What do you prefer, good sex life or good relationship?

I say nothing is better than great sex in a good relationship. However the definition of good relationship is can be different from person to person. Like great nsa sex relationship, or spousal, maybe marital relationship. We and our  preferences aren’t the same.

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For example I am not into committed relationship and marriage is not on my wish list, it might happen one day and when it happens, I will deal with it, but until I enjoy life, include casual dating.

The Internet destroyed our traditional, or teenagers would say old fashioned   dating habits. In our today’s  on-line dating world  we use social media, texting, online dating, apps, and who knows  what else.

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Even though we can use a lot of tool for find partners new marriages are fewer than ever been before and less baby born year after year. People like me, not marriage “minded” anymore.

On the other site, casual dating, no string attached sex dating booms. Millions of men, women and couples looking for partner to have no string attached, leisure sex. Including myslef, but I am honest about it.

This brings up the question; What is more important, good sex life or good romantic relationship? As I  said above, I take good sex life…

Only those who are idealistic and have high standards when it comes to relationships are the ones who believe that there really is a perfect guy for every woman, and they wait  for that guy for years. Perfect relationships rarely happen in the real world.

I do have a lady friend – coworker. She said her marriage is perfect, and she use battery power to reach orgasm even when she makes love with her husband.

So that is a perfect relationship… Tide up to a man and use battery power to obtain orgasm.

If that happens with me, a man and I, and the guy fail twice to satisfy me, there wont be a third time, I will find someone else.

I believe sex is important part of any relationship, marital or casual makes no difference, if sex is not good, relationship wont work.

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A perfect scenario for this problem is when you are going out with someone who is totally into you. He or she treats you well, gets along fine with your relatives and friends, and both of you have a lot of things in common. Your relationship is perfect, except for one thing: he or she is terrible in bed or is not trying hard to serve your erotic needs.

What are you going to do? Use battery power to obtain orgasm, I would not, casual sex much better. Something unknown, or someone unknown, makes sex more exiting…

The women are usually the ones who often complain about this problem and they chose that battery powered device, help them out, and this women are who ends up visiting and browsing erotic adult dating website. Browsing adult dating ads is the first sign…  she need something more, just a new battery on that hand held device.

Even though sex with your trophy hubby is not as fulfilling as your relationship, ditching your partner is not always the best solution. You can get into casual sex with him, or have affairs, to get sexual satisfaction, or try to  fix your intimate love life with him.

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This problem usually married couple’s problem,   sex issues are worth fixing to make the marriage work. Less-thrilling sex is not a good enough reason to give up a good marriage with your spouse, but a so-so sex life is also an alarming issue that should never be taken for granted.

Remember that a fulfilling, satisfying  love life – sex life is vital to the strength and foundation of any relationship, committed or no committed relationship.  Every one of us have sexual need, if is not get fulfilled at home, or with our permanent partner, than it sooner or later it will cause difficulties in any relationship.

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Or, if you are single, ditch your partner and find someone else, or if both of you are open minded enough, go to a sex club or swingers club. That will make sex life more exiting.

Swingers clubs are all over the place these days. Our partner on-line swingers  magazine have detailed  swingers club – swingers parties’ list, organized by causeries, states, cities. I am sure you can find one close to your city. Continue Reading…

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I am not desperate, not yet, but very frustrated. Let me explain, I am a 28 years old, professional woman, with good carrier, but unfortunately my love live is zero.   I am out of an almost 7+ years long relationship, which is the only one that I can call serious relationship.  It started in my late teen age, and lasted true university.

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I am very busy and have no time to romantic dinners and walk in the park, etc, but I need a man in my live few times a month, A man, a sex friend.

My carrier takes 16-18 hours a day, which is why I don’t have time for  romantic dating so I came to the conclusion that I really want to try this sex friend thing,  casual sex with a sex friend, nothing more, nothing less.

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I am suddenly curious about going into a nightclub and meeting someone just for sex.  And than if we can make happy each other, than maybe develop a  nsa  sex friend relationship.

I have been to various nightclubs before,  with friends and colleagues, but I have never seen/noticed that strangers randomly meet.

