What makes casual sex so attractive for married couples?

Married couples try casual sex and they might end up in a swingers club. Why? What is about swinging that keep married couples share their marital sex life with others?

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No string attached sex can be fun and pleasure, with other words casual sex a  lot of erotic fun, if done properly.

Oh, you are not married, you are single, but you are here to find a man woman couple for nsa sex.  It might happen, but it takes time, however before you get into this “lifestyle”, you should  know few things.  The most important is; What you should expect if you find that couple?  Keep reading and you will find it out based on our experience.

When a man – woman couple get into casual sex, usually they try to find an other couple or a extra partner. The gender of that partner depends on their preferences and on their erotic fantasy.  If their first  nsa sex experience turn to be a positive, then they might try few more times. If they want more,  they might end up visit swingers clubs.  People go to swingers club for the same reason, which is, to have sex…

New couples usually into no string attached sex plays  2 – 3 years and then they take a break. In a lot of cases this break is the end of their shared or nsa sex play, however if they get back into the lifestyle, then they will stay for many more years.

I, as a male part of the couple don’t know for sure why women love to have sex with different men,  so I can’t tell you that, you better ask my wife. But I know why I love it, but its bring up  another question that I should talk about first.

The question is; Why does married men loves other women’s pussy?

It is simple, boring marital sex life, fun factor, more experienced woman, safe sex and 80% of sexually active men always want new pussy. The rest of them, that 20% want it too, but they lie about it, even for themselves.   New toys, new pussy… I guess its men’s things.

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We as a couple got into casual sex because the sparks disappeared from our  marital love life.  Our relationship was and is in secure and we love each other more then ever, but sex was not the same anymore.  Love making became dirty work. We knew, we need to make some changes, to bring those sparks back into our bedroom. So we tried nsa, we loved it, in fact ever since we are loving it.

The basic idea originate from my wife. Once upon a time,  one night we talked about everything at the front of the TV, include our neighbor.  She was a divorced lady and she had a lover, half of her age. Than my wife said something like, she was wondering how sex would be with a man who is young enough to be our son.  We have no child, our business was more important then children, so there is no ethical question if and what will happen if our children finds it out…

Anyways, I told to her, you never gonna find it out, if you never try… She agreed, she said you are right, I never going to find out. But no one can predict the future… The subject like a ghost kept come back again and again, usually when the neighbor’s lover’s car parked on her driveway. Than one day I told to her she should find a  willing young man. She said she doesn’t think I can handle it, well I wasn’t sure how will I handle it, but I told to her we will find out if time comes…  However there was one condition, I want to be there in the same room, I want to see all.

Than she agreed she will try, so we registered to this adult dating website and started our search.  Even though there are more men the women here, its not easy to find the right man. We had hours of video chat and more than few coffee dates, and months passed by and nothing happened, the guys did not show up for the second date.  Than we changed our tactic, video chat, coffee date and if there is some attraction,  we go to a hotel room. It started very promising,  but the first guy could not get it hard. The second blow his load before he got naked…

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Than we found a man. A young guy, 15 years younger than my wife,  he hold university degree, he is very polite, easy going, we can talk about anything and everything with him and for bonus, he was and he is a good sex partner. Our casual sex journey began with him. We developed a sex friendship with him, in fact he introduced his girlfriend to us  and let me tell you, I thought his girlfriend have the sweetest pussy that I ever tasted…  Our friendship is still ongoing, we still get together every now and than, but we and they play with others too.

Than we ended up in a swingers club, and my wife had sex with two men in a hotel room after the club hours. That was very erotic, I love to see her while being pleased by two men at the same time. Of course I had my share of fun too, somehow always is the latest pussy is the best pussy.  When I see my beautiful wife, while other man’s hard cock dug deep into her love tunnel, and I play with that man’s wife or partner, it always makes me want more pussy.  It always makes me teenager again,  its something like you are teenager again and you can perform better and more and teenagers don’t need Viagra… Plus as time goes  quantity replaced by quality, because of experience, so nsa sex made me a better lover.

There is nothing better than watch my wife during sex. Its always turn me on. I love to see her erect nipple in other guy’s mouth, I love to see her moaning with pleasure as sliding up and down other man’s erected shaft. Between two intercourse a big turn on for me, just to see her entertain or being entertained by one or two men, its always give me a hard on.

