the hood of your pussy. Let the two cocks rub together like that a few times.  Remember to lean back a bit, letting “#1” reach around to play with your breasts so “#2” can straddle his legs (and be between your legs), so he can get real close and insert himself into you along with “#1”.

This may result in a three-high sandwich, or, after “#2” is inside with “#1,” you may roll to the side for a side-by-side- by-side sandwich with the cocks of both men inside your pussy.

You will find yourself feeling VERY full, with a whole new kind of wonderful erotic sensation coursing through your body. The guys will find it to be a highly satisfying experience too. I’ll bet one or both of the guys will shoot their load very quickly.

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When I have had two guys do this to me a few times, I have found that they eventually gain control over their cocks, and can pump me for quite a time… Often with alternating strokes… Bringing me to numerous orgasms and a fantastic high… Before they come.

This is a perfect Halloween role play scenario, prostitute and  two pimps. If you try, does not matter  you are woman or man, but if you try, I guaranty this Halloween Party will be your best Halloween and the most erotic Halloween Party ever.

Of course, like everything else in the life, practice will make it perfect.


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Sex Party in September

A sex party sounds silly and taboo for a lot of people at anytime, not just in September. I don’t think you are one of those people, or you would not read this.

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I am sure you are curious about sex parties and if you know a few things about them and if you know how to host a good one, and you decide to host one, you should make your home work, before you jump into hard core sex partying…

Anyways, you never know what will happens until you not try, but I can say it from experience, a good sex party can give you and your partner a sexual high at any month, not just in September…

What makes a sex party a good sex party?

The best sex parties have themes or role playing. Themes like pajama party, or roman orgy, or no underwear party, or wear limited clothes ( 2- 3 pieces) . Role playing sex parties, like erotic photography, or erotic move making, or techer and students, etc.

Does not matter if your party is a themed party or not, either way, you and your invited guests have to enjoy it. Its applies for any party, a party is a good party as long as the participating persons have a good time. If it is a sex party and you and your lover or partner enjoy it, and don’t cross your own intimate boundaries, than is no problem. In fact there is no harm in trying something new and sexually exciting.

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Adult parties and sex.

On the traditional world, sex is privet matter between two people.  However our world is not a traditional world and sex can be a privet matter between two or more people, even though your neighbors think that is wrong.

I am don’t worry about what others think, its my life  and my sex life. If you’re in a secure relationship with your partner, and both of you really love each other, don’t let anyone to set the boundaries for you on what’s right or what’s wrong.

So how to start?

At first you have to have, invite willing people. If you do not know anyone, browse the Internet. There are millions of men women and couples, virtually from or close to any city, who are like you – curious about sex party. Find them contact them and invite them.

The second option is faster and easier, get together with your friends and ask them to bring someone to party with. Ask them to find willing partner, then you just need to worry about your partner.

The best party is   happens if the number of people right… which is 6 – 8 people. If your living room, or a hotel room  is full with naked people, that is something that not a lot of people enjoys, except if they exhibitionist. A good sex party don’t need more than 3 or 4 couples.

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A sex party starts like any other party and does not have to end up with intercourse. There are many different kind of sex. If someone decide to have penetrative sex, than you should provide a “play room” except if they like to be  watched.

People at sex parties many times go somewhere privet to go all the way, and this is “totally” except able.

A good sex party  happens when the participating people are don’t scare a little voyeurism, they open minded. They should be clean should look sexy and healthy. If you partner have a terrible headache, well that is just kill the party mood.  Continue reading…


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I am just thinking about sex parties and  my pussy getting wet