Are there specific clubs I need to go to, where there are other men – women who are looking for the same thing?

Or should I keep trying on websites like this?

What should I do? Anyone have any recommendations? Continue Reading…


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I came here for pretty much  the same reason and I can tell you its not easy, but easier than in any nightclub.

In the club you meet someone, and end of the night take him somewhere privet and you have a one night stand.  According to your photos  you are an interactive woman, so it wont be to hard.

However, to have nsa, with a man you just met  few hours earlier is a bad idea. You don’t know he is a rapist or criminal or who really is.

Here you can contact men and you can ask anything before you meet, that you would not ask face to face during your first meeting. The problem is, a lot of fake profiles are here. You need to filter them out.

I am sure you  will find someone here, just be smart… Continue Reading…

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Looks like all professional women comes here including myself for nsa sex partner.

I am member here more than 2 years and I always find what I am looking for, what is more than just get than and have penetrative sex.

One would ask, you are still here? Because, sex friend or not after few ties or few months, it gets boring, routine sex, so need to change.

Find someone at first was hard, but at one pint I figured out how to use this website and from that point it is a piece of cake… Continue Reading…


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The only place you can go and guarantee to find sex partner fast is a swingers  club or a erotic house party.

There is no guarantee you will find a nice man in any night club who will sleep with you after an hour of talking. If you are not picky in any bar you can find man for one night stand, but as it stated above, that is a big risk.

My advice is, browse this website local section, there is a lot of  casual sex related parties and get together listed. I am sure you will find swingers club, or erotic parties, that hosted in in your city. Continue Reading…

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My longtime  boyfriend and I looking for guys for leisure sex. Actually mfm threesome is in our mind and it was my idea. So far we are not lucky at all, because we did not find any compatible man for sex partner.

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Compatible…? In fact we did not find any willing man. It is bothering full… So people suggested  here on this forum or blog or what ever it is, to go to a swingers club and there will be willing men…

I am (embarrassed to say it), but I am naive. I do not like the word swingers, it sounds like a bunch of old fashioned older men from the 1960’s.

I wanna know what exactly I could be getting us into since this was my idea, after all. For instance, I never knew there was more than one swinging style. Anyone willing to help me find out everything I need to find out first? Continue reading...


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I used some points to check your profile out. I have to tell you, you are a very attractive woman and probably you and your boyfriend  know this too.

Beautiful photos. Who made them? A photo artist? And that video… it made me wonder why can’t you find a willing man… and I think I figured it out… The problem is your boyfriend, he does not want to share you with anyone. Probably he said, lets do it, just because he scares, if he say no, than you will make that threesome happen with out him. Am I right? Continue reading...

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Communicate and evaluate. Both must be done constantly. And you are right about the word “Swingers”.

It is an old word, some people call it lifestyle… but I never heard anyone to go to a lifestyle club. It sound like a gym… Swingers club is a swingers club, no any better way to say it…  Continue reading...


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There are no real set rules for “How to Begin” as everyone has there own wants & needs. But I would offer this suggestion. There are clubs or groups most everywhere.

There are some in your city too. I know, I been there… Check out their websites. Do a little
research. Going to a club does NOT obligate you to participate or get involved in anything.

Experienced swingers know that new people are usually wary & uncertain. You can mingle and watch things and see the ebb & flow. You may get some requests to party, but if you’re not ready yet, all that is required is a polite “no thank you”.

Should someone or another couple & situation appeal you can always jump in if and when it feels right. But the main benefit is that you get to go at your own pace, you can meet
like minded people and make connections that can bloom either at the the time or perhaps later.

As Uncle Merle always says, “If you want to be a successful fisherman….it’s best to go where the fish gather”. Continue reading...

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Your profile states it a couple looking for a woman… That is not swinging, that is just a fmf threesome

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This is a sex dating website, catering towards those of us who consider themselves in the  SWINGERS LIFESTYLE. This subject brought upon a great conversation the other day; What does it mean to be in the lifestyle?

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Is it non stop swinging , endless three ways or just the ability to be open minded enough to partake in a sexual adventure when the moment is right.

