What makes casual sex so attractive for married couples?

Married couples try casual sex and they might end up in a swingers club. Why? What is about swinging that keep married couples share their marital sex life with others?

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No string attached sex can be fun and pleasure, with other words casual sex a  lot of erotic fun, if done properly.

Oh, you are not married, you are single, but you are here to find a man woman couple for nsa sex.  It might happen, but it takes time, however before you get into this “lifestyle”, you should  know few things.  The most important is; What you should expect if you find that couple?  Keep reading and you will find it out based on our experience.

When a man – woman couple get into casual sex, usually they try to find an other couple or a extra partner. The gender of that partner depends on their preferences and on their erotic fantasy.  If their first  nsa sex experience turn to be a positive, then they might try few more times. If they want more,  they might end up visit swingers clubs.  People go to swingers club for the same reason, which is, to have sex…

New couples usually into no string attached sex plays  2 – 3 years and then they take a break. In a lot of cases this break is the end of their shared or nsa sex play, however if they get back into the lifestyle, then they will stay for many more years.

I, as a male part of the couple don’t know for sure why women love to have sex with different men,  so I can’t tell you that, you better ask my wife. But I know why I love it, but its bring up  another question that I should talk about first.

The question is; Why does married men loves other women’s pussy?

It is simple, boring marital sex life, fun factor, more experienced woman, safe sex and 80% of sexually active men always want new pussy. The rest of them, that 20% want it too, but they lie about it, even for themselves.   New toys, new pussy… I guess its men’s things.

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We as a couple got into casual sex because the sparks disappeared from our  marital love life.  Our relationship was and is in secure and we love each other more then ever, but sex was not the same anymore.  Love making became dirty work. We knew, we need to make some changes, to bring those sparks back into our bedroom. So we tried nsa, we loved it, in fact ever since we are loving it.

The basic idea originate from my wife. Once upon a time,  one night we talked about everything at the front of the TV, include our neighbor.  She was a divorced lady and she had a lover, half of her age. Than my wife said something like, she was wondering how sex would be with a man who is young enough to be our son.  We have no child, our business was more important then children, so there is no ethical question if and what will happen if our children finds it out…

Anyways, I told to her, you never gonna find it out, if you never try… She agreed, she said you are right, I never going to find out. But no one can predict the future… The subject like a ghost kept come back again and again, usually when the neighbor’s lover’s car parked on her driveway. Than one day I told to her she should find a  willing young man. She said she doesn’t think I can handle it, well I wasn’t sure how will I handle it, but I told to her we will find out if time comes…  However there was one condition, I want to be there in the same room, I want to see all.

Than she agreed she will try, so we registered to this adult dating website and started our search.  Even though there are more men the women here, its not easy to find the right man. We had hours of video chat and more than few coffee dates, and months passed by and nothing happened, the guys did not show up for the second date.  Than we changed our tactic, video chat, coffee date and if there is some attraction,  we go to a hotel room. It started very promising,  but the first guy could not get it hard. The second blow his load before he got naked…

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Than we found a man. A young guy, 15 years younger than my wife,  he hold university degree, he is very polite, easy going, we can talk about anything and everything with him and for bonus, he was and he is a good sex partner. Our casual sex journey began with him. We developed a sex friendship with him, in fact he introduced his girlfriend to us  and let me tell you, I thought his girlfriend have the sweetest pussy that I ever tasted…  Our friendship is still ongoing, we still get together every now and than, but we and they play with others too.

Than we ended up in a swingers club, and my wife had sex with two men in a hotel room after the club hours. That was very erotic, I love to see her while being pleased by two men at the same time. Of course I had my share of fun too, somehow always is the latest pussy is the best pussy.  When I see my beautiful wife, while other man’s hard cock dug deep into her love tunnel, and I play with that man’s wife or partner, it always makes me want more pussy.  It always makes me teenager again,  its something like you are teenager again and you can perform better and more and teenagers don’t need Viagra… Plus as time goes  quantity replaced by quality, because of experience, so nsa sex made me a better lover.