But there are many other reason, for example, for a mfm threesome you need two men and a woman.  Continue reading…

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Two Women One Man Threesome

Two women and a man threesome, FFM – threesome can be more fun than it sounds. Erotic play with a man and a woman at the same time is natural to a lot of woman, because they are bi sexual or bi curious. The majority of swingers women prefer men over women for sex, but they have no problem to take one of each. Just because every now and then they have bi sexual activity, they are not lesbians.

Unicorn Women in Threesomes

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A couple plays with an extra woman that is a FFM threesome. In fact if it is ffm, (female – female – male), the man wont have penetrative sex with both women. The two ladies plays together, he might watch or he might play with his own partner. The extra lady plays only with the woman from the couple. This lady is a Unicorn. Continue Reading

A lot of married woman choice for leisure  sex is, their husband and a unicorn woman. Between boring marital sex life and the erotic fantasy are the love triangles. Some people get into casual, NSA sex, because of their erotic fantasy, some others, try to spice up their own bedroom activity with a third person.

You have to be careful, threesomes and love-triangles can lead into jealousy driven dramas. A threesome should be entertainment,  leisure sex play, or a fantasy full of sex party.

Intercourse with Two Girls at Once

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Almost every man dream about sex with two girls at once. There are many women, who are wondering how would it be, go down on an other woman, therefore from all threesome sex scenarios, the woman- man-woman FMF three-way is not only the most popular, but also the most likely to make it happen. In this threesome the man have chance to perform penetrative sex on both women and if the women want, they free to play with each other.

Woman – Woman – Man threesomes offer a most unusual opportunity for female friendship, even if one of the woman not bisexual, she might bi just bi curios. In this threesome, the man can have penetrative sex with his own partner only. Continue Reading

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While cultural taboos require men to be on their guard around each other, this make a two-men – one-woman (MFM if the men are not bi sexual, or MMF if they are bi) party especially tricky.

Women are permitted and develop easier close same sex, bi sexual friendships then men. Open minded women can add a female to have woman to women sex to spice their marital sex life up, and their husband will enjoy unique social, and erotic advantages. A woman who can experience other women as lovers or allies rather than as rivals in her relations with men can find an inexhaustible source of pleasure and support among like minded swingers couples and single women.

In our sexually open world, threesome are still relationships, but they are bringing a lot of question into a married couples bedroom. Questions related to jealousy, manipulation, dishonesty, selfishness, and unwanted discoveries to like or dislike previously un-know intimate sexual activities. Continue Reading

Threesomes & Marriages

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Not all the risks of open the family bed to a third person are imaginary. Threesomes strengthen many swingers marriage, because the spouses agreed on some rules and kept that rules. Plus experienced swingers know when to end up a sexual relationship. They do it before casual sex turn into something more.

No matter who broaches the initial threesome idea, the motivation to pursue a threesome must grow equally from all parties, whether they are friends or a married couple and a trusted outsider as a third person. It’s not enough for the three to share a hot fantasy with one another, they should make their fantasy reality. A threesome will only live expectations if all three parties bring the benefits of happy, satisfying sex lives of their own to the experience. Continue Reading

Spontaneous Threesome

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Spontaneous threesomes do occasionally erupt among singles in the heat of the moment, but more commonly an established couple forms the base of the triad. Threesome like this begins as a shared notion between the couple, that eventually evolves into the active pursuit of a third participant.

That evolution should contain discussion of what might or might not happen. Some couples entertain themselves with the threesome fantasy for many years before giving it a go. There’s no reason to force the issue if one or the other do not like the idea. Until you feel absolute confidence in your generosity toward each other, hold off.

You and your primary partner are a team, and the team must function smoothly before adding an extra person to it. Then there’s still the problem of finding a compatible third. It’s better to wait for the right person and situation to come along than to rush into something that you will regret later on.

If you’re not ready yet but your most likely third partner is moving Antarctica next month, don’t race to fit her or him into your marital sex life. Instead, bid her a goodbye kiss on the chick and hold on your threesome dream with. You can find an other person to build or develop some kind of erotic chemistry by browsing our members profile. Continue Reading

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Halloween Party with Vaginal Double Penetration

There is no anal vaginal double penetration without anal sex. The  problem comes if she is not into anal sex and a lot of  woman do not care for anal sex. If you or your partner are one of those women, than you have to forget anal – vaginal double penetration, or if you are  a man, than you need to find a partner who is into anal vaginal double penetration.

