What makes casual sex so attractive for married couples?

Married couples try casual sex and they might end up in a swingers club. Why? What is about swinging that keep married couples share their marital sex life with others?

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No string attached sex can be fun and pleasure, with other words casual sex a  lot of erotic fun, if done properly.

Oh, you are not married, you are single, but you are here to find a man woman couple for nsa sex.  It might happen, but it takes time, however before you get into this “lifestyle”, you should  know few things.  The most important is; What you should expect if you find that couple?  Keep reading and you will find it out based on our experience.

When a man – woman couple get into casual sex, usually they try to find an other couple or a extra partner. The gender of that partner depends on their preferences and on their erotic fantasy.  If their first  nsa sex experience turn to be a positive, then they might try few more times. If they want more,  they might end up visit swingers clubs.  People go to swingers club for the same reason, which is, to have sex…

New couples usually into no string attached sex plays  2 – 3 years and then they take a break. In a lot of cases this break is the end of their shared or nsa sex play, however if they get back into the lifestyle, then they will stay for many more years.

I, as a male part of the couple don’t know for sure why women love to have sex with different men,  so I can’t tell you that, you better ask my wife. But I know why I love it, but its bring up  another question that I should talk about first.

The question is; Why does married men loves other women’s pussy?

It is simple, boring marital sex life, fun factor, more experienced woman, safe sex and 80% of sexually active men always want new pussy. The rest of them, that 20% want it too, but they lie about it, even for themselves.   New toys, new pussy… I guess its men’s things.

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We as a couple got into casual sex because the sparks disappeared from our  marital love life.  Our relationship was and is in secure and we love each other more then ever, but sex was not the same anymore.  Love making became dirty work. We knew, we need to make some changes, to bring those sparks back into our bedroom. So we tried nsa, we loved it, in fact ever since we are loving it.

The basic idea originate from my wife. Once upon a time,  one night we talked about everything at the front of the TV, include our neighbor.  She was a divorced lady and she had a lover, half of her age. Than my wife said something like, she was wondering how sex would be with a man who is young enough to be our son.  We have no child, our business was more important then children, so there is no ethical question if and what will happen if our children finds it out…

Anyways, I told to her, you never gonna find it out, if you never try… She agreed, she said you are right, I never going to find out. But no one can predict the future… The subject like a ghost kept come back again and again, usually when the neighbor’s lover’s car parked on her driveway. Than one day I told to her she should find a  willing young man. She said she doesn’t think I can handle it, well I wasn’t sure how will I handle it, but I told to her we will find out if time comes…  However there was one condition, I want to be there in the same room, I want to see all.

Than she agreed she will try, so we registered to this adult dating website and started our search.  Even though there are more men the women here, its not easy to find the right man. We had hours of video chat and more than few coffee dates, and months passed by and nothing happened, the guys did not show up for the second date.  Than we changed our tactic, video chat, coffee date and if there is some attraction,  we go to a hotel room. It started very promising,  but the first guy could not get it hard. The second blow his load before he got naked…

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Than we found a man. A young guy, 15 years younger than my wife,  he hold university degree, he is very polite, easy going, we can talk about anything and everything with him and for bonus, he was and he is a good sex partner. Our casual sex journey began with him. We developed a sex friendship with him, in fact he introduced his girlfriend to us  and let me tell you, I thought his girlfriend have the sweetest pussy that I ever tasted…  Our friendship is still ongoing, we still get together every now and than, but we and they play with others too.

Than we ended up in a swingers club, and my wife had sex with two men in a hotel room after the club hours. That was very erotic, I love to see her while being pleased by two men at the same time. Of course I had my share of fun too, somehow always is the latest pussy is the best pussy.  When I see my beautiful wife, while other man’s hard cock dug deep into her love tunnel, and I play with that man’s wife or partner, it always makes me want more pussy.  It always makes me teenager again,  its something like you are teenager again and you can perform better and more and teenagers don’t need Viagra… Plus as time goes  quantity replaced by quality, because of experience, so nsa sex made me a better lover.

There is nothing better than watch my wife during sex. Its always turn me on. I love to see her erect nipple in other guy’s mouth, I love to see her moaning with pleasure as sliding up and down other man’s erected shaft. Between two intercourse a big turn on for me, just to see her entertain or being entertained by one or two men, its always give me a hard on.

But there are many other reason, for example, for a mfm threesome you need two men and a woman.  Continue reading…

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I had broken up with my long-term boyfriend when I catch him having sex with two of my best girlfriends at the same time. One of them had her pussy plopped onto his face, while the other was giving him a blowjob. Continue reading…

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According to the author the next story just happened with him, last Saturday, which was Easter’s Saturday.

He stated, he changed the names and twisted the story line a little bit. However it is his work and it is copyrighted by him. He is not a professional writer, he is just an every day’s hard working man like you or me…

All rights reserved. If you have any related questions, you can contact me by email,  twoj2006-jj at yahoo.com. Thank you for your consideration.

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My wife Terry and I are “confirmed” swingers. Through our 8 years of marriage sex became boring. We wanted to spice marital sex up, wanted to expand our horizons and started to swing. Since that time we have great sex with each other again, just like we used t have in our teen years.

Every now and then we go to the local swingers club or search the Internet to find willing couples or bi sexual ladies to play with us. Today, Easter’s Saturday we invited one of my wife x – schoolmate to the club. Over there not much happened, it was kind of slow and a boring night, there was only few couples. I guess people busy with family at Easter time… We had nothing better to do, so we played, flirted with each other. However everything changed when we got to our place.

We hardly got in the house and we were already in the  playing mood. I eased Terry’s (Terry is my wife) dress off over her head, revealing a low-cut bra and panties. Running my hands down her slender body, I appreciated her gentle curves and her feminine but muscular body.  She is a workout maniac.

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Then I took her underwear off, kissed her round, hard-nipple breasts. I touched her shaved beaver too. I tried to make it look like an accident, but she know me, I could not fool her. Well after this intro I was getting ready for an entertaining fuck. I was going to screw my wife in the hope her friend Katy will join in. Something like this has happened before.

Hey you, don’t rush, Terry said. My friend needs some attention, too.

I realized that I have to bang my wife and her bestgirlfriend too…

At that time I realized that, this Easter Saturday going to be my lucky night, because the ladies have a plan. I will have to bang my wife and her very sexy x schoolmate too. So I repeated the process with Katy, undressing her and stroking her warm very sexy body. Then I got rid off my clothes in a flash. My cock sprang out, it was already ready for some erotic activity. I was really horny and for a short moment I wondered if I could satisfy them both. The two ladies did not hesitate at all, they sandwiched me and navigated me into the bedroom.

I rolled on a rubber, while the two naked women lay back on the mattress. Both of them started to use their fingers to tickle their clits erect.

Fuck me! Terry urged.  Fuck us! Corrected her Katy.

I did not need any more fore play, we were kissing and touching each other half the night and in the taxi on the way to our place, so I just wanted to do what they ask me too.

I was going to start with my wife, but she had a different idea. Guests first – she told me. Well she did not have to ask me twice, I slid my hard cock into her x classmate’s beautiful, wet pussy. It was slick and tight, like every guy’s dream. A few years back we had sex, but she has changed a lot in a positive way since that time.

She lifted her hip up to give me easier access to her vulva, I started to give it to her really deep and hard. In the mean time my wife played with my testicles from behind. I know it wouldn’t take me long to cum. I slowed down and tried to organize my concentration, kind of paced myself, because  Terry was horny too. So after a slow  minute or so, I changed condoms and switched to her. I know her pussy very well and it fits me like the right size condom.

I was more than happy to try to make orgasm  both of them.

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I kept switching back and forth, and kept changing condoms. Changing condoms takes time and I was able to cool down a bit in the changing process.

Our threesome got hotter and hotter. I was screwing one and playing with the other’s boobs or the other sucked my balls. After a while the one who didn’t have my cock was asking for it. I was more than happy to take care of both of them.

Terry’s body went rigid, her breasts shook, and her pretty blonde head thrashed around. I’m Cumming! She said and pushed her pussy up to my pubic bone. I trusted one more time and she had a mind blowing orgasm.

I  changed to Katy immediately, however at this time I did not change condoms, I went down on her and started to tongue fuck her. It did not take a minute and she reached the orgasm too with a very feminine moan.
Oh, my! You are a sex god, she said.

I knew that I don’t have to hold back anything any longer, but they asked me to try to control myslef. They wanted to play and did play a  little game with me – on me. They blindfolded and laid me down on my back and ride on me, like a cow girl.

I wasn’t allowed to touch any of their body parts and I had to guess which one was banging me. Let me tell you it was a lot of fun, especially when they changed condoms. We used more than a few…. It wasn’t easy, but I know my wife’s pussy, so I was on the top of their game.

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Christmas Sex parties, swingers parties

The time is always right for a sex party, but sometimes some people need to find a reason for partying. Being horny is a good enough reason for me, but if you one of those people, than Christmas and the Holiday Season is a pretty good reason to turn to be wild…

Of course you can celebrate Christmas with family or you can celebrate it in a swingers club, or even better you can host your own party.

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If you are like me, you can celebrate it in a swingers club with family.  My family is small, just my husband and I. Our family tradition is,  we spend Christmas Eve  with our parents, New Years Eve with our  friends, preferable naked.

There is nothing better list not for us, than a really good  sex party at New Years Eve, I wont call it Swingers Sex party, because at New Years Eve a lot of non swingers into sex partying. I am not sure what make the different for them… for me a sex party is a sex party,  does not matter if it is New Years Eve or Holiday Season, or just a party with sex friends, the target is orgasm, preferable multiple orgasm, with more than one sex partner…

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Anyways, those non swingers want to have nsa sex at New Years Eve, but after that they portent, like hey are very religioues   and they never had casual sex with anyone, that is against their religion…

I wont call myslef swinger or our self swinger couple, (we been there done that) swinging is more than just have nsa sex, but I can tell we are open minded and we love each other and we love sex and not just with each other…

But this is not swinging, even though list once a month we  visit swingers club, it doe not mean we  have penetrative sex  with strange people or front of  strange people, no we go there, we have some “social” life (way better then social life via Facebook) meet some friends and after the party is over we might go somewhere privet  and have our very own party…

But New Years Eve is different.  A New Years Eve Sex party usually a really big sex party… It is fact we are ready for it…

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My longtime  boyfriend and I looking for guys for leisure sex. Actually mfm threesome is in our mind and it was my idea. So far we are not lucky at all, because we did not find any compatible man for sex partner.

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Compatible…? In fact we did not find any willing man. It is bothering full… So people suggested  here on this forum or blog or what ever it is, to go to a swingers club and there will be willing men…

I am (embarrassed to say it), but I am naive. I do not like the word swingers, it sounds like a bunch of old fashioned older men from the 1960’s.

I wanna know what exactly I could be getting us into since this was my idea, after all. For instance, I never knew there was more than one swinging style. Anyone willing to help me find out everything I need to find out first? Continue reading...


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I used some points to check your profile out. I have to tell you, you are a very attractive woman and probably you and your boyfriend  know this too.

Beautiful photos. Who made them? A photo artist? And that video… it made me wonder why can’t you find a willing man… and I think I figured it out… The problem is your boyfriend, he does not want to share you with anyone. Probably he said, lets do it, just because he scares, if he say no, than you will make that threesome happen with out him. Am I right? Continue reading...

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Communicate and evaluate. Both must be done constantly. And you are right about the word “Swingers”.

It is an old word, some people call it lifestyle… but I never heard anyone to go to a lifestyle club. It sound like a gym… Swingers club is a swingers club, no any better way to say it…  Continue reading...


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There are no real set rules for “How to Begin” as everyone has there own wants & needs. But I would offer this suggestion. There are clubs or groups most everywhere.

There are some in your city too. I know, I been there… Check out their websites. Do a little
research. Going to a club does NOT obligate you to participate or get involved in anything.

Experienced swingers know that new people are usually wary & uncertain. You can mingle and watch things and see the ebb & flow. You may get some requests to party, but if you’re not ready yet, all that is required is a polite “no thank you”.

Should someone or another couple & situation appeal you can always jump in if and when it feels right. But the main benefit is that you get to go at your own pace, you can meet
like minded people and make connections that can bloom either at the the time or perhaps later.

As Uncle Merle always says, “If you want to be a successful fisherman….it’s best to go where the fish gather”. Continue reading...

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Your profile states it a couple looking for a woman… That is not swinging, that is just a fmf threesome

Plus you are talking about find a man here… on your profile you are looking for women… Maybe your boyfriend changed your profile with out your knowledge…

So the first step would be, update your profile and talk with your boyfriend. Maybe his needs and your fantasy does not match… Continue reading...

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Would you like to become a swinger for have nsa sex? Did you say yes? Have you done anything about it? Apparently lately some people have problem with the word swing, swinging, swingers. You can call how ever you want, the name doesn’t count.

These names comes from their erotic actions, and what they do about their sexual fantasies. They try to make their fantasies reality.  Not to long ago in regular everyday life, sex used to be something between two people who were in love. (I wrote regular everyday life – prostitution does not count into the category regular).

In our today’s modern society most of the people can tell the difference between sex and love. Love is something very personal – between two people. We do make love with our partner who we are in love with all our hearts. Love making – with out love is sex only.  Sex can be something leisure.

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Leisure – having a great time, leisure sex. To having a great time you do not need to love your partner. You just need to find something sexy in your partner, something that turn you on. Swingers say need to have chemistry.

Today’s people (men – women) are extremely busy. Work, family – kids, business, trainings. Couples sex lives are becoming routine and boring. Then comes casual sex or swinging. Swinging is an erotic activity that can spices up the boring sex lives.

Swinging is not necessary mean intercourse with a bunch of horny people. There are many kind of swingers and swinger activity. The swinging lifestyle is about sharing sexual fantasies with your partner. This lifestyle can only work for committed couples that are secure in their relationships and have open and direct communication with each other.

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It is fact some people get into swinging, because fantasizing sex with multiply partners. This is the only chance for selected singles to join in. So if you are one of those singles,  read our casual sex tips for new couples & singles who want to swing.

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