We are card carrying members of our local swingers club, however we don’t go every weekend  or even every month. When we do go we are open to the idea of meeting a single female or another couple, and or we go with the flow.

Mostly we enjoy the sexual energy of the club. Grinding , rubbing openly and endlessly unashamed and unaware of who is watching just loving every minute of it. With that being said I feel that we are not in the swingers lifestyle and will know when we cross that line.

For now I feel that we are simply loitering with intent…

That is where we stand. We do you stand are you in the lifestyle or are you loitering with intent?

When did you know that you were in the lifestyle ? Are you open about it? Was it swingers lifestyle in your mind?


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I have 3 major problem with your post. At first this website is not only swingers sex dating or for people who are in the swingers lifestyle, or just lifestyle   as you said. If you take a look at Swingers Couples and any of their affiliated web site’s first page, you will see.

They state it: With a community of over 40 million members, Swingers Couples is the largest social network for singles and swingers looking for fun with no strings attached.

Any of our website open to people from all walks of life with one thing in common – the desire to share their sexuality. So you are alredy wrong in your first sentence.

Then you said, you are not in the lifestyle, but you  are member of your local swingers club, and sometimes, on a monthly basic, you are visiting their party. Then you are a swinger, you like it or don’t you are. Maybe you are not a hard core full swap swinger, maybe you are into soft swing only, but that lifestyle activity is swingers thing too… Just the word different.

And then you last me with words loiter and intent: Loiter with intent  definition is: Stand or wait around with the intention of committing an offense. A legal phrase derived from an 1891 Act of Parliament, it is also used figuratively and humorously of anyone who is waiting around for some unspecified purpose.

So you are not in the lifestyle but you are going to the swingers club with the intention of committing an offense…?



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“This is a sex site, catering towards those of us who consider themselves IN THE LIFESTYLE.”

This is 100% wrong. It makes the rest of your question meaningless. The site caters to ADULTS who want to socially network with other ADULTS. Adults, who are here for networking with other adults about things what adults like to do,  and those things include much wider scale activity then lifestyle and swinging. That is only one…


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When did you know that you were in the lifestyle?

I’m NOT. I’m just an adult on an adult dating site looking for male adults who like to do adult things with me.


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Like the last member and has been said time and time again. This site caters to all adults. Not just for horny men, women and couples who want
to fuck and fuck someone else tomorrow. They are welcome here, but many others, with different sexual preferences welcome too.

And what lifestyle are you in? I am in the human lifestyle! And horny men are abundance here, just to get laid.

Well wake up it is for all adults this site does not only cater to horny men, women and couples, we all have different interests and looking for different things. And if you keep looking at this as a lifestyle, for what??

As adults on here we are all looking for different things. My intent is to find a grown man that wants a steady friendship with benefits.

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Interesting that a healthy attitude to casual sex  considered
as lifestyle! Aren’t we all sexual creatures, limited only by our
imagination, libido and the society we are in?

This site enables those who are of age, with net access and probably a more heightened sexual awareness (or still have it!) and an interest to explore or develop sexual  relationships with others in this site…

Acts like some modern-day match-maker, with sex in their mind.

BUT I read lifestyle as an alternative to what rest of society conforms to, alternatives like the BDMS lifestyle, swingers lifestyle, etc al. This could mean that it’s our individual preference(s) and what’s really in our own mind, and our active individual choice and acceptance of what that particular chosen lifestyle entails.


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You may think it is a hard core swingers  sex dating site catering to just those who wish to swing but not everyone sees it that way.

The site is whatever you want it to be and you will find that everyone has their own goals about what they want from the site.

I have my goal and find that the site works for me in helping me reach that goal. And if you want to know what is my goal, what I am looking fro here, read my profile. Actually you should check out some other profiles too, and  than you will realize, the majority of the people here do not looking for swingers sex, even though the website name is swingers couple.


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Your first mistake was assuming that this site caters only for swingers, or that it’s even just a sex site.

It’s “The World’s Largest Sex Dating Site & Swinger Personals Community“, according to the site’s own header. So you should feel free to take whatever part of that you like and make it your own.

If, for you, that means, just swinger sex site, then so be it, but it doesn’t mean we’re all in the same boat.