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Personally, I find it to be very pleasant… There is nothing better than play at a erotic party, and  I am sandwiched between two guys and one has his cock buried in my pussy while the other guy (after getting well- lubricated) slides into my back door. What a feeling of fullness…

I hope it will happen at our up coming Halloween party. If you part of a couple or are a woman and thinking about double penetration, you need to get few things, before you make something stupid…

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At first if  you tried anal sex and it does not hurt, you may want to give this a try sometime.  However if anal sex hurts,  there is another variation of the “sandwich” that can bring a special pleasure to all of you, if you try.

It is a male  female male threesome, a mfm with vaginal double penetration. I know it sound like torture, but its not, if you and your partners do it right.

Consider having your “partner #1 man” lay on his back with his legs dangling off the bed. Put a couple of pillows under his ass to raise him high. Get him rock hard, and then lower yourself onto him, face to face. Raise yourself up and down a few times so you both enjoy his full penetration. Then, spin yourself around so you are facing away from him. Invite your “partner #2 man” to come over and neck with you, while you slowly raise and lower yourself off and onto “# 1’s” pole. Meanwhile, use your hand to get “#2″ as hard as possible.

When he is hard, pull him close to you, fact to face. You are facing a way from partner #1. Partner #2 is front of you, between your and your partner #1 legs. He have full few and  full access to your vagina. You pulled him close to to you  and should press his cock against ” #1’s” as it slides in and out of your pussy.

Their cock will touch each other’s cock, they don’t need to be bi sexual, if a cock an others cock, well that does not make anyone gay, but if they can’t handle this than they just have to forget it.

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You lay back to toward to partner #1. You back goes closer to his face, you support your weight with your arm, as you lower your back, your pussy position change, make easier to enter for partner #2. Then, when he is thrusting in, pull the tip of “#2’s” cock up against “#1’s” and under the hood of your pussy. Let the two cocks rub together like that a few times.  Remember to lean back a bit, letting “#1” reach around to play with your breasts so “#2” can straddle his legs (and be between your legs), so he can get real close and insert himself into you along with “#1”.

This may result in a three-high sandwich, or, after “#2” is inside with “#1,” you may roll to the side for a side-by-side- by-side sandwich with the cocks of both men inside your pussy.

You will find yourself feeling VERY full, with a whole new kind of wonderful erotic sensation coursing through your body. The guys will find it to be a highly satisfying experience too. I’ll bet one or both of the guys will shoot their load very quickly.

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When I have had two guys do this to me a few times, I have found that they eventually gain control over their cocks, and can pump me for quite a time… Often with alternating strokes… Bringing me to numerous orgasms and a fantastic high… Before they come.

This is a perfect Halloween role play scenario, prostitute and  two pimps. If you try, does not matter  you are woman or man, but if you try, I guaranty this Halloween Party will be your best Halloween and the most erotic Halloween Party ever.

Of course, like everything else in the life, practice will make it perfect.

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We Can’t Find Single Men For Our Adult Halloween Party

Here is our dilemma… What’s wrong with single men these days? They are acting like losers,  all mouth and no action lately. They do the talk but don’t do the walk.

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Let me explain… We will host an adult Halloween party around Halloween, together with two friends couple.  The two couples my hubby and I and to make that party a really kinky Halloween party we need a list one single man.

We are working on to find a willing single guy, no success yet. A lot of talk…  a lot of wanna be sex friend guy, so we filter them down to two. We met with those two  for a coffee (separately) and we explained our rules, which is simple, hubby is always present, safe sex only and no sex play between men. Both guys was okay with and I felt they just want to hump me on the spot during that coffee date. I guess I was wrong… Continue reading…

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Hubby and I decided to make a “warm” up Halloween party. One party with one guy at last weekend, and one party with the other guy this past weekend. None of them showed up and either of them bothered to find or give us some excuse, why they did not show up.

I am not  sure; what is wrong? It must to be something with us, we are late 30’s and definitely not a supper model type, but I think and many others think too, we are attractive. We not hide our age, we do not hide our body (mainly my) there about 20+ erotic picture  are attached to our profile.

We met in person, we stated they don’t need to date us, they come to party with us,  there is no commitment, if they like it and we like it, than maybe will be second party.

I think its fair enough, unfortunately looks like if  a married couple want a  extra man, they need to find an other couple, because single guys are chicken these days, but that is not the same. Sometimes hubby does not want to play with other women and if we play with a couple, that creates problem, so we need single men… Continue reading…

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You chose the wrong guys. Probably they are “fake” single, or bi sexual. Your offer is a really good offer for any straight single guy. No attachment, just go an play. If they do okay, maybe more play. No any guy who I know, would turn this offer down.

Those guys (the guys who I know) would go after you and try to make sure, you did not change your mind or change the date or location etc.

If a man really want to play he would be super excited about partying with woman like you… especial at Halloween. My man for sure would be more than happy to participate in your  adult Halloween party, but fortunately we live at the other end of the country.

I am sure you made a mistake in your selection… wrong men. Try again and you will succeed. Continue reading…

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Thinks like this happens and happened with us too. There are to many players…

I find it not acceptable on any level of dating,  casual or romantic, no show up and no excuse, that gives ground to move on. Find some other guys, your best bet would be a University student. Those guys don’t have time for romance, but they need sex too… Continue reading…

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It happened with us too and we found a solution. Actually it is quiet simple…

We always play in hotel or motel setting and single guys have to pay their part too, upfront. Threesome need three person, so the hotel bill will be shared between the tree of us. Single guy need to pay his bill before the party. If he does not pay, then he is out. Continue reading…

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If someone would ask the above question from me, I would answer with an other question; Why not? Than I would ask; What kind of threesome is in your mind, with  two men or with two women?

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There are many kind of threesomes, so we should not get into, what kind of that imaginary threesome would be. Lets talk about “just” threesomes  at first, however I prefer threesomes with two men.

Imagine you and your partner, girlfriend – boyfriend or spouse and an extra person together in a sex play. It sound very kinky, isn’t it? You might have been in a relationship for years, living together or maybe even married. Your relationship status does not make any difference, if you imagine things like this.

One day you start to develop erotic fantasies, or your significant other does. These fantasies include you and someone else outside of your relationship as I stated at above, together in an erotic play. Now what? Should you tell this fantasy of yours to your significant other? If you tell, how will your spouse respond? So there is a lot of risk being  taken here by you… Maybe you will destroy your relationship, or never know, you might make it better and stronger.

Do you remember how great was sex when you and your partner get into the bed first time? It was great and satisfying every time. But since that first time, years past by and sex became routine. So what can you do?

There are 3 ways to go. The first is the simplest and the safest. Pop a porn DVD into your DVD player, turn your fantasy on and start to masturbate. If you want to get kinky, do it in the presence of your spouse. Masturbation provide satisfaction, and you wont get any STD via masturbation.

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The second is safe too: Educate yourself. Learn new love making techniques, new love making positions to enhance your love life. Take love making  to another level. Learn how to be a Sex God. There are millions of things can bring the spark back in your bedroom.

The third option is  dangerous, but it can be the best one. You have to take a walk to the wild site! You have to introduce a third person or even two persons a couple into your relationship. Of course, you have to go step by step.

You need to mention threesome related things, you might look threesome related DVDs together with your partner.  You have to figure out your partner’s  respond. Dos she / he like it? If doesn’t try again and again, or just drop the subject.

But if you think your partner really get into it, or even get turned on by those threesome DVDs than might take the next step,  might go to an erotic party. You don’t need to do anything there, just keep your eyes and mid open. If both of you like what you see, than go again. Than you need to talk a lot about it and maybe find a couple to have first hand info from them,  a couple, who been there done that.

Find a willing couple who can explain how they did it, and what they felt after and how was it.  You can try with a single person, but experienced people believe, the first threesome better with couple. If you made it happen with a couple, there are possibility to try all scenario, mfm, fmf, or any kind if  bi sexual play, if you are into something like that.

To find willing partner fairly easy these days. There are millions of men and women looking for no commitment sex partners, who are into threesomes. Probably even in your neighborhood too. Take a quick look at our sex ads and you will see what I talking about.

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Seriously, just think about it, what would happen if you meet a single guy or girl that you both really like? What about a great couple? What if you introduce them into your bed? What if you share with them your loving relationship? Would it spice  your sex life up? I guess you never know, if you won’t try…

However there are a lot of things that you need to know, before you get down to the erotic action. You do not looking for permanent relationship, you looking for casual sex partner – to share – and to spice your sex life up. You and your spouse run the show. You ask your new friend to join in and when it’s time to move on, you have to know when and how to kiss them good-bye. Because if your relationship is to survive there has to be an exit strategy to be agreed on before your even start.

There are many reasons why a couple will invite another in to their relationship. For example boring routine spousal sex, differences in sex drive erotic fantasies, role plays, hotwifing etc. The number one reason always is  excitement, the feeling of freedom in the spousal relationship and extra intensity of the sex which ends in deep satisfaction all the times. Almost every person who tried it felt like a teenager again…

Is it worth to try? You decide… but if you try, make sure you do it right, because there is no way to make it look like it did not happen.

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