There is nothing better than watch my wife during sex. Its always turn me on. I love to see her erect nipple in other guy’s mouth, I love to see her moaning with pleasure as sliding up and down other man’s erected shaft. Between two intercourse a big turn on for me, just to see her entertain or being entertained by one or two men, its always give me a hard on.

But there are many other reason, for example, for a mfm threesome you need two men and a woman.  Continue reading…

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We supposedly should have a threesome at the coming up Easter weekend, combined with double penetration. We were talk about it a lot and I really would like to experience that MFM double three way with my wife. That would be a nice present from Easter bunny…

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She loves DP with me and a toy, and think she would really like two real cocks at once better, but as Easter getting closer… she is getting more and more uncertain about it…

In fact she, just said today morning, she wont be able to try and the idea was hers… She started to mention it, kind of talked me into it. Wasn’t to hard, because I love this idea too… Do you think this could be a self confidence issue? Continue Reading…

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I doubt it’s a confidence issue… Probably more a fact that there is a huge difference between fantasy and reality.

Maybe she doesn’t want another cock, maybe the dildo is enough for her pleasure… or maybe she does not like the third guy. You should as her… No one can tell you what is her problem. Continue Reading…

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Without knowing her it is hard to answer your question. It could be confidence. It could be she thinks about a threesome but in reality isn’t ready for it yet. It could be she doesn’t want a threesome at all.

I myself have entertained the idea of a MFM or MFF & have discussed it with my current sex friend who has had them before but he never pushes me to do it. He simply discusses or jokes with me & figures if & when I am ready for reality I will tell him.

If it is something you really want you need to discuss it with her and if she is not for it you cannot push her to do anything she does not want or is not ready for. If she will do it only
to please you it can end up being a disaster & not fun for her or any of you & you certainly do not want that.

Open communication & give/take is the key to making it a good experience here. Continue Reading…

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Maybe she has problem with the timing. Easter id not for casual sex for a lot of people and maybe she is one of them. Maybe she grew up in a very religious family (it can be even if you do not know) and a lot of people don’t like to talk about religion and they don’t like to mix nsa sex with religion…

You best bet… ask her. Continue Reading…

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Talk about it at length with your wife. There could be many factors that influence her decision not to try it.

But if she is adamant that she does not DB, you will have to respect her choice. If I were you, I would ask her to go for threesome, with out double penetration at first… so if she like that, than you can got to the next step after few times… Continue Reading…

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I think it’s a preference issue. As in she prefers you and a toy and isn’t at all interested in a third party… A lot of people would be happy if their wife is as kinky than yours, so you should be happy too…

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I find it interesting… all threesomes and double penetration issue is posted by men. Looks like men have only problem with it… I think because men want to set it up and it makes me think, isn’t some kind of bi sexual curiosity behind it?

Set up a mfm three-way to her and in the heat of the moment things can happen between the too men. Let her set it up, let her choose partner and if she does not want it, just forget it.

Instead threesome you can spend some time in a church at Easter time. Definitely would not make any damage in you dirty mind… Continue Reading…

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The wife fantasy is a mfm threesome at Easter’s weekend

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I am represent a married couple here. We got married in the local Catholic’s church, but just because we are catholic, it does not mean we do not like sex…

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Our problem is, our long time fantasy (it is mainly my, the wife’s) is a mfm threesome, and I hope it will be reality very soon, because  we get invited to a house party at  Easter’s Saturday. The host couple did not say, it would be a sex party, but we know, they are into casual sex play and swinging.

I am sure we will have an opportunity to make our fantasy real, if we go to that party, but my hubby say, a mfm threesome is not a good idea at Easter time… I strongly disagree with him, but we decided to get advice from more experienced people…

Ladies and gentlemen: Is it a good idea to try a mfm threesome or better not at Eastern Saturday Continue Reading…

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Celebrate Easter with threesome.

For me Easter’s Saturday is like any other Saturday, therefore I  personally believe a mfm threesome is always a good idea… even for you. You try it, and if you do not like it, you wont do anymore, but if you wont try it, it always will be in your mind, something like you missed to opportunity…

If I were you I would go for it… Continue Reading…

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We use to have threesome fantasy too and that is not just fantasy anymore… a well organized mfm is a lot of fun, but I have my sayin’.

You wrote you are Catholic, hardcore Catholics do not have sex outside in their marriage, plus hard core Catholics go in the church at Easter time, not to a party in a hope to find partner for threesome sex, so I assume, you are not that hard core Catholics.

Therefore why not? As it stated at above, if you never try, you never know you are going to like it or not… Continue Reading…

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Threesomes are good at any times, if the players into the mood…

At above is; “hardcore Catholics do not have sex outside in their marriage”. I agree with that sentence, so they are maybe… planning to keep that threesome in the family.

Dad, mom and the oldest boy… What happens in the family, stays in the family… Continue Reading…

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Thanks for you advice chic but no, we do not want to have that threesome with our child, our marriage is child less, but your post planted an idea in my mind… a mfm would be a lot of fun with a man who is young enough to be my son… Continue Reading…

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The wife and I really like threesomes and we are both very straight. We would not have any problem with three way sex at Easter Saturday, as it stated above, it is like any other Saturday for us.

You never know if you don’t try… Continue Reading…

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I’ve only participated in a couple of mfm’s and a few fmf’s threesome.

Apart from the 1st mfm was a bit awkward at the start (it was with a friend of mine and a girl we both new and I always thought it would be with a stranger couple). However it turned to be real good when we passed that few uncomfortable minutes.

All the other three ways were fantastic and I cant wait for next one. You should go for it. Continue Reading…

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If all three parties involved are all on the same page and in agreement with the rules etc. then it should be all good, even at Eastern Saturday.

Your husband does not like the idea, so his not on the same page, so don’t do it or you risk your marriage. He might not ready for see you have sex with other men, or maybe he back off because of his religion.

Either way, I would back off too, but I would tell him, “You are right honey, we should not go to that  Sex Party at Easter , not even sure it will be a sex party, but I do not give up on my fantasy and I really want to get over with, so I will try to find a young guy and you and him can make my fantasy reality. I’ll wait a week or two, but no more.”

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The next story is explained by the wife. According to her, it really happened with them, but she twisted it a little. She changed the names and she changed the story’s line, in real life it didn’t happen that smooth, how she explained it in the story.

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With the words “did not happen that smooth” I mean they had some problems, with the third guy. He did not mind to have sex with her in his car (with out her husband knowledge), but he did not want to have sex with her – at front of and or together with her husband. He found  some excuses, but she thinks the real reason was, he had difficulties to perform in the presence of her husband. Think like this can happen and  happens very often with “new bies” mainly first timer men in threesome.

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Before you read the next story let me tell you, we were talking a lot with my hubby about swinging, swingers, threesomes, and swinger’s clubs. We even read erotic stories together and watched several really hot swingers party videos together, but somehow we never did anything more.

We just talked and fantasized about; how it would feel to have sex with more then one sex partner at the same time. We even talked about who could be a potential sex partner for a threesome, ( both of our fantasy was: male – female – male threesome) but either of us had the courage to say, okay lets  give it a try. Until recently…

My husband Tim is 40 years old, and I am 42. We have been married now for 15 years, and we have 2 children. We are both fit, attractive and healthy.  My husband workplace is unionized and the UNION organized a fundraising dinner party to collect money for their scholarship. We knew, few of our  friends (girls and guys from where Tim works) will be there.

The party was to be held at a local Restaurant. I had a new dress for the occasion, and according to Tim, I looked very sexy as we prepared to go out. I was really looking forward to the evening, as we had not been out for some time. At that time I did not even think about threesomes or anything that related to sex.

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We arrived at the restaurant and were quickly into the party mood of things as we mingled in the crowd. As the evening wore on, we had our dinner, that was great, the UNION made  their pitch for money, but I am not here to talk about pitches.

One guy at our table was Tim’s co-workers, Tony, a single guy of about 27. He quickly attached himself to me and entertained me in conversation, about some friends of ours whom we both hadn’t seen for a while. My hubby got tired of our conversation and took of to play billiard with some guys, whom I had not even see before.

Tony and I moved to the bar’s kept talking and drinking. I am not a big drinker and I had more rum and coke than I should have. Tony is a really nice guy and he was very charming. The alcohol, the romantic music plus the young guy and the subject of our talk turned me on. I became aware that I was sexually attracted to him, and I began flirt with him.

As we talked, Tony started to touch me, at first my arm, and because I did not resist at all, then he started touch my shoulder and neck. I responded by shifting in my seat and moved closer to him. It made me very excited having him so close as he was flirting hard. I let my dress slide up my legs to show the stockings I had worn.

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I knew that Tony could clearly see my upper legs. By the way I had a very nice long sexy legs. He responded to my play and placed his hand on my thigh and began to play with the tops of my stockings, he kept pulling it a way from my legs. At that point I  wasn’t sure what should I do, what would be the “proper” thing to do.

Things were getting out of control, I could smell the danger, but I did not want him to stop. I looked around, and it looked like nobody seemed to care about where Tony’s hand was. Also I could not see my husband anywhere. I was really enjoying Tony’s action. Which woman wouldn’t? A man who is 15 years younger then me, paying all this attention to me.

Than my hubby and his billiard partner showed up. Continue Reading…

 

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There is no anal vaginal double penetration without anal sex. The  problem comes if she is not into anal sex and a lot of  woman do not care for anal sex. If you or your partner are one of those women, than you have to forget anal – vaginal double penetration, or if you are  a man, than you need to find a partner who is into anal vaginal double penetration.

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Personally, I find it to be very pleasant… There is nothing better than play at a erotic party, and  I am sandwiched between two guys and one has his cock buried in my pussy while the other guy (after getting well- lubricated) slides into my back door. What a feeling of fullness…

I hope it will happen at our up coming Halloween party. If you part of a couple or are a woman and thinking about double penetration, you need to get few things, before you make something stupid…

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At first if  you tried anal sex and it does not hurt, you may want to give this a try sometime.  However if anal sex hurts,  there is another variation of the “sandwich” that can bring a special pleasure to all of you, if you try.

It is a male  female male threesome, a mfm with vaginal double penetration. I know it sound like torture, but its not, if you and your partners do it right.

Consider having your “partner #1 man” lay on his back with his legs dangling off the bed. Put a couple of pillows under his ass to raise him high. Get him rock hard, and then lower yourself onto him, face to face. Raise yourself up and down a few times so you both enjoy his full penetration. Then, spin yourself around so you are facing away from him. Invite your “partner #2 man” to come over and neck with you, while you slowly raise and lower yourself off and onto “# 1’s” pole. Meanwhile, use your hand to get “#2″ as hard as possible.

When he is hard, pull him close to you, fact to face. You are facing a way from partner #1. Partner #2 is front of you, between your and your partner #1 legs. He have full few and  full access to your vagina. You pulled him close to to you  and should press his cock against ” #1’s” as it slides in and out of your pussy.

Their cock will touch each other’s cock, they don’t need to be bi sexual, if a cock an others cock, well that does not make anyone gay, but if they can’t handle this than they just have to forget it.

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You lay back to toward to partner #1. You back goes closer to his face, you support your weight with your arm, as you lower your back, your pussy position change, make easier to enter for partner #2. Then, when he is thrusting in, pull the tip of “#2’s” cock up against “#1’s” and under the hood of your pussy. Let the two cocks rub together like that a few times.  Remember to lean back a bit, letting “#1” reach around to play with your breasts so “#2” can straddle his legs (and be between your legs), so he can get real close and insert himself into you along with “#1”.

This may result in a three-high sandwich, or, after “#2” is inside with “#1,” you may roll to the side for a side-by-side- by-side sandwich with the cocks of both men inside your pussy.

You will find yourself feeling VERY full, with a whole new kind of wonderful erotic sensation coursing through your body. The guys will find it to be a highly satisfying experience too. I’ll bet one or both of the guys will shoot their load very quickly.

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When I have had two guys do this to me a few times, I have found that they eventually gain control over their cocks, and can pump me for quite a time… Often with alternating strokes… Bringing me to numerous orgasms and a fantastic high… Before they come.

This is a perfect Halloween role play scenario, prostitute and  two pimps. If you try, does not matter  you are woman or man, but if you try, I guaranty this Halloween Party will be your best Halloween and the most erotic Halloween Party ever.

Of course, like everything else in the life, practice will make it perfect.

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