For me, I’m not “in the lifestyle” at all and have no interest in swinging. I’m not even looking for sex on here anymore. I’m more about the ‘community’ part of it at the moment, and at times the ‘dating’ and ‘personals’ parts appeal.

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We play weekly. But we’d still not be called swingers by most. Its hard to say what is what as so many get mad at the fun others are having. Look at the answers you’ve been getting. This site is not for swingers only, but it does have swingers too.  Everyone can find any kind of sexual activity, partner for sexual activity here. Think your trouble is where you are living.

As for us knowing we are in the swinging life style. We get called all kinds of things, some say swingers others say not swingers. It is just a word, who cares about words. We party weekly as there are just so many fun people looking for adult meetings.

Remember swingers are looked down on. That said most people having fun are looked down on. Lots think that its really hard to have weekly fun, its NOT. Just have to stay away from all looking down on it. People that are unfriendly to it avoid.

There are weekly erotic parties in most cities. Free weekly sex parties…  You just need to get in with the right people and when people look down on fun avoid them. Look for people with an open mind.

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I really want to have a threesome, but men always chickens out or looks like I am always at the wrong place at the wrong time… My first threesome just don’t want to assemble… Something always  come up and one guy from the two wont show…

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I am so hot at the idea of a m-f-m  threesome but have no idea how to start it, or where to meet people. On this site, people seem kinda pushy than don’t show. I can not get it…

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So what can I do, to make it happen? Continue Reading…



I don’t know why you are having a problem meeting anyone.. It’s my first day and I’ve got 6 messages and I have no pic in my profile yet… gee I wonder what I wrote,  better go get a glimpse. Continue Reading…

Neednitbad; I don’t have shorties of messages… I got a lot of them, but I select a few (local men, or who live close by) I met them, and they not show…. as soon they find out I need them, want them for threesome..


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You stated in your profile you are bi. Try to find a couple who are looking for bi women… If it’s couples you seek, you should have no problems really.

Most couples are looking for a single women. Than when you get some experience with that couple, you can ask them to introduce you to an other couple… one of their play mate.

So that would be two couples… with two experienced men. I am sure, they will make your threesome happen. Continue Reading…



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It seems highly unlikely that you would fail to find just what you are looking for here on this site.

Actually, if you are willing to play with a couple, than you are quite the prize here. That doesn’t mean you can sit back and not get actively involved in finding your goal.

Don’t stand for pushy people. Just tell them they blew their chance with you because they are pushy jerks.

In no time, you will find a nice couple to have your threesome experience with and you can decide after that if its for you or not. Continue Reading…

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It’s not a good idea to generalize. Not all members of this site are
pushy. There are people here from all walks of life.

However, it’s about you.  A couple is your best change to try it first with. You have to be comfortable with a couple you choose to have a threesome with. This means first meeting
the people in a neutral setting and seeing if there’s any chemistry between all of you. In terms of finding people, you could search for groups in your area.

I am sure you will succeed here to make your dream to reality. Continue Reading…


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You can search through the different groups in your area for like minded people. Also do a search for type of person/s you are interested in and read the profiles that come up.

As a woman you shouldn’t be shy about making the first contact with anyone. Continue Reading…


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My suggestion is to search the local section of this site and find a reputable swingers club in your area. It’s a good place to meet people who might be up for what you want to do, they are usually safe places, and generally the people at them know that no means no.

I’m sure there are couples on this site who may well be interested in you, so many seem to be looking for women, but it’s a bit tougher and not as easy as a swingers club would be for a woman who are like you, into threesome. Continue Reading…


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I know what you are talking about. I am exactly in the same situation. A lot of looser men here… big mouth and no action. Looks  like sex parties are a good choice…

I’m at that stage where sexually I’m curious. I would like to try a threesome with men too.

However, I don’t want an intimate attachment. Meaning I only want them as NSA sex partners. I’ve been told by a good friend that I should try going to some private parties where I can loosen up and become comfortable with my desires and at the same time feel safe.

So I just might search to the local adult establishment on this site… as suggested at above for you… and I will go for it too. Continue